I am surprised her husband didn't make an appearance to her job... thats one of those situations where you go to shake the guys hand, give him that strong firm I will break your hand squeeze while looking in his eyes to say "you should back off the comments to my wife".
That's OG killa shit right there lol They don't make them like that anymore Dude left him a few Facebook/twitter messages instead
smdh, he must be soft cause there is no way my wife would go through that. I'd be seeing $$$, walk up in there with my phone on voice record, wishing he would say something back to me for use in court.
I wish I knew what I know now about this stuff and HR. One of my first corp jobs I remember my boss saying "hey black boy", few days later they let me go with a nice severance pay, little did I know I could've gotten more out of them had I not signed the paper saying I wouldn't come after them for anything.... you live, you learn.
yeah man, when it happened, I was so happy to be making 6 figures after owning my own business for so long, I let it slide. Never again...
Not sure how I am supporting them, please enlighten me when they don't even know I exist. Still enamored with every post I make I see.... Victory.
Could you clarify this, please? Not for me it wouldn't. I say the same thing across the board. This world is harsh, you have to have a tougher skin than that. All she has to do is start cracking back at them and they will leave her alone. White boys like that can't handle being made fun of or made to feel inferior. Or, her man could show up at work and, as buglerroller said, shake a few hands. They'll chill. I'd do that after work though. Say at the bar they all go to or in the parking lot as I was "helping her carry her things to the car." You don't have to do anything violent. Just shake their hands firmly and vigorously. Then mention that your wife has had problems with some of the guys at work but she wouldn't tell you who. If you're talking to her boss, ask if he could do you a solid and look into stopping it. Thank him for his time, shake his hand again firmly then look him dead in his eyes and, "Great meeting you. I'll see you again." Shit will end right there. But, it would be better if she handled it herself. It's a game of strategy in these situations. If a person is going through this kind of thing, playing the long game will ensure that he, or she, is the winner when it's all said and done. But, it's cool. Keep knee jerk reacting to stuff like this. Nothing feels better than short term gain.
Why the f should she do what you said? Why should he? What if her boss refuses to shake his hand, then what? This isn't the street. It's work. Business. Her living. She asked them to stop. They ignored it. So now she had to play dirty back in the only language they understand - the pocket. You go on record, you put them on blast, you make them pay - you think these frat boy jerks would quiver if she jokes back like you suggest she should have done instead? Puleeze. What makes those types quiver is a meeting with the top brass and investors on WTF are they doing. Bottom line, you nip the shit in the bud, asap.
Honesty that shit sounds like some Hollywood fantasy shit Roller and you suggested. I would laugh in whoevers face if they approached me on that tip fire there girl on the basis of having guests on company property and get the cops involved for him trespassing on private property. Unless this woman has some hard concrete proof of harassment, case tossed.... Deservedly because she didn't speak up for anyone else when they were being harassed until it got to her. (I'm assuming)
Smh. Glad you got something at least. My ex-bf, whose name begins with a T and ends with y...he started a new corporate job. His manager damn well knew his name, but would call him "TOBY". Even after correcting him several times, he'd 'forget' and call him TOBY again. It wasn't the only questionable behavior, either. My ex is 6ft 3, 200 pds...he wanted to clock him but instead he documented it and eventually got the final say.