Why? The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men

I have to call BS on all this, "WW are the top of the crop and so are BM, so naturally, they go together" crap; I know an equal amount of beautiful BW/BM/WM/WW...so whoever on here: white, black, purple who believe that WW have this diocese of beauty that any other race can't achieve and inversely that BM have this indescribable "masculine charm" and what not (well, some do), you are all playing yourself and it pisses me off when peopke make these crazy statments. You want it to be acceptable for you to date whomever, which would in effect help stop the widespread prejudice and deeply grained racism in this, and any nation; but then you make these outlandish statments that WW are so much more beautiful, and BM have everything you need? It's actually a little contradictory to your arguments. I also hate when BM say, well a WW relates to me better and she stands by me; my mother is 100% black and stood by my Irish-white father when he didn't have a job, struggled through college, and then law school, whatever he needed, she was right there; how dare you make these statements? Also, to the WW, a White guy has everything a BM has, because we are created as individuals, not as a lump of a particular race. So, when we are stating our attractions to one and other, let's just stick to our personal experiences, if you as a WW love the skin on a black man, that's whats up; there is nothing better than the taught skin on a very tall dark-skinned man; but if you just think they can "mack" better, you are setting yourself up. I know I sound very negative, but lately, my race has been coming up in my love life and it's beginning to piss me off.

 

That's a great point BlackMaster. :wink:

 

why the attraction? oh well, from a historical standpoint black men and white women have always shared a subconcious flagging of.....

who am i kidding? i have a penis, they have a vagina.
now, if you could get rid of that corny and gaudy flashy football girl maybe i could see you as real man.

 

I just like a lot of things about white women overall. 8)

 

Why do I like bm? Oh geeze, well, there was never some wonderful moment of zen that lead me to that conclusion. I have had the opportunity to take classes in American History, Female Pschology, Masculinity and a plethora of Africology classes - so I SHOULD know! lol

I hate to say it, but my love for bm it is one of the few things that I haven't quantified or picked apart. It just feels so right that I personally choose not to analyze it.

Sorry, I guess I didn't really answer your question, but that is my two cents

 

Sometimes you can't put things into words. Some things are just the way they are, and we shouldn't feel pressured to explain why we like ww/bm. For those who don't understand it, too bad.

 

+ 10 for netdogg