Why? The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men

I think my attraction comes from simple masculinity. Not in some "superiority" sense, but I do thing that as a society we promote images of white women as the ideal of feminity. Virtually all of our super models and actresses are white. While our symbols of masulinity tend to be pro sports figures. A large protion of which are Black men.

It is no wonder growning up in this culture that we all would come to see white women and black men as the more desireable women and men respectively.

Of course, I will not lie. The sexual rumors about Black men did arouse a curiosity in me too. (I doubt I am alone on that count!)

 

This is why In positive about IR. WW are at the top of the beauty pyramis, so to speak. And many BM are showing how they excel in many areas of life, particularly sport. So I agree th ideal combination is the beautiful WW and the masculine BM.

 

My reason, physical attraction. On Tuesday, I ran into a really good looking WW at the grocery store. She was very, I mean VERY good looking an incredibly curvy (to the 25th power ), all the guys just stared as she pushed her trolley by (I was so funny).

 

First of all Ronja,I don't expect you to admit to me where you come from. You have e-mailed me and even though I have it I never used it to demand a reponse. Never I once mention the name of one of those two Nordic states. I wonder since you know much on Africa that your country was involved in the Transatlantic Slave Trade. I hope you had researched it.

 

funny coz its true

 

I can't speak for other men, I can only speak for myself.

The attraction to the woman I'm with now at first was physical. I liked her body type, curvy with a nice round booty. I figured I'd just hit it a few times and be done with her. From the very first night we had sex, we were very much sexually compatible. Both liked the same positions, we both had stamina and liked long sex sessions. The first time we had sex, she stayed the whole night and we ended up having sex four different times that night.

So at first it was a physical attraction but once I got to know her what did it for me was her feminity. Her attitude, the way she walks, the way she does certain things. She is a female who knows who she is if that makes any sense. We are both college educated but she is smarter than I am, she is more of a deep thinker.

Its her feminity that just drives me wild sometimes, have my stomach tied in knots. I really don't know why that is. Its just a natural reaction for me. We could be having sex and she would say or do something that would get my heart ponding so fast, its like I'm having a heart attack.

Now, I'm an athlete and love the physical contact sports like football and basketball. I'm the kind of person who goes to the gym every morning at 6am and lift weights, run or swim BEFORE starting my work day. Even though I have an engineering degree, working in an office is not me, I like being in the field. I'm more of a rugid, aggressive type male.

So I guess coming home to something nice and soft is what I need. She must complete that feminine side of me that I'm lacking elsewhere in my life, I don't know. She understands me a lot of times and have no problem with me being a man. Sometimes when we're having sex, I like to man-handle her, flip her over a couple of times and just have my way with her, just take it from her kind of. Like you've been locked up for a while and she is the first woman you've had in a long time. She has no problem with me when I'm like that, she loves it even.

 

Man, you sound like a broken record. Your agenda is pretty clear, so why don't you lay off? You have a high self esteem, love your white gf, realize there's a limited dating pool for those interested in IR, and "don't give a hoot" about what anyone else thinks. We've got it. Chill out.

 

:lol:

 

Sarah and blackmale...that is one of the most racist thing I have ever heard. Why don't you just say that you are attracted to WW or BM and leave it at that? Are you going to tell me that Ellen Degeneres is more attractive than Kerry Washington?

The only thing worse than some WW ranting about her superiority to BW and lauding the physical virtues of BM is some BM singing "amen" from the rear.

Talk about generalizations and sterotypes...

 

Im just stating the fact/the reality, that ww are seen as being the template of beauty.That is the commonly held view. And most supermodels ARE white. But that is not to say that we should see ourselves as superior. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

 

I feel the same way about interracial relationships. There's so much to learn from each other and it's so beautiful. To me, learning about someone else and trying new thing is HOT

 

I hope that you have figured out that those rumors are not really true...some men do fit the rumor, but others have come up short (haha) in my experience.

 

Very nicely put. I agree.

 

White women are the template in a WHITE society.

What you said was "white women are at the top of the beauty pyramid...," which is different from what you said just now. And of course it would be a commonly held view when almost 50% of the US population is white. And white magazines (elle, csomo, and so on), which are controled by WHITES, would create the demand for WHITE (super)models because thats what their WHITE audience are most comfortable with. (Which is why hispanic mags. feature hispanics, etc.)

 

WW are also very often considered templates of beauty amongst black viewers. Just look at the mens room. And ww feature prominently in porn. Its not just a whites opinion.

 

Ehm sorry Sarah but I have to give you a DUH here.... the men on this site like WW... so naturally they post pics of ww they like.

Whichever it is that promotes the latest in beauty standards, the ones we admire are always at the top of their list. Heidi Klum, Naomi Campbell, Padma Lakshmi, Eva Longoria are in my opinion all women which are extremely beautiful and perfect (perfect bodies, skin, shape of their face, lips etc.) there is nothing average about these women.

 

Word for word I would have to agree here.

 

Likewise.

 

White society is based up on white rules. White women are the mothers in this society and thus she is deemed to be the epitome of THIS SOCIETY. Now it seems some young bucks have co-opted THIS mentality ,and actually consider her to be the epitome of beauty in ALL HUMANITY...which is usually not the case. I have nothing agaisnt white women or anything cuz i wouldnt be here if that was teh case. But some of you niggas are fuckin trippin...Women are women where ever you go. In fact ive seen similar features on women of different races, and they were all extremely beautiful. The only thing that separarated them was pigmentation. The high cheekbones, and smooth facial skin, cat shaped eyes, and proportional facial structure will make any woman look pretty......



^^I could paint her white and shed still be a pretty woman. In fact she looks like a pretty white woman I know.......

 

^^Ditto.