Out of all the men who date interracially, why do black men get most of the stereotypes (even within their own race)? When black men date outside the box, he's considered a sell out. If he's successful and married outside his race, people say he's abandoning the black community. They say white women are only with black men for the money, sex, or to piss off their parents. And non-black men always say they would never date anyone who's been with a black man It is so freaking frustrating, stressful, and confusing. It seems like society doesn't want black men to find love anywhere. Why is that?
Seriously- I had to laugh, when I’ve seen your name „Goofman“. I don’t know, if it means the same in English as it means in German.. but that self-irony made me responding Anyway- in general you can never fulfill everybody’s wish. Concentrate on your own goal, your own life and priorities. It’s not important, what people think, you don’t even know. Be focused, become successful in that what you do . Don’t hang in that net of lies, stereotypes, prejudices and all that nonsense. I know several black men, girls of all races run after them and men of different races would wish to be as they are.