This is what I keep saying in 400 threads! (not all directed to Andrae, but to that type of stuff in general)
well i mean the initial question posed was why do nice guys get dissed. and then later the thought is nice guys finish last but not first. so i am questioning is it that it takes too long for a nice guy to find the right gal, or what. like what's the issue. that the nice guy can't run through women like the bad boy? is that what a nice guy even wants to do??
very good question . i believe nice guys should show ( according to women ) to show more guts. Like DR. laura stated in her book ( 10 things men do to ruin their lives) women want nice men they just want men to stand up for themselves and be real.
No. And that's why I like nice guys. :smt023 Just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he has to be a doormat. There are plenty of guys who treat women well and can stand up for themselves. I think that's a big misunderstanding about nice guys. They're nice because they treat women well, but it doesn't mean they're pushovers.
i tell everybody, i am not nice i'm just honest and cordial. i have manners and believe in treating people fair, so it may appear at times that i'm mr nice guy. but people will mistake kindness for weakness all too quick, so it is imperative to have some edge to one's personality. need to be a round character. gotta have survival skills in the concrete jungle.
