why nice guys get dissed ?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Feb 21, 2010.

  1. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    This is what I keep saying in 400 threads!
    (not all directed to Andrae, but to that type of stuff in general)
    :)
     
  2. AdventurSum

    AdventurSum New Member

    true. and what is the prize when you finish first in this scenario?
    hmm...
     
  3. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    you get what you deserve ?
     
  4. AdventurSum

    AdventurSum New Member

    well i mean the initial question posed was why do nice guys get dissed. and then later the thought is nice guys finish last but not first. so i am questioning is it that it takes too long for a nice guy to find the right gal, or what. like what's the issue. that the nice guy can't run through women like the bad boy? is that what a nice guy even wants to do??
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    very good question . i believe nice guys should show ( according to women ) to show more guts. Like DR. laura stated in her book ( 10 things men do to ruin their lives) women want nice men they just want men to stand up for themselves and be real.
     
  6. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    No. And that's why I like nice guys. :smt023

    Just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he has to be a doormat. There are plenty of guys who treat women well and can stand up for themselves.

    I think that's a big misunderstanding about nice guys. They're nice because they treat women well, but it doesn't mean they're pushovers.
     
  7. AdventurSum

    AdventurSum New Member

    i tell everybody, i am not nice i'm just honest and cordial. i have manners and believe in treating people fair, so it may appear at times that i'm mr nice guy. but people will mistake kindness for weakness all too quick, so it is imperative to have some edge to one's personality. need to be a round character. gotta have survival skills in the concrete jungle.
     
  8. goodlove

    goodlove New Member


    darn skippy partner. as long as people put an eye on their lips then it wont get smacked.
     
  9. GirlieGirl74

    GirlieGirl74 Well-Known Member

    Ding, ding, ding. We have a winner!!! :D
     
  10. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    Its because they don't stand up for anything!



    Not even the national anthem.
     
  11. goodlove

    goodlove New Member


    if you dont stand for something you will fall for anything
     

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