Why is it that BM who date WW in the south lose all their "brotha points"

You do lose brotha points, but its not your fought per se, its just the generalization that black men who chill with white women don't find black women as appealing, so black women don't fck with them.

 

Hey All-

I had a black woman come confront me about being with a black man, mind you we weren't together like that. he's one of my closest friends, and unleashed on me how all us white "bitches" are taking their men. i personally don't see it as taking their men, it's not like we're begging them, it's all about preference in my eyes. not to say all black women, but most of them are just downright racist towards white women in general. i have many black female friends and they talk about this stuff all the time. black women feel that we're stepping into their territory, and all the oppression that they talk about they are causing by being so standoffish to white females. they accuse of racism, when they're doing the same thing. i personally have no problem with anyone and if i want to date a black man, or any other ethnicity i'm going to. my life ain't got nothing to do with anyone else's and like we were taught when we were younger, you got nothing nice to say then don't say anything at all. i think all it will eventually end up doing is make more white women go for the black man because we can, and it will be like look what i got and you don't kind of game. it's all ridiculous. that's just my opinion.. i certainly don't expect anyone to agree with me.

 

Well that's fortunate.

 

quite fortunate

it's fortunate that i don't expect people to agree with me? i love close minded people, and it really doesn't bother me that you want to agree or disagree, i said all of that was opinion and i'm not hateful to anyone.

obviously more people should adapt to that train of thought and try living in harmony for once instead of trying to pick a person apart for their thoughts and beliefs or opinions.

 

And then the magical fairy princess on the rainbow unicorn will come and give you 8 shiny pennies, left under you pillow, to replace such wondrous brotha points.




Oh right, they don't exist either.

 

Nobody's picking anyone apart, that's a gross overreaction.

You stated:

I object to what you said, hence my reply. People are not games to be played, BM are not prizes to be had, WW are not able to have any BM we want, and gloating is rude.

Think what you like, say what you like, and I will do the same.

 

lol awesome. i don't really see brotha points or anything like that... i don't think it should be a concern... i mean it's their choice to date white or whatever ethnicity a woman is...

 

oh no!! i wasn't saying that you were picking me apart, it was just a generalized reference. i wouldn't say that unless i knew you..

and to the second part, i think some women would be like that. some women are incredibly catty and vindictive, as are men. you would hope that someone wouldn't actually act or think like that, but stranger things have happened...

 

Oh no, you didnt! I was told I was game and a prize to be had! I refuse to believe otherwise. Dammit does that mean I've been lied to again?

 

Actually BW do lose points, I was dating a white guy and brothas would look at me strange, one even said that he thought I was attractive till he found out I dated white guys. Guess it didn't help that my next serious relationship was with a hot latino guy. But I am very selective, so when me and the hot latino guy broke up and I vowed to never fall deep in love again a lot of time passed and I've since been dating a black man who I am super crazy about. Some black men even today would say to me that they did not know I was into black guys since they saw me do the back to back combo. Did I mention that the latino guy was super hott? lol

 

Unfortunately it's somewhat typical, not backwards.

I'd think if she's sexy enough, might make it worse.

Some have a serious grudge when it comes to BM fucking "their" women, yet no one could give two shits if they want to date AW.

 

I didn't know white women were bothered by white men dating AW

 

Your reading comprehension skills leave a lot to be desired, or maybe it's just that you intentionally try to distort everything you read?

 

this is not the first time someone has popped up the idea of white men dating AW, it seems strange since WM date a variety of women, I didn't think WW were keeping score

 

LMAO! That's all I can do....

Thank you as always Espy....


SMH...

 

I don't recall seeing anyone state they were keeping score. It is generally mentioned as being the most well accepted IR couple, but other than pointing that out, I don't believe anyone dwells on it.

 

huh??? How did you get there from ESPYs post????

 

Girl, you really take EVERYTHING out of context and interpret it freely.
Also, you seem to have different rules for everybody else here, compared to rules for yourself in regards to this.

I dont know a ww who gives two shits about wm dating non ww.

 

She has trollnel vision...