Why is it so hard for you women to simply say i'm not attracted to you and...

I think it really helps to define what it is you are going for first. Then go find those who are really successful at achieving whatever it is you are wanting to gain and do the things they did or advise to do.

For example: If one is interested in creating a relationship, it's probably not the best idea to go ask advice from a playa.

 

I'm far far from a playa. Lol

Trust me there's nothing playa playa about me at all. I've been married, besides that I've been in several ltr. Such as one for 7yrs and the other 4 yes and I'm not talking about the woman I married.

I've been with several women but im far from a playa.

No matter what relationship you want you still have to be able to handle the situation

 

Like I said.... Not willing to adjust.

You can't keep doing the same thing expecting different results.

 

Interesting that you thought I was talking about you. I wasn't. I was providing an example, it was not about anyone on here.

I could have said something like - if you are looking to build your portfolio, you would probably do best to consult someone who is a successful investor rather than a con artist...

(You missed the point)

 

My bad.

You would be shocked at how people would think that's being a playa with that type of advice or say the guys would give the advice something like.. One way to stay out of the friend zone (depending on the situation) is to be up front about your intentions (say it smoothly of course) and people would scream you trying to be a playa. I have to give em a face palm on that.

Stuff so obvious but you end up having to defend it cause they are calling it playa shit

 

ouch!

 

Lol

 

So, I decided to free myself from the Matrix. Sue me.

 

Can we be friends

 

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A song for you

 

LOL!

 

Sounds like a (good) plan.

 

Whew! See why i don't cross you, baby girl?

 

Lol! Funny shit.

 

LOL and I didn't even raise my eyebrow!

 

FWB? Lol boy hush quit playin w me

 

If we were friends we'd "play" every damn night girl

 

You getting fresh w me again, T...?

 

Friendzones? What are those?