Why Is it Hard To find a White woman?

It's definitely where...but the devil is, I don't know where it comes from.

 

I've heard the expression before during my childhood several times, and it's been an influence on me ever since, but I don't know who said it either.

 

Not hard to find them, they are all around us, walk down any street and you will see them

 

You said it, bro. I see hot white women pretty much anywhere, and most of the time, I'm not trying to find them. It doesn't matter where you are in the world either.

 

Its not hard to find one, its not even hard to approach them (at least not for me). But it IS hard to find ones that are:
A) into black guys
B) attracted to YOU
C) single (this is a HARD one for me...almost every beautiful white girl I've ever met has had a boyfriend or just got out of a relationship)

 

Trust me Payback, that perceived boyfriend barrier doesn't mean NOTHING!! If they are strongly attracted to you most of the time THEY WILL NOT EVEN MENTION THAT THEY HAVE A BOYFRIEND..unless you ask, which is something that I never do. Very few women of any race are genuinely happy with the relationships they are in, even the married ones. These days people do not know what it takes to be happy. People in this country are so materialistic and sensually driven that there is no spiritual component at all.

Try the Village or Soho areas. If you have never been to Canada, Montreal is only 8 hours away by car and you should not have a problem there.

 

Not me, I'd approach any woman I was interested in getting to know.

 

Because most want to be with WM or with white men, dont think tooo many are single and dating BM

 

[quote='Sup]I simply think races prefer their own overall. But it does happen, so keep on looking.[/quote]

True, most black men prefer black women and most white women prefer white men.

 

true, but most cant find WW because they simply arent truly looking. with all these IR personal websites, there are hundreds or thousands looking for BM

 

perhaps its because your approach is of a desperate guy so it destroys everything,women generally can sense a desperate guy.Or because you are doing what every other guy has done before that is to tell a woman that you love her when you just met her or showering her with unnecesarry compliments.Recently i dated an american white student who was here for one semester,i asked her if no black guy has approached her and she said plenty but she turned then all down because they were saying all the same things like i love you and you are beautiful,but since i aproached her differently she gave me her number and we ended up dating.Dude even if you can go abroad they'll still reject you if you behave like a wussy.Since white girls here are in high demand you have to put an extra effort,sometimes i wish i was there in south africa there are so many white girls you are just spoilt for choice,i could care less if she is an afrikener.But dont give up bro

 

Hey guys ,

i am in the same situation (i am also looking for a white girl ) , but i did not approach them yet .
i am in hatfield , pretoria - south-africa but what i need the most is a environment where i can make friends with them , that's my problem
at the present .

and i thought that overseas (USA or Europe) , it was not very difficult to
find a white female (from the story i see here , i should think twicw) . as i am even planing to leave south-africa by the end of this end to re-allocate to a location more open to IR.

Guys please advice.

 

May I answer even though I'm not a guy?

I'd say go to Europe... I say so only because I've got several African friends who have lived both places, who say it's easier here.

Since you're from South-Africa, I think you'll have an easier time than most, since people actually know a little about South-Africa. It might not be very accurate knowledge- but at least they can place it on a map, and have some impression and an idea of what it's like there. Like a British-Swazi said here: when he says he's from Swaziland, people assume he means Switzerland... People generally knows very little of African geography, demographics, history etc, so coming from a well-known place could probably help you over the first hurdle when you're trying to get to know people.

Also, being from South-Africa (if you're black) gives you a HUGE sympathy-bonus...
Would do here anyway...

 

Hello Ronja ,

thanks for the advice , i will consider the scandinavian countries too (witch of these countries you have more experienced with ? ), i am planing to leave south-africa at the beginning of next (january or feb).

i used to have Canada in my mind , but i really do not know the IR situation there. but thanks i will keep that in mind and try to see possibility of going there.

 

Sorry it has taken me so long to come back to you.

I don't really know much about Canada. But it's probably OK there. I've got a friend (African) who after graduating from uni couldn't find a job anywhere in US or Europe. He only applied for 2 jobs before he got one in Canada. So, based on my limited experience, it might seem like there is at least less institutionalized racism there... "Normal" life might reflect that, although my friend's still single. That could be because all he does right now is work though

About Scandinavia. I'm a mix from all the countries (Norway, Sweden, Denmark) and have grown up in all three countries. Mostly Norway and Denmark though. The cultures are very similar, and the languages are so close that people easily understand each other. Which country I'd recommend you to choose, if you consider Scandinavia, would depend on what your plans are though.

Norway and Denmark got the strictest rules, and it's not likely you'll get a visa unless you're going here to study, you already have job-offer here, or you're going to get married to a Norwegian/Danish (equal rules for everyone from outside EU). If your plan is to study though, any of the countries would be OK. If you hope to settle down afterwards, you'll need to choose an education that more or less guarantees you a job here after graduation though, as your visa will expire when you've graduated.

Also, if you want to settle down permanently in Europe, via Scandinavia, I'd probably recommend you to go to Norway. Because of the oil-industry, in several parts of Norway (Oslo and Stavanger- especially the latter one actually) they're already very used to immigrants, and if you got a relevant education you should have a good chance of getting a job.

Really good educations would be: anything within in healthcare, engineering relevant to the oil-industry or construction (preferably civil-engineer, but normal engineers have a fairly easy time getting jobs too), or a master in Chemistry/Physics/Geology. Point is, the oil-industry and public services just hire more immigrants... An education from here is preferred...

For IR Scandinavia isn't too bad. I've looked it up Approx 10% of marriages in all the countries are between a Scandinavian and a non-westerner (usually coloured person). Considering how low the immigrant population actually is, that's actually a very high number.

Downside to any Scandinavian country is that you have to learn a new language. You'll be offered free courses though. And you might already know several languages, then new languages comes much easier. My BF (from Cameroon), knows English, French and Dutch, and he'll understand some of our "gibberish" already now before he's even started taking courses.

 

Thanks once more time Ronja ,

from the given ration , scandinavians cuntries could be the best place for me a part from getting a job. i will check the available options to get a study permit as i still have to do my master degree in computer science.

You are welcome to sent me an e-mail (check the e-mail button on my reply ) , i can personally only speak french and english (plus 3 african languages). Learning a new languages will be another challenge but i will make it .

Hope to hear from you once more , take care .

 

I would have said the same thing in the past for I'm an african west coaster
i'm facing incredible changes in my life
There are so many changes in my life that I can't fully focus on the IR dating scene .Keep the faith and brother, defend and maintain the flag.
I can't focus on IR scene .So many changes .I can only reply and read the posted on the forum
So I encourage you, do it for us.
You have my blessings
PEACE