Why Is it Hard To find a White woman?

Hi to all white women around the world!!!!

I'm residing in South Africa and i have tried to look get a beautiful white woman but never succeeded. Either my approach is not cool or they just hate black brothers. Is anyone out there that can assist in this matter. Or is any white woman interested in having a serious relationship with a black south African? If that's so. Let me hear from you.

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Don't rush this sort of thing. It will come to you in time...

and, the best way to meet a special someone is to go where they will be easily located, as well as take an interest in the things that they might be interested in (philosophy, politics, music, food, etc.)

Best of luck to you.

 

Welcome to the board lovehealer1. I feel prery much the same way you do. Why is it so hard to find a nice WW?

 

I simply think races prefer their own overall. But it does happen, so keep on looking.

 

South Africa

Are you going to date English or Afrikaner women? You are like a Black man trying to date a WW in Mississippi or Alabama seven or ten years after the Civil Rights Act of 1965. Some of those women wanted Black men with money,date African men outside of SA,or just plain prejudiced. Hope you can find one on the web.

 

Sup

Sup how can I reach you? Do you have my e-mail address? If not let me know.

 

Oddly enough ive dated a South African woman here... in the US. i say get out of South Africa bro.. its time to go.

 

Hahahaha...Soulthinker you make me laugh. We have few English WW in my country. So it's pretty obvious an Afrikaner will do. unless i take CIVIV SPIKES idea of getting out of this country. I will search and guess i will bring good news someday to this forum.

 

Good idea.

Edit: And, when I responded to your topic, I thought you meant finding a woman in general, not just in South Africa.

 

I thought of looking locally before thinking of going out of my country but CIVIC SPIKES sounded great. I am currently looking to find one worldwide. You can hook me up with one, that is if you don't mind (Sardonic Genie).

 

I wish I could, bro, but I don't have any e-mail addresses to give to you.

 

[quote='Sup]I simply think races prefer their own overall. But it does happen, so keep on looking.[/quote]
Most people do prefer their own which is only natural. I've come to the conclusion that people are very much the same. Time and effort is needed to make any relationship viable. It's not that difficult connecting with ww, but it's what you do once you are together. I'm finding that the men I run into seem to expect ww will have no problem dealing with blatant crap and being used as doormats and ATMs. This is partly why many interracial relationships fail.

 

I agree in terms of effort and what both of you put in the relationship. will you send me your email address? (Porcelainsnowbird)

 

Most people do prefer their own which is only natural. I've come to the conclusion that people are very much the same. Time and effort is needed to make any relationship viable. It's not that difficult connecting with ww, but it's what you do once you are together. I'm finding that the men I run into seem to expect ww will have no problem dealing with blatant crap and being used as doormats and ATMs. This is partly why many interracial relationships fail.[/quote]

People prefer their own for all the wrong reasons most of the time...

and, if you think that white women are the only ones being victimized in fail interracial relationships, then you are only speaking from your own experience.

 

I also find many men that I are not of my caliber (expect women to deal "with blatant crap and be used as doormats and ATMs). I'm sorry but I have found this in all races of men. That is why I don't date every man I meet!

And, there are equally as many women that can act just as ridiculous. I would possibly argue, even more.

 

Ditto...

I would go further, but this is pretty much an open and shut case...

ain't that right, 7? :wink:

 

Another thing that becoming more apparently to me..... There seems to be 2 or 3 BM for everyone 1 WW that is intrested in even dating one.... The odds arent that great especially if your a little picky.

 

civic, bro you need to get out of Queens. there are tons more available women for the brothas out here in the rest of the world

 

very true.

 

there are so many women in philadelphia and new york looking for brothas, man, i cant believe civic.

also, i have told him to look on these sites but he and others refuse to look

www.interracialmatch.com
www.interracialmatcher.com
www.blackandwhitesingles.com
www.saltandpeppersingles.com
www.interracialsingles.com

just to name a few