'Why I Prefer Black Men': A White Woman's Story

i tried to tell you she is a troll along time ago. she is on a white women black men site attacking black men for defending IR relationships based on love and respect as opposed to some sick lustful stereotype and fantasy that for a young white girl will fade and she will be back to white boys kisses their behinds and propping up white privilege

 

Well...you were the one that argued that skin wasn't an organ, not me. I'm sorry, but if you want to use facts in your arguments, maybe you should make sure they are actually facts first. As for it being a lesson in biology, well...if anyone needed one, I'd say it was you.

 

This is what we are arguing about, but she's too stupid to understand this, and is trying to single me out about it, which is even stupider.

 

Show me where I've attacked a relationship based on love. Please, I'd like to see it. It's important for me to see these things about myself. Also, it's possible you may have misunderstood my meaning, so I might be able to clear that up.

 

If you say something and think it, why does it matter where you say it? How is it racist to quote someone? A person doesn't hate a particular race because they quoted something a person of that race said. I don't understand your logic.

 

Sabine, when someone tells you that a statement or support of a statement is racist then why do you defend it, instead of learning from the point being made. It leads alot of people to think that you are secretly trolling in hear pretending to be a WW into BM but your statements gives the impression that you might be KLAN in disguise

 

I'm not even sure what to say to this, it's simply beyond belief. Are you saying that if I quote a black man's own words that I'm a KLAN member? Do you realize that you're saying a person can't defend his or her statements with proof because they are white? That you can't show why you think something because of your color? Are white people not allowed to demonstrate why they think something because they're white? If I were a black man quoting another black man's words back to him, would it be okay then?

Please help me understand this. I want to be wrong on this point because it's so sick that it actually makes my skin go cold.

 

reread what I wrote first and foremost. what I am saying is that if someone makes a statement that is racist and another defends it, that makes them complicite in the belief. you understand that.

I dont agree with all black men in no way shape or form, especially for example the so called black leadership of this country, I dont believe or agree with at all.

what black man were you qouting by the way, i thought it was a white woman you were qouting.

 

sabine, go back to page one and reread what you wrote based on what Susans article stated. You defended her preference to see black men as just sexual objects and thats what people are talking about here.

second of all, just because I like women who hunt(which is an activity, not a race) I dont like them solely because they hunt. they have to be good, decent human beings who are attractive to me-mentally, spiritually, socially, educationally, and physically.

 

I wasn't quoting a white woman. I was quoting a black man's own words back to him. Perhaps you could read what was said before you tell me that I'm a KLAN member.

I have said at least three times that I'll re-examine my belief system, but I can't argue that whole thing again.

 

reread what you wrote on the front page

 

I don't understand your point Tucker. I was pointing out that I didn't see what was wrong about finding black men sexually appealing. I have no idea how this has anything to do with me quoting Sardonic and then you calling me a KLAN member because I quoted him. What do they have to do with one another?

 

reread what you wrote on page one, it wasnt just about finding them appealing but rather that sex was the only aspect of the person that was used as an interest in the BM.

if you dont know how very offensive that is to BM, I am sorry I cant tell you and you do buy right into the racist stereotypes of black men

 

From 1 page to 9 goddamn pages, wow. All at the expense of someone not accepting their faults.

 

I didn't say anything about that except that I would re-examine my own beliefs. I STILL have no idea what this has to do with me quoting Sardonic and you calling me a KLAN member because I quoted him. I say something, admit that I need to re-evaluate my way of thinking, quote a black man and then I'm a KLAN member? I can't follow your logic.

 

After I finally took the time to read through all this, I still don't understand what all the attacks against Sabinne are about.

To see skin color in the same way like for instance hair color, eye color, breast size or what have you, in short just like any other physical characteristic, is in my book not a racist notion. If it would be a racist notion, than 99,9% on this side here are racists as well, since we all have expressed our preference for certain ("black" or "white") features at one time or the other.

If sex only relationships are an okay-way-of-life for you, logic dictates that you will have those sex only relationships with people you are attracted to and not with people you are not attracted to. That means, if you are attracted to blackmen, you will have sex-only relationships with black men, and if you are attracted to white men, you will have sex-only relationships with white man. Quite simple, isn't it? Or do you seriously believe that there are people who have casual sex with non-attracive people only, but long term relationships with attractive people only? Sounds quite silly to me.

I'm very surprised about the bigotry expressed by some of the men here. There are countless posts and some hundred pictures objectifying white women. Men here are commenting their breast sizes, their body shapes, toe length, hair colors, eyes, etc etc, etc, there are also many posts about one night stands with white women, "friends with benefits" relationships, posts about how and if white women suck dicks, the way we fuck and ride and if sex with "white" is "better" than sex with "black", but, sadly enough, no posts asking us about our daily lives, dreams, goals, hobbies, cultural customs, etc. No, there are no posts about that, it's all about how do we look, are we good in bed, will we still look right when we get older and will white women from other countries appreciate black men, and that's about it. But now all over sudden everybody wants to get touchy and develops a holier than you attitude. All I have to say about this is: don't throw stones if you are sitting in a glasshouse!

Yeah, being objectified is no fun, and I guess if somebody knows about it, then it's black men and white women, since we are the ones who are objectified most often. There we have the mandingo - well hung but with no brain, there we have the stupid blondes who can do nothing right but spreading their legs, there we have the testosterone driven black animal, doing nothing but chasing after women all day long, and there we have the redhaired vamp, the man-eating nymphomaniac. The porno industries live from the display of giant black dicks and oversized white breasts attached to anorexic bodies. But instead of teaming up in this mess we obviously have nothing better to do than to start a pissing contest about who is the most pitiful victim?

Last but not least:
The day people can express their preference for an individuals skin color with the same implicitness as they can express their preference for any other physical characteristic without causing havoc, is the day we will know that we overcame racism.

 

I didn't say it in this conversation, so it doesn't matter. What part of that don't you understand? Especially if you are no better than what you claim to be against (using black men only for sex) but then, argue with me about it just because you don't like my opinion about the article, but somehow still agree with me, like a racist. The only faulty logic in here is yours, continuously playing the victim over and over again. You don't have to hate another race to be racist. All you can do is put words in our mouths out of denial, like a troll. Pathetic.

 

part of it is her arrogance and when others tell her that the view of looking for a date for sex with a black man, is very offensive and racist, she defends the person. so she incurred some wrath, as would be the logical case on a WWBM website.

i wonder if employers employed that kind of logic, only hiring white males i wonder how you would feel. no, just picking a person solely for their race, whether it is WW/WM or BM/BW or WW/BM just for the skin color and nothing about them personally is racist

you can call it what you like it is still racist

 

Too bad she doesn't get it yet. It's not that hard to understand either, even without a master's degree.

 

Wow, talk about answering your own questions. There are sex related topics with pics and descriptions of what white women like about black men as well, but you overlooked those...

and, none of us were outraging those threads either. She called us out on our opinions, and then played the victim and projected back and forth, along with childish name-calling and so forth, and all you can do is pity her and answer your own questions. Heh.