'Why I Prefer Black Men': A White Woman's Story

Y'all gotta peep this article (page may load slowly):

http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news&columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm

The Kid Rasta 8)

 

So, she flaunts her 'Ugly Duckling Syndrome' around in order to satisfy her 'vanilla goddess' cravings? If this bitch thinks that her condescending article is doing us any favors, then she's just as racist as the people who condemn relations between black men and white women. All I kept reading through the article was nonsense about how she just wants sex from us, since white men(expect for a few Italians) don't interest her anymore. Pure bullshit. Maybe if they had enough money, they would.

 

Yeah, she definitely has the Ugly Duckling Syndrome, it is prevalent in her rhetorical babble. My guess, she is 40+ and way past her prime - she only now "prefers" black men because she now wants to feed some sick twisted sexual desire. She only objectifies black men - quite hypocritical one MUST point out. Let all black men see this the type of women that "prefers" us. Notice how she describes her position and explains her attractions to black men - purely sexual overtones.

I would never want to be with a WW who prefers BM, especially over WM.........one should ALWAYS be weary of these 'types' they only prefer BM for one reason and one reason only. Put yourself in a business situation where these older women, some being your bosses, others being your colleagues and have them objectify you all bloody day. One can not finish a meeting without someone women blatantly, OUT LOUD, in front of other WM, pointing out how sexy your bum is, or the bulge in your pants, making passing sexual advances. Yeah, this the type of women that is only attracted to the dark skin and the well sized member. Nothing else, this is most WW, and nothing more, nothing else - especially western women, it is more prevalent in western women. The shit is emasculating, is not a complement. They will never pull that shit with WM. At least not out in the open.

 

I don't know about all that, but I want the man that kissed her knees. That's beauty.

 

After reading these responses I'm not sure I want to read the article as it will probably make me angry.

 

Plain as day I might add...

Hopefully, there are at least SOME exceptions of white women out there who simply 'prefer' us. I like to think someone like lainarain is.

 

I agree that she does come on strong about her attraction to black men for purely sexual reasons. I too think this is just wrong.

However, she does have a good point when she says:

"Black men have something white guys don't have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. They clearly know they're men. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are."

Does anyone else agree with that?

 

What's wrong with a woman preferring a black men sexually? Why does she have to have reasons that you like? No one said you had to date her, these are just her feelings about why she likes black men--she finds them more appealing sexually. What's wrong with that? What's his name likes women who shoot their own dinner, someone else likes blondes with big tits, she likes black men...why is this bad?

 

Not really. She is generalizing.

 

Let me ask you this: Do you only prefer black men for sex? Or would you want a black man who only preferred you for sex? Something for you to think about...

and, no one said anything about having to date her either, so I don't know why you brought that up, and making a comparison about what tucker and other black men in this site are attracted to in a woman, isn't the same as being interested in a person based solely on skin color. First, you have a problem with the pics of attractive women that some of the men download, and then you defend an Ugly Duckling. Not sure what you're getting at now...

 

Why not skin color? Some folks like redheads and that's just a color. Who are we to say why someone should find someone attractive?

I've like men for only sex and I'm positive men have only liked me for sex. As long as we understand each other, there's no problem. I'm not saying that I don't want more, but I do tire of waiting for the right one to come around so I can get laid. Life is too short and Mr. Right is too damn slow.

 

We are people with opinions just like you.

So, because of who you decided to lay down with, there is no Mr. Right? But, I guess you're gonna keep sleeping around until you find him, right?

 

I agree. I think the board members are reading too much into this article. Everybody has their own 'fetishes'.

The Kid Rasta 8)

 

A fetish and a sexual attraction aren't the same thing. The article is filled with condescending overtones, so how are we reading too much into it?

 

Oh come on now ....... who are you to judge ... leave the girl alone .... she is just being honest .... too many people around here frontin if you ask me[/quote]

 

And, how would you know that? Are you 'frontin' yourself? :roll:

And, who are you to judge how others feel on the boards?

 

Of course you are. I just wondered why it was okay for some people to prefer some physical attributes sexually, but not others. It didn't make any sense.

*Liking redhair is not a fetish--a fetish is liking to lick people's feet, having your nipples put into clamps, or wearing a giant diaper.

Because of who I chose to lay down with I can't find Mr. Right? Huh? What does that mean? It means I haven't found anyone that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

I'll take as many lovers as I want. I don't have to apologize or explain to anyone. Just to reply to your condescending tone, (as though having lovers made me less than other people or them having fewer lovers made them better--how ridiculous) I don't sleep around. My last lover was the first one I've had this year and I'd do it again every single day and twice on Sunday.

 

You defended a woman who sleeps around using the Mr. Right argument, but then ask me what it means? You brought it up, and not me...

You'll take as many lovers as you want, but you don't sleep around? Make up your mind, and I guess my tone would be condescending if you post responses that condescend me as well. If you didn't need to explain yourself, then why did you?

 

Excuse me miss there is absolutely nothing in the world wrong with being sexually attracted to bm. I am attracted to ww but not for the sole purposes. Anyone who is attracted to a certain group of people for sexual reasons is just a confused, insignificant, sexually-frustrated individual.
The title of the thread already made me lose interest as i could figure out it was old fool who has been inflicted with the Ugly Duckling Syndrome. I use the word "fool" because she clearly is one.
However, the beginning of her text was a little bit worthwhile until she started going on about some major garbage, the garbage i hate to hear from some ignorant white women. I make use of the word "ignorant" because the comments uttered by this woman would not even be thought of by an educated, intellectual woman. Besides, most white women arent ignorant anyway.
They arent novelties though. I would be foolish to say that. Those lines are pathetic though if you ask me. "Oh, I like black men they have huge rod", " I love the way y'all move your hips", "i love them thick lips, makes me wanna kiss them"... Im tired of those silly stereotypes.. Ok, I may have a big stuff, I may dance the Hooba hooba very well, I may have some pussy-eater lips, but I have a MOTHERFUCKIN BRAIN TOO!!( excuse the profanity, its not usual and/or expected of me). I just dont get it when some idiots seem to appreciate us just physically? We have a personnality too, some brain, some knowledge...

 

We aren't talking about hair here. We are talking about the color of someone's skin only being perceived by this woman as sexually attractive, which is like having a fetish (Kid Rasta says in his own way), and I would doubt it if you would want a black man who would only see you to as nothing more than a fetish.