Why I like black men

the contrast in color.....the darker the better. And yes, size does matter.

 

I think you found yourself in a contraction. What about a man who is darker is colour, but lacks the necessary size? Or more specifically, do you only like that particular 'type' of man, and want no other? I think the latter is true, which means that you are quite the racist. Nothing good can come from you getting involved with ANY black man, unless you like drama and 3rd class citizens. I tell ya, I wish I had an scatter rifle for every WW who will say that rubbish. It is beyond cliche! When will women like you evolve beyond the politics of skin? Feeble minded indeed.

 

Abbie, don't be scared off by 7. If you read his past posts you may understand where he is coming from. There are some people on this site who discuss matters that affect them when they date someone of another race. There are many and to deny them is foolish. Along with that, there are those, like myself, that love a man/woman because they love the man/woman. Now, there are other people on this site and I will let you find that out by yourself.

Like 7 is saying though, to love a man because of his skin color, or even despite his skin color, or because society says that men of his race have a large cock - is racist. I do admit that when my limbs are intertwined with the man I love's, I think it is beautiful. I do love the contrast of skin colors...whether he is white, black, or any other race. And who doesn't want their man to satisfy them sexually?!?

 

I think finding beauty in your partner, be it their skin colour or whatever is perfectly normal and acceptable. But liking someone BECAUSE of it is another matter. If my man liked me because of the ww stereotype (snowflake skin and wild in bed) then I'd be out the door. Just as I love his skin and the contrast between him being so dark and me being so light, but I appreciate it in an almost artistic way and certainly don't love him BECAUSE of it.

There is more to a person than how they look, in particular features that represent their ethnicity.

 

I must agree with lainarain. Its too early to start flaming abbie. Its perfectly okay to be fascinated by the skin contrast. I myself like white skin. I find it sooooooooooooooooo attractive.

:yawinkle:

 

You took the words right out of my mouth. :yawinkle:

Hope lainarain doesn't me borrowing her patented emoticon. :lol:

 

Me too, but it all depends on who the skin is attached to.

 

perfect. absolutely perfectly stated. well done, iffy, i couldn't have said it better myself.

 

I guess in my own way, I'm an exclusive 'shallow pig', when it comes down to sexual preferences of a woman, since white women are my preference and always will be (not to mention that they always have been) and I grow weary of the criticism we black men get for our life choices, such as interracial dating (along with everything else, like careers, music, fashion, etc.) by all other individuals who are NOT black men, who aren't faced with it in their daily lives, but for some reason, can be permitted to do the same thing. There are blacks and whites who are notoriously exclusive within their own color pool of dating, and if being exclusive within your own 'race' is acceptable, then so should being exclusive outside of it.

The more naysayers talk, the less I care, and it would take a hell of a lot of someone's personal power to get a son-of-a-bitch like me to care about what you think of me as a person in any way whatsoever. As far as I'm concerned, the only tactics that will work on a son-of-a-bitch like me to change my mind about my personal life choices, be it sexual preference or not, are these. You will either have to:

just let it go

or

KILL ME



because, other than that, I will always be who I am no matter what, and whatever naysayers say is like, nay, to a son-of-a-bitch like me, especially in the grand scheme of things. Yes, skin color plays an important part in my personal attraction (just like it does for many other folks, who are either exclusive within or outside of their own 'race'), and if it didn't, then I certainly wouldn't be a member of a site called 'white women black men dot com' otherwise, why the hell would I even be here anyway, or even bother to join?

For the record (if I already have one), I am NOT turned off by black women, nor have I ever been. I am just MORE TURNED ON by the flesh of a female's ass with white skin, then any other color of a woman, and I probably will be like this until the day I die, unless something in my life, or something happens in this world to change my mind about it somehow, but I seriously doubt it. I know how this message may come across to some people, but if you don't like it, then just suck it up and deal with it, OK?

Yeah, I'm a pretty assertive kind of guy, in-your-face, brash, or whatever, but just because I am, doesn't mean that I am necessarily arrogant, mean, cruel, bad or evil, despite what many people think about me, or perceive me to be, but this is just my style, and I guess it all depends on how you take it.......



and yeah, I'm still open to dating black women, but that's ONLY if things don't work out with white women, but if they do, well, you get the idea, and I can only imagine myself going as far as to only marry and have kids with a white woman, instead of a black woman. You know the old saying, 'look, but don't touch?' Well, that's how I feel about women of all colors (or 'races') but most of the time when I don't, it's usually a white woman, and certainly NOT any or every white woman.

 

Well said Mr. SardonicGenie. You pretty much summarized my feelings.

 

I've been thinking about this about myself also. I've noticed that when I go out, when I'm at the gym, at the grocery store, library, anywhere - I will turn to look at any bm. I think I am becoming a serial bm dater. To be honest, bm are becoming more attractive than any other men to me. I do still find some wm attractive but they have to be Brad Pitt to be as attractive as the average bm.

Oh, no. Next thing you are gonna hear me say is that I love bm because of their (tend to be) bigger dicks and the way our skin contrasts in color. I am shallow too!!!

 

Understood, but Brad Pitt???

You have bad taste in white men! :lol:

 

Thanks, bro.

 

Dear Sardonic, what kind of wm draw your fancy, then??? :lol:

 

None... I'm into white women...

and, before you think anything else, remember those black men who date those' ugly-ass, beat-up, nasty, trashy white women, who are thick, with pasty skin and stringy, greasy hair'? I don't go for those types...

but, those types of women love ol' Brad! :lol:

 

Dat was low! :smt018 :yawinkle: No more debating (good enough for the hottest woman around) Brad.......................penis posts anyone?

 

I agree with everything you said.

 

I have been dating black men almost exclusively for 5 years now. I find them to be much more confident and secure in themselves. I think they appreciate a woman who is the same. WM tend to act like they are afraid of me .... maybe it is my height
As to the size .... come on girls ... men are men and come in all sizes and shaped and it has nothing to do with color. Stamina .... now that is another thing all together.

 

All I can say to TOOTALLDEB is: you are Too HOTTT, your pic on the personals page is lovely

 

I wholeheartedly agree with deb>Black men are indeed much more confident and secure in themselves. They have that unique style that always captivates me! When the black gentleman I'm dating now approached me he was incredibly relaxed, had a fantastic smile! I felt an instant attraction b/c he was very charming, sweet and an absolutely Gorgeous hunk of man to behold!! :smt007
I should mention that when he took me out for dinner & dancing, I was totally in awe of the way he moved his superbly muscular hot bod!! As he held me close and looked into my eyes, I wanted him like I never wanted any man before!!!