why do women chase players

I think women just like the challenge of squaring up a player.

 

I think you're missing the point.

Some women have a tendency to go after the "players", but it's not because they sleep around or they're "bad" guys or they've got money or social status..... it's because of the characteristics they possess. Confidence, swagger, charm, charisma, assertiveness... they woo women (hence why they tend to bed a lot of them). Women get sucked into it, enjoy the flattery, and usually end up feeling like they're infatuated/in love.

I think there's also the element of playing hard to get (on the guy's side). A player will give a woman just enough attention to get her all worked up and interested, but will then play it cool and nonchalant. And some women play into that... and it makes her want him more!

It's just the game that's played.

It can happen to women of any age, but most women grow up and wise up to the signs of a "player" pretty quick smart and move onto bigger and better things

 

I'd rep you if I could that's fair minded

 

Cheers, Andrae!

 

well stated. will not disagree. But ss there is a since of challenge in women to square up a dude. even when they get older some women and mature and get away from the players but there is the element of the challenge they would like to see if they could square up a dude. some women never mature and still like that high school/college level of thinking.

 

Well said Chica! :smt038

 

would you rather get with a mack or a player

 

you are on a roll girl...it's nice to have someone "fresh" posting around here:smt039waits...looks around to see if fresh is anywhere...i think he gets an email everytime his name is mentioned

 

This is somewhat true however A LOT of women literally throw themselves at guys. You mentioned that the player woos these women but a lot of the times they dont even have to put in an ounce of effort. The ladies will spread their legs if some of these guys just blink at them haha.
And I am NOT saying "all" women, so chill ladies but you'd would be naive to think that women dont like the social status. As someone else on here has pointed out, its disturbing how a lot of women are still stuck with a high school mentality.

And ESPY mentioned that she wouldnt care if a man or women had sex with over 200 people in one year...that wouldnt make you raise an eyebrow?? lol

 

That is very disturbing - as well as the fact that an equal amount of men are stuck with a high school mentality.

Sorry, just had to do that

 

Nope. I wouldn't care as long as they don't have any STDs. Who am I to judge someone? I'm not angel, either...and I don't ask the 'so, what's your number?' question for that reason. Besides, what happened before the current significant other has no bearing on your relationship with them, so who cares?

If we were all judged on our pasts, we'd never have a future.

 

Cosign

 

HAHA, I swear you are like king of the gifs, the best gifs placement I've seen on the interwebs.

 

Over 200 though? In one year? I mean, thats just nasty:smt103

I wont give into the guilt trip of being close minded sorry. If some girl I met had banged 200 guys in one year, that would send red flags up immediately. Even if she was STD free thats just disgusting that she opened her legs to that many guys ewwww.

 

Wait, I thought a lot of the females on here loved "modest" guys. Now you girls are fawning over guys with swagger/cocky bravado? Man, you ladies are bi-polar lol

 

You can't win fam. They don't even know what they want.

 

Because they tell them what they want to hear.

 

that their tan lines are edible...???? :smt047