Why do some black guys do this?

YEP, thats what I've seen as well lol. I think a lot of these advances that come from other men are INVITED. Regardless to why she did it, it isn't healthy for the relationship.

 

Preach brother, so many times girls will act all passive lapping up the attention. If the girl you are with doesn't state clearly she has a man and just goes with the flow, cut all ties right there and then.

 

if the bf did the same she would go ape shit, this i have also seen religiously

 

I've seen both men and women do this crap. I guess its just what attention whores do. Regardless its best to disassociate with people who do this. Its disrespectful to your partner, unless both enjoy it for some reason.

 

That "crabs in the basket" mentality will do it every time..

 

I knew it did not happen to me but,I will be suspicious if a homeboy in search of a harem gaming on my girlfriend.

 

I can speak to this! I was very rarely hit on by black guys before dating my current boyfriend, probably because Asian communities seem so insular and closed that black guys just assumed I wouldn't be interested. It kind of hurt my self esteem, because I thought it meant that I just wasn't most black guys' type.

But now that I have a black boyfriend and it's clear I'm willing to step outside my cultural boundaries, black guys are coming out of the woodwork.

I'm sort of glad the "cultural barrier" is gone, but at the very least they could try not to do it right in front my boyfriend! :roll:

 

Yes. One of the younger Korean women that I work with in my office likes dating black men and has said that's been the case in her experiences. She usually has to be the one to initiate any contact with black men she has had an interest in because most are under the impression Asian women who are open to the idea of dating outside their race would only be open to white males since that seems to be the interracial pairing seen the most involving Asian women.

 

real talk

 

heh...situation is more involved than that (regarding relationship thing)

I just noticed that though. She only talks to me and pretty much ignores everyone else.

 

1. Just sizing you up to see what you will do. Not just with black men,but men period I've noticed this.

2. Not speaking for all black men,but if a black man sees you with a white woman,regardless of your relationship with her,in his mind he feels has a shot so he goes for it. Childish,I know,but I've been on both ends of that situation (I wouldn't try somebody like that now).

 

That's not really the case with most black men.Some but not most.There's still more black men that don't prefer white women than those that do.

 

True,that's why I said I can't speak for all. Mostly based on personal experiences I've had.

 

Haha this happened to me last night. Black dudes are fucking vultures! These chicks sitting at the bar looking mad bored so I invite myself and make small talk. Next thing I know theirs like a group of dudes hovering around us.

I sure ain't no cock blocker and pussy ain't even on my mind, I just want to get drunk. So I remove myself out the picture to observe how other dudes "game" women. It's pathetically hilarious to watch these guys put in all this work yammering out the mouth, becoming full time comedians, buying drinks all in the hopes for pussy.

This one security guard basically said fuck his job for and spent the rest of the night getting at them. This motherfucker high fived these chicks like 100 fuckin times in span of 2 hours.

 

I'm not sure if this is something only some black guys do.

 

well I have no idea about that, as I have only been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months, and where I live, there aren't many black men at all! I mean seriously.
He finds it amazing when he see's a black guy, and he's like ''a brother! he must be lost!'' haha.

 

I've seen this happen and result in a huge FAIL at my workplace. I guess guys are like "Oh, she's down with the brothers...so I must have a shot". Sad though. I'd never wait for a "sign" (if that's what you want to call speaking to another BM) to approach a WW. My theory is grow a set, and do you own dirty work. Smh. Good post bruh!

 

bm's give high fives?:smt022:smt022

 

Stinks of desperation, doesn't it. I can actually see the visual in my head.

"THIRSTON" Howell III...smh

 

That is some funny shit right there.