Why can't successful black women get married?

To quote you, I'm here to lend a hand or...

 

Ill take the or anytime you're willing to give it darling ;-)

 

I'll sure keep that in mind babe. :smt058

 

Black men are 2nd choice/fall back choice to most WW, what a revelation that is! LMAO

 

Yawl have always been MY first choice....

LOL!

I remember when I was a virgin and the guy I was with wanted me to lose it (of course), cause we'd mess around, but he never struck oil. He said it was like having a Porsche in the garage and not being able to drive it. That didn't bother me. I was a Porsche, not a Yugo....

 

(Disclaimer: this is not directed towards chi. This is simply to illuminate the point.)

It's like Black men dating Black women are smilingly saying, "Yeah, some of that bad stuff may be true, but I still love you, though."
Knowing that he's going home to a Black woman softens the blow.
In many cases, a Black man dating a White woman does not get that benefit of the doubt even if he does in fact feel that same way on a platonic level.

Just so you know, chicity is a lady.

 

Danke schön, Danke

 

ha ha, if you are PC

 

He's hopelessly clueless.

You can't expect his brain to do much.

 

Excellent - We have come to terms

 

damn good pt. you should be dating a ww because she is a good person not to spite someone else

 

Agreed.

And anybody that goes pursuing a relationship just to present said Significant Other as a "Thorn In Your Detractor's Side".....needs to grow up...before they one day wake up and show remorse over their using, like a toy, The One Who Would Have Loved Them in their solitary loneliness...

'Nuff Said!!!!

















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another good pt. the problem about posting is that if you have a differring pov then there will be someone who will aspersions because of it. some people cant agree to disagree, try to see the others pov, or just show some decuram. sometimes the net will lose your intent in what you are trying to say.

some people get on the net and lose their freakin mind. they get gangster on the net you know

 

Just TRY to remember, m8's...

There's NEVER any need to blow a gasket or have a stroke over ANY of the debates/discussions/digressions here or ANYWHERE online..

It's NOT a face-to-face thing...

It's....only....the...internet...




'Nuff Said!!!!














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well here is a great place for men to express themselves over the issue. it also hurt bm as a hole because it is demeaning and demoralizing.

 

to some extent it is true what you are saying BUT like chi stated bm need to talk about it. not just on this site either. bm need to stop being the whipping boy.

Im not a slave anymore fuck that whipping shit.

 

To answer the question, a lot have been brainwashed into thinking what a "real man" must have and possess in his bank account. They must ahve a certain type of confidence beyond normal confidence.

Second reason they chose to mess with the wrong type of guys in thier youth and really fuck with those type of guys a lot until mid to late 30's. It is only then do they want a good black man and most aren't around.

Power Struggle in the relationships with men who they are with.

Now a lot of sucessful black females I know are married . But I talked still on a friends tip and they give me these reasons as the ones why their GF's have no men in their lives

 

WELCOME BACK BROTHER ART!

 

we dont consider you like that but when bw dog us out on a day by day basis then something needs to be said.

 

Some men here are bitter because BW never gave them a chance so they went to WW. If your a young buck maybe you should get a pass, but if your in your thirties still talking the whole BW/BM this, that, and the third. WOWWW...:shock: GET OVER IT