Why are you here?

Hmmm to meet and date some white lady. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: . Actually that is a big lie, I am not very attracted to White Women due to their physique. I prefer my babes to be well padded and well rounded. I was at a club in America some time back, it was a mixed crowd Latinos, Blacks and whites, I was more attracted to the blacks with their big "ikebe" and boobs, and some well rounded Latinos but unfortunately none of the white chicks appealed to me. Maybe that is why I have never dated a white chick?

I have always been interested in interracial relationships, I know there are lots of hurdles and challenges in such relationships and I have heard lots of myths about such relationships, this site has provided answers to some of the questions I had. Great Site.

 

Well, i'd tell you to date not for superficial reasons but for intellectual reasons. It is normal as a human being to be attracted to the sexual features of a woman. I'd be a liar if i told you i have never been but that is where maturity comes to place. Physical appearances are not everything. Like i have told you before, i am an adrent fiend of IR dating not for the bogus reasons but for positive reasons.
Now the person im currently dating isnt white but latina. However, it happened because we were just meant to be for each other. With me, its either white or latina girls. Thats where i have pleasure and im willing to tell you im not doing that for superficial reasons.
I'd tell you to exclusively date the right woman for you. It would be extremely worthless if you dated a very beautiful, voluptuous woman who was a she-devil. That wouldn't work, would it? Never fall for the so-called "myths" of IR dating. Believe me, its a beautiful experience when two individuals of different cultures and customs acknowledge and respect each other's virtues. There are negative sides to it too but in life, always look at the positives.

 

LaydeezmanCris I agree with you but intellectual qualities and other non physical attributes comes second to most men. When you see a babe from afar you can't really assess those qualifies what attracts you to even walk up to her and try to strike a conversation in the first case is the physical, while discussing you can then check out those other qualities but for most men those other qualities are not very important until they hit the sack.

 

Not all white girls are skinny (I know I'm not!) and plenty of us have much "Ikebe Super"! My man too prefers a bit of ikebe and breasts, but more than that he prefers trust, respect, intelligence, love, fun and that special spark, all of which can be present in any shape or colour of person.

True that you can't tell much about someones personality from across a room and it's usually physical attraction that initially catches your eye, but there needs to be more substance than that to keep it going.

I am here because I fund it so refreshing to see a site like this which actually promotes interracial relationships rather than condemns them. I think most other people are here because they either have a particular interest or curiosity in interracial relationships and they want to explore or discuss it further, or they have an aversion to it and they just want to peddle their own prejudice and spread more hate. There aren't that many in betweens, not that I've seen anyway.

 

I fully agree with you on that, those other non physical qualities are necessary to keep the relationship going and growing, after all no one spends 24hrs having sex, but we spend most part of the day gisting

 

hahaha. very correct indeed. BTW, I like the way you use those Nigerian words. Its very blushing indeed.

 

Good thread, African.

I'm glad that you are enjoying the arguments. :lol: Stick around. There will be much more. :lol:

 

I'm dating a black man for the first time and I don't understand him at all. I was hoping this website could shed some light on things for me, but so far it's just been pictures of women with guns and soccer balls (whether they're actually women is debatable). Anyway, I'll keep reading and perhaps something will help me make sense of things.

 

LOL... I've thinking the same thing recently! I keep wondering what's up with all the "this girl is hot" posts...

But hey... here are some good topics here and I find that most members have interesting views on things and I appreciate the frank exchange. I am here to discuss, learn and share.

 

You two are mainly thinking of what threads tucker, Mosiah, and Kid Rasta make.

 

Maybe, but they are prevalent and I'm glad someone else noticed it as well. I mean really, if these are supposed to be conversations between men and women, why in the world are the men throwing these pictures in our faces? It's not that I'm jealous, I'm very comfortable in my own skin, but is this really the types of conversations men want to have? And what do they expect from the women when they show us pictures of a women who just killed an animal? Uh...gratz, I'm sure it will make a lovely stew?

 

Because you can see them, just like the other men can. It's all only meant for eye candy, and not meant to be taken seriously.

Not really. Just read through more threads, and you'll see.

Nothing. See my first response again.

 

If that's blushing then it's a good job I'm not saying "kuchi" and "toto" etc!

 

I asked him if was a joke. It wasn't.

 

thanks sardonic, it wasnt meant as a joke but for men here who like to post pictures of women they find attractive, like Mosiah does(an excellent job I might add)

 

That's what I figured.

 

precisely!! hey why are peeps so quiet today??

 

I, for one, am quiet cause I don't have anything to say about
Women in waders or
Women who play soccer or
Women who fish and hunt or
Women in the military or
Women newscasters or
Women of Formula 1 or
NFL Cheerleaders...

Just seems that those are the main topics these days... :roll:
I'm not on here to peep at chicks that some men find hot.

Maybe it's just me.

 

well, pearl there are a myriad of other topics on the forum to address or start your own new topic on a subject

 

there are so many topics here besides those, and since you are a woman theywerent really pointed at you. but there are many topics on each forum index, that people arent addressing

but on here, many of the guys and some women post things of interest to them and others and some go into sex chats too