who is your ideal partner?

lmao!! i dont doubt it baby!!

 

When you come here, you'll find out.:smt045

 

What changed your mind?

 

My idea of a perfect match

A sweet kind hearted fun loving man with dark skin and green or blues eyes that loves to laugh.

 

Would a dark skin guy with green or blue contacts work.LOL

 

Yes, unfortunately, many of them do.

 

Maybe she can meet TDK. What you think. And ahhh, I'm you ideal partner. Lol

 

I won't even comment on the first part of your post , and yes, Stizzy, you're my ideal partner! 'Cept I don't like to share, even if it is just a fantasy.

 

Lol. Understandable. BUT,,,!!!!!,,, you loss. Lol

 

What am I worried about? I will keep you so satisfied you won't need or want anyone else! You just won't have the time or energy, baby! Haha! :smt050

 

Now that's my ideal partner!!!! There would be no need to want anyone else. I'd channel this extra time and energy into you anyway! Lol

 

good looking, wealthy, and can cook.

 

:smt038

 

My ideal partner? Well...I dreamt of the perfect guy for me, but now I think I've got a firm grasp on what I am looking for in a man:

Personality: Kind, Gentle, Not selfish, Truthfull, Humerous, Doesn't let anything stand in his way, always caring, non-religious, and loving. (Also a non smoker, doesn't do drugs, and is NOT an alcholic...no tatoos or pericings either!)

Appearence: between 5'8- 5'12 in height, not too skinny, and not overweight, ripped (has abs and muslces). I don't mind a little stubble, but please no chest or leg or arm hair! (ew.)

 

I'm "little miss want to change the world", so the main thing I'd look for in a partner is if they could handle protecting the girl that wants to protect the world.

I like a guy who is motivated, knows what he wants and will do what it takes to get it; humorous, someone that could get me laughing and I could be silly with and also someone that "gets" that I do NOT see deafness as a disability.
I like a man that's loving, realizes if he can capture my heart there's no one that could love him more; someone that's honest and could answer the, "do these jeans make my butt look big?" question and know I will not get angry at them .

The main two though, would be if the guy could deal with a family as large as mine and if he'd be willing to learn some sign language (my friends are deaf, we all sign and I'd like to include the guy lol).

Physically, I honestly don't care. A muscular body might catch my attention, but an enticing personality will keep my attention :smt045.

 

This. :smt023 I can co-sign almost all of this (I'm not deaf, so that doesn't apply. Lol!)

I love your first sentence. Men just don't get any more that some women still want to feel "protected" even if there's no danger! It's just the way we're wired.

 

The girl I'm with now is pretty awesome.

 

A highly intelligent, strong woman who can stand on her own and think for herself. Damn I'm lucky to have one.

 

Thank you for asking. Physically, almsot mended, mentally its tough.

 

To both you and Nick buy a gun and call it day.

I had this conversation with a friend not too long ago and I have to say its very telling about how women view men as a whole when protecting you is part of what turns you on about us.
Nobody else that cares about me gets off on the idea of me putting myself in harms way to protect them.
How about I got your back and you got mine. I get the world is a big scary place but you ain't the only one who feels that way. This isn't really a shot at you Ches just the notion in general. I've seen a lot of good dudes get locked up or worst trying to protect their girl (which has a broad interpretation anyway). I honestly worry about men and women who think its a god idea to have that kind of mentality. I try to teach the females in my family you're better off learning how to protect yourself because you could have a husband who's built like a mack truck but it won't do you any good if he's far away and you're by yourself or even worst if he's the one you need protecting from.