Who adores their men more?

Love is a verb. I have never had any complaints from women. I like to care for her, and expect that she wants to take care of me.

 

In my experience, white women are much more compliant when it comes to black men. Similarly, black women are much moreso when they are dating a white man.

I have no idea as to why this might be; it is just true in my experience.

(as a note: I don't want to suggest that there is anything inherently desirable about a compliant woman. Hell, I don't even know if that is exactly the world I mean to use.)

 

if you are looking for a compliant ww around here you have come to the wrong place...we think for ourselves...one step in the wrong direction and you just might get yourself chewed up and spit out

i see you are new here...welcome...i think...not sure yet...very strange first post...not winning any brownie points from lippy:-|

 

I find it amazing that I went out of my way to point out that I didn't think there was anything inherently desirable about a compliant woman, yet you still accuse me of looking for one.

I was simply noting what I've noticed - that a white woman will give more shit to a white man and that black women give more shit to black men.

Hell, I'm not even saying that that's true, beyond my experience.

 

first you said that ww are more compliant with black men...you said this on wwbm forum...then you said that there is nothing inherently attractive about a compliant woman...did i miss something? because that sounds like a stereotype:roll:

as you can see it wouldn't matter if you were green... lippy still wouldn't be compliant unless ofcourse it was under some sexy circumstances

 

Don't mind looney I mean lippy. She has a habit of doing that. Welcome aboard my friend.

 

Of course it is a stereotype. This entire thread requires stereotypes, because you can't talk about who (as in which race) loves their man more without talking about an entire race as if they all were the same.

The only difference is that mine really wasn't a stereotype because I qualified it by saying that this was only true in my experience. So I'm like the only person in this thread who isn't deliberately stereotyping, and yet I'm the one who catches shit.

pure silliness

 

I can imagine.

Thanks for the welcome.

 

no worries lil' dick...lippy understands that the double standards never apply to you...it's okay for men to stereotype but not the women:smt042

 

Emerson is an awesome source for quotes, btw

my favorite is: "a foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds"

 

check out the favorite quotes thread

 

how sad that the ww you encountered were compliant...thanks for sharing:-|

 

There is nothing particularly sad about being compliant, although to be sure, I broke up with my last gf because she was a bit spineless.

But in any event, it's not about being compliant by nature. I was only talking about in the context of a relationship with a black man. They might be extremely assertive or even completely unyielding (not a good trait in and of itself either) otherwise.

 

Will do, at some point

 

There are some Nigerian names that tend to be very funny when you hear them. Probably those names are the offshoot of the damage of the white man

We have got names like Sunday....Friday ...Monday. Our current president is called Goodluck, and he has really being lucky when you consider the circumstances that led him to presidency. Nevertheless, you can map the area where people that use predominantly use those names come from. They are usually found in riverine areas of the country, usually the Niger Delta.

Apart from the aberration, Nigerians usually have names that hold meanings to the circumstances of birth of the bearer, the mother, father or family. Many are not easy to pronounce for non-native speakers.

 

If you think it is stupid, comment on something else. I am speaking from experience. White tend to be much more affectionate than black. Than Hispanic as well, I have never dated an Asian but if you grow up in an abusive household how is that type environment not going to affect you?

 

For some people, affection does not run in the family. Others it does, like my house. It has to do with my personality, but for those of you who think this thread is dumb, please stop commenting. I can give many examples of how I have been treated.

 

Shit... if I had to base the quality of man that I deserve on how my FATHER treated me???? I would be second-place to another woman and have my ass beat every night for something I didn't deserve. AND have a mother that didn't stand up for me or save me from it. Not ALL mothers are good mothers and one would hope a poor guy who had a shitty mother could find a more loving wife to hopefully make up for the love that he didn't receive!!! Her adoration of my dad left us all in the dirt as second-place citizens and we knew it - so we have been looking for love our whole lives to replace what they didn't and wouldn't give to us. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I just want a man who treats me with respect and cares for me as a person, who is loyal to me and devoted to me because we are a team. If I can find a man who proves himself to be devoted and FOLLOWS THROUGH? I will give myself to him body and heart (but not my soul - that's mine). While I will NEVER be his fucking servant, I will always have my body available to him, and want to cook him meals and make him some coffee or tea when he gets home (to share with him) and listen to his problems... I also like to do a man's laundry, but would prefer if he would do the vacuuming and yardwork. Heck, I will even clean the bathroom.

 

succinct answer in the first post

agreed

 

Spend time with White, black and Asian, and I mean for longer than a cup of cofeee