White women who go with black men have 'daddy issues'...

No one said it was but its very interesting that almost everyone I have ever dated didn't get along with their parents. It's not a complete deal breaker but it makes you wonder how life would be when you decide to have kids of your own. Just saying.

 

I'd have to ask you that if you dated other races as well. We all tend to attract a certain type or in this case, a characteristic. So it's hard to say....

I halfway agree with the last part, but on the other hand, sometimes people who have family issues, if they're aware of their issues, will try and change things when they have kids as to not repeat the same mistakes. Not everyone is capable of this of course. If so, we wouldn't have so many fucked up people walking around.

 

I'm thinking in terms of relationships with grandparents. One of the greatest of my entire life was the 22 years I got with my grandmother. That level of love and acceptance was so crucial in my development and I want that desperately for my own children if I have them and it would suck to bring a child into a situation where half of their family treats them less. Am I making sense?

 

Yes you are. I'm very close with my parents and love my immediate and extended family. Having someone who's family oriented and can gel into my family as well as me into his is top priority for me, so I understand wholeheartedly, but like I said, sometimes people have messed up families, but that doesn't mean they can be good parents or become a good family member in your family.

 

Mentioning that it's not true in your personal situation doesn't mean you think it's bullshit completely. Just that.....it's not true for you. Nothing wrong with saying that. :roll:

 

I thought this was the Stereotypes and Myths section...

 

That kind of thinking is too strict and regimented for this forum. Next you'll be telling me it's OK to post a hot BW thread on a WWBM board

...oh wait.

 

that stereotype is spread amongst insecure white men mostly, they have to believe its every white girl whos with a black guy or life not worth living :shock:

 

They have to say something...and we know what that is.


Bigots are predictable...they are easier to read than the menu at taco bell.

 

I think it's just something some people want to believe to explain why others don't think the same way they do. I have no "daddy" issues...I did have an ex-hubby issue but that's another story! :smt036

 

to say that ww that date bm have daddy issues would be like saying bm that date ww have mommy issues...

the other thing a person has to keep in mind is if they continue to attract the wrong type of person or they find a trend in the people they attract it could have more to do with them in their selection...

i always date...
i always seem to choose...
strange that this pattern continues...

when this happens it is time to do something completely different...sometimes i want to challenge my base attraction to dark skin

 

i think its also to protect thier own fear and ignorance on the subject

 

It all comes down to the fact that when people are uncomfortable with something they have to find reasons about it to placate themselves.

In the end it means nothing to me. I'm attracted to white women and that is what I will confidently pursue in my taste of women. It is what it is, haters can take it or leave it. I make no excuses. I have one life and I'll make the most of it.

Others can do what makes them happy and content as long as they stay out of my business, if they don't that is when I just have to make that abundantly clear to them. Fin.