White women stereotypes

These are the stereotypes I've heard while growing up with family.

* White women are prone to lying "rape" on black men after having sex with them. The men's lives are almost ruined indefinitely.

* White women will only get with marry black men if they are rich.

These are the stereotypes I've heard while living with my mother. I'm a black man who finds white women attractive. But I would hate to be a victim of a false accusation. Do most really do this?

 

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but as I grew older and wiser, I realized the bias that was present there, and the understanding that lying and deception, are two colorblind characteristics of a person, which transcend race and sex.

 

That's what my mother said.

 

Sounds like your mother was coming from another generation, and that may have been more the case at the time. I'm not excusing it, but if it was as bad as we have been led to believe, I imagine many a white woman who wanted to be with a black man may have lied and said he "raped" her if she were discovered. Remember she may have been afraid herself, but mostly she may not have had the guts to take on society.

As to if women today do the same thing, well, yeah, women have lied and said they have been raped many times by men of different races. If she is lying and prone to do that, watch out.

If she is real, and kind and gentle, and if you respect her until it is obvious to others that there is a real commitment between you both, you have nothing to fear. If you are looking for a one night stand, on the other hand, there is a lot more to be concerned about than her lying.

As to if women want a rich man, of course we do, but if we are in love we will marry a good man, no matter what his bankroll is. Unless of course she is a gold digger, then watch out.

So I'm sure I did not debunk the myth, nor did I confirm it.

WATCH OUT!!

Your mother was a wise woman!!
These are the sorts of things I tell my boys about women in general.

Just remember, black woman lie too, and they want rich guys too....

 

Black women are perfect, can do no wrong, not materialistic or money driven, and 100% have black men's interests at heart.


























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Well, of course you are right, I stand corrected, Sorry!!
Maybe I should learn how to treat my man from a black woman, what do you think?

 

Wouldn't necessarily say that your mother's opinion is "false" - but you should be very wary. ESPECIALLY with WW who seem to want to keep your relationship "private". Also, I think there is still some U.S. regional issues that can come into play.

 

Like the South?

 

hmm, you can say these stereotypes about any women though

 

It's bullshit.

 

pure bullshit.
pure misogynistic racist bullshit even.

 

funny...haha...but I will entertain it...first of all, I think it might be true that white women may gravitate towards rich men...but so do black women, japanese women, indonesian women, etc...do white women search for this quality more so then others, how can anyone tell??? but through generalized and some deductive reasoning, I can postulate that something...In general, the white population in the US are doing better than most other races here financially, so one can reason a white woman may want something equal or better than the her known average...her average my represent above average for other people so there you have it, they seek men in their comfortable level...the level of finances they are use to...then again they can just be money seeking devils...ahah


white women are more liking to report rape?? I have no idea...but I do believe when a white women say she is raped by a black guy, more emotions are invoked...and maybe the case gets more notariety therefore it seems it happens more frequently....but then again who the hell knows, I am sure no one gathered all the at information

 

There was a movie on about that. High society white woman felt for a black convict, and agreed to have him released into her custody, for "rehabilitation." She enrolls him in a local college, to better himself, and in return, his young ass bones her like she never been boned before.

Later in the movie, the young buck falls for a sister, and his white lady finds out, and trumps up some rape offense against him. Everyone thinks his black ass raped the lady, because we all know black guys want white women after all. :smt101

This was just a movie, but the fear was out there. Once upon a time, in the states, it was illegal just for a black guy to look at a white woman. If a black man was accused of raping one, he was as good as dead, especially when dealing with them good o' boy cops.

Times have changed a bit tho, but people still believe that the justice system is biased against black people, especially when they (we) commit crimes against white people.

 

I agree...one case that pops up , is that lady Susan Smith case in south carolina...she was a house wife that drowned her two kids and told people a black man abducted them...man people were going off about how horrible black folks were...then come to find out she made up a lie and she herself actually drowned her kids...sadly, white women have been using the "black man did it" excuse for years, it is documented throughout american history

 

Which is why 'old-school' parents used to tell their kids, especially their boys, not to mess with white women, in general. We know there are some good white girls around, but this way of thought, was given to us for our own protection, because our society (not necessarily the women) had it in for blacks.

It's the 21st century now, so I still love ya'll

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Yep.

 

My grandmother once saw my good friend dating a white girl. I was 19 at the time, and she just flipped out about it big time. She didnt know my preferance was to white women anyway at the time, but I listened how she said how white women are the devila dna ll that and not to bring a white girl home.

Well it was funny, I come visit her like 4 months later, and she talks about how my best friends white girlfriend was very helpful, sweet, caring and kind. How she was a wonderful person and how he was lucky to have found such a wonderful woman like her ..

To this day, I would love to knwo what the hell changed her mind about the girl :smt020

 

Another interesting story. Most the women in my family got on a cusion of mines because he only dated white women. He also fixed cars, did trucks, hunted, and fished and other non black stuff. He continued to date ww and it got to the point they just accepted it and jsut teased him about it .

they said he only liked white meat and pink meat. They teased him hard very hard.. Im just being honest on this.
Well he didnt care and props for him not caring. Because in aother ironic twist of fate, when my cusions aunt was dying, none of the other brothers (3 others) wives really tried to take care of her besides the one who chose the "devil girl". She was there from what i was told, and did a great job you would have thought she was a RN.

Even my mom, who was the main teaser on him had to admit that they were wrong in teasing him all these years as his wife was the only one that steped up to the plate caring for his dying mother and the other "black sister wives' didnt ....Not trying to say anything bad about black women at all, it just that a sterotype was destroyed that year in my family