White women ONLY like darkskinned black men.

Anyone ever heard of this one? What do you think? Us black men come in all shades. Dark, brown, caramel, yellow....even white. I think it is the same as saying all black men love and worship fat, ugly blondes with blue eyes.(A white guy on the street said that)

 

I've heard this too Frozen Veins and have decided it's simply not true. I personally like mine dark and lovely but I know plenty of ww who like them light. I think it's completely a myth. I have seen plenty of sexy light skinned men too :!: Don't get discouraged.

 

Hell having ebony skin has to have some other advantages beyond skin protection.

I got teased like a MF when Al B Sure was the hot thing. It was strange because the black kids were fixated on color yet the white kids didn't pay it much mind.

 

Most white women I know really don't even care if the person is black or white, just if he is a good man or not. I have been rejected by more black women for being the wrong shade then white women.

 

I got teased for being too dark (I am medium light caramel) now I get teased for being too light. And I have evil eyes, but I learned to change the evil look into a sexy intimidating look. I used to look so evil people would say "Who did you kill? You look pissed off" LOL But I still pull white chicks though.

 

Evil eyes? Hmmm I didn't know one can change their eyes to look evil or not... interesting

As far as only liking dark skin, for me that is not true. I've dated dark, medium, light... it's the whole package (NO not THAT package) that counts. :wink:

 

Oh the solution to my evil look is to smile. :lol: I have a natural frown....well my whole family does on my mother side. :twisted: The smile turns the evil look into a sexy look. :twisted: I like that little face lol :twisted:

 

You know Frozen Veins, I think people are going to tease no matter what shade you are. My husband is very dark and his friends crack jokes on him all day about being "dark vader", or playing like they can't see him at night. Then he turns around and talks about me and my white ass. It's all in fun. But at the end of the night it's not your skin color that makes me jump on you, it's just you. I bet your evil look is sexy so keep using it. If an evil look turns a woman on, she's probably pretty freaky and that can be very good. :smt080

 

Did you get your email Jasie?

 

Alot of black women and hispanic seem to diss darkskinned brothas, alot of white women and asian women don't from my oservations.

Anybody else see that happening?

 

I only see black women dissing dark men if "she's" dark as well. I couldn't date a dark skinned bw because the pressure is always to lighten the offspring. I don't date many hispanic women but I've never heard any complaints.

If you read the biography of Malcom X he specifically talks about how "he wasn't in" with the ww. They wanted darker men. It's really no different today. I've had more ww like me than bw that I know of and dark skin never was an issue.

 

What I am going to say will not tickle the ears of many here.

Black women from my experience ONLY want darkskinned men.
Hispanic women want to marry and date white men to lighten themselves(???)
Asian women and culture look down on darker/african traits. Dark skin is viewed as poor and unwanted but lighter skin means rich and royal. Skin whiteners are big in Asia.

But on the flip side.

Hispanic women can actually be "Black" as Hispanic is a culture.
And in Japan Hip -hop has turned the face of the black people into something more urban hip and cool. Japanese women nowday will date a black guy and are more open to them than they where back in the 70's.


As for white women, I never heard of white haveing preferences in anything other than you being a good man and be able to take care of her.

That is why I tend to gravitate to white women because they judge me on how I treat them and my goals in life ect.

I mean I have ran into white women that have said no to me just because I was of african decent and did not want to be in an interracial relationship (and that is their preference). But most I have met said they would give me a fair chance and would not treat me like they are doing me a favor.

 

Yes, Natedogg, I got the email and responded. Check it out.

 

Tease? No I can take a joke. I am talking about skin color preference in dating/marrying. But your right.

And I like evil looking white women too. Evily sexy..... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

 

As a black man of African descent I am not not looked down upon by anyone because I am not beneath anyone. Asians or Latinos or whites can choose to view me anyway this wish but it is neither "looking up" or "looking down" that designation or perception comes from an individuals subjective opinion of themselves.

White women prefer white males versus anyone else. Go on to any large dating service and this will become abundantly clear. It's natural IMO. A white women raised by a white mother and father is going to naturally have an affinity for other whites. Now replace white with Asian or Black or Indian and the story remains the same.

Interracial relationships are a vast minority compared to same race relationships. Which makes them quite special when they work.

 

Thats right! :smt038

 

I do think you bring up some good points Froze Veins. Latinas are trying to lighten their appearance. I was just watching George Lopez and he got on some of them. He said "stop dying your hair blonde, everyone can tell you're latina"

There are indeed color issues in every area of this globe. I do agree that white women are imminently easier to approach and talk with. Most aren't trying to change themselves other than look as good as they can. So you don't run into these funky identity issues.

You sound like a handsome brotha. All women should see you shining. I truly believe if there weren't these folks sticking to racial dogma we'd all have an easier time dating.

Frankly I'm attracted to the rather nerdy and conservative white woman but she's a tough nut to crack. I'll keep at it though.

 

Hey thanks man! All I can do is try to better myself. As for those with those issues I just let them be. And we all would have a better time dating if there weren't so many strings, wires and labels everyone wants to put on race.

Oh I am attracted to the extremely nice,quiet and kind white women that is extra extra kind and oh so innocent. I would spoil her to death!!! But I usually see a skinny blonde haired girl that fits that role and I love redheads with green eyes. I like blondes with green eyes too! I could oh had a really good girlfriend now that has a future as a news reporter but NOOOOO.......Frozen Veins has to be dumb and confused about his attraction and what he really wants. Now she is gone and he can't find her. By time she finishes her newsreporter training she will be flocked by thousands of men. Beautiful girl she was, and a good head on her shoulder.

*Frozen Veins kicks himself*

 

I'm glad ww like black men of all colors. Otherwise, I'd have to go to a tanning salon to get even darker!

 

I agree with you Chigirl, their package is more important :lol:

Yeah I'll date any colour from caramel to actual 'black' black. My current guy is quite fair.