White Women Are "Easy"?

Black men that I have talk to about the difference between white and black women all have said that white women are better groomed. I have alot of black girlfreinds and they even say the same thing. I don't think that the color of someones skin should say anything about them. It is wrong to judge people. When I see a black man and a white woman the first thingI think is that they must really like each other to put up with all of society being against them being together. And as for being easy I have been close freinds with my guy for a long time and we have just now became sexual.

 

What baffles me is the fact that alot of these ladies date black men. Their mates have said this and that about black women, white women, etc. What have held you back from exploring these things yourselves?? Your mate is black so what is keeping you from going to the black communities and learning for yourself?? Guess what?? Not all black communities are Ghettos!!! So feel free to explore!! You cant believe everything you hear or read!! Some of these people you get your info from have totally disconnected themselves from the black community, and culture, so how in the hell can the speak on what being said or done?? Do I still live in the hood?? No!! I tell you what though, every woman I've dated have walked the same play gounds, talked to the old friends, heard of my experiences good, and bad, shoot hoop, played football at the same place in which I became a house hold name as we ventured through my old PROJECT housing. There are those that dont like what they see, but they just dont know "Ignorance", but all in all we/she had a great time and saw life from my eyes. Dont be ashamed or scared to show your ladies, what have made you the person/man you are today!! One Luv!!

 

Hope you are not lumping me into your statement about the white women on this board. I cant recall ever making a stereotyping statement about black women. My husband is definately NOT disconnected from his black roots. He makes a living writing books that are staples of the black community. He also makes sure he gives back to his community and lends a helping hand often to young black lower income kids.

 

Red, I applaud your hubby. Instead of being on this board or computer complaining I see he's being proactive. I say, you wanna silence the ignorance, get out there and see/hear what's really going on. Most folk are just too busy trying to survive, than to worry about who you are dating much less saying anything. Day to day itself is a challenge.

 

Hi. I aggree with a lot of people on this board. I just wish that everyone would stop trying to blame somebody else forinterracial relationships. Does it have to be somebody's fault that two people of a different race fall in love with each other? I wish people would just get over it. When my fiance and I got out in public we get stares and commets from everyone. Young, old, white, and black. Personally I don't see what the big deal is.

 

Cordelia wrote :

:lol: ...If a man thinks that way, there must be reasons for. Lack of self-confidence, negative experiences etc.

 

YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY MISTAKEN!!

I am speaking as a white woman and I have to say that your perception of white girls being easy and letting men walk all over them is completely wrong. First of all, if anything I think that white women don't tend to be easy at all. There is alot of them out there that put a strong value on their "virginity" and wait until they are married. I am not saying that black girls don't do this, just that white women do value their sexuality more than what you were told. As far as us letting men walk all over us, that is a load of shit too. Granted, there some out there that do let men walk all over them. But that has nothing to do with race. White women are just as likely to stand up for themselves and not take shit from anyone just as much as women in any other race. :lol:

 

Re: YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY MISTAKEN!!

people just want something to be wrong with a WW that likes Brothers..It helps them cope with the situation better.

BW get walked over in IR's a lot more than WW..A WM can bed-down a BW without even divulging his phone number or address..

My personal experience and observations over the years have led me to the conclusion that IT'S A LOT EASIER FOR A WM TO WALK OVER A BW THAN IT IS FOR A BM TO WALK OVER A WW.

I've seen BW pump the gas while the White boyfriend sits in the car..I've seen WM park down the street and honk the horn for BW..

I have yet to meet a WW that'll let me sit on my ass in the A/C while she pumps gas..I have yet to meet a WW that'll let me honk the horn for her from half a block away..

Ya'll would be surprised at the shit BW take off WM..

 

Are white women easy?

Nikki:

I was reading Ebony magazine a and I remember seeing an article asking four black men in the entertainment bussiness. (not named)

"WHY DO WHITE GROUPIES GET MORE PLAY THAN BLACK GROUPIES?"

The t.v actor said: Well you can get away with a lot of the B.S with a white gropie but a sista won't put up with it.

The rapper said" I don't go that route" (like he don't mess with white women) the article mentioned they thought he was lying

The basketball player said "I guess its the status quo"

The urban designer said " You can get get a white one to do things not even the nastiest black girl won't do"

These black men don't have any respect for the white women they do date. how sad it that??

 

Re: Are white women easy?

I find this post completely lacking in class. This site is not mean for this kind of garbage posting. WW who date I/R are not more promiscuous than BW. Just because 4 BM supposedly said something derrogatory about WW they date/sex, it is no more relevant to BM/WW couples than the opinion of 4 WM about BW they I/R date/sex.

 

Nikki here with lot's of class!!!

I did not say ww were promisucuious.

These men are talking about GROUPIES!!

WHITE GROUPIES .NOT ALL WHITE WOMEN!! GOT IT??

There is a lot of garbage on the site already, but a long as the trash talking is about bw you don't mind right?

I bet you never said anything about that!!

I will post no more ok? bye!!!

 

Bye Bye

 

Re: promisucuious

Nice stereotyping, kind of like the KKK stereotyping all black people. Not the kind of company I'd care to be compared to.

Sthrn

 

Mandinka2000: Sorry but that's bullshit!!

If that's the case, then all Black women are rude, annoying and have a chip on there shoulder!!!!!

I DONT THINK SO!!!!!!!!!!! :evil: :evil: :evil:

 

If you call yourself insulting him by insulting slurring BW...this won't do since he dates WW. Does Lynndie England epitomizes WW? She fukked other soldiers while Iraqi prisoners looked on, is now pregnant with an OOW and showed how low class, evil, unfeminine, unattractive and trashy some WW can be. Now how do you like this? It's quite acceptable when BM come here to denigrate BW, but now you know how it feels when the shoe is on the other foot. Hold on...some BM will ride to the rescue and defend your honor.

 

Errrm.... if you bother to read my post correctly before reacting in such a defensive way, you will see I was being sarcastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why do you think I wrote (in CAPITALS by the way) I Don't Think So!!!!?????

I was making a point of say that anyone can generalize but it's NOT true!!

So before you jump on my back, can you read the post carefully, or if you don't get sarcasim then don't comment!! :evil:

 

If you are talking to Sweet Angel I think you read her post wrong. I took it to mean she didn't agree that all BW are a certain way.

And on a side note. I don't understand what Lynndie England has to do with anything. Why in the world would any woman be up in arms to be compared to another person if they know they are nothing like her? How ridiculous is that.
Sthrn

 

I dont have a problem with YOU per se. I have a problem with people generalizing, ie your claims that married White women are promiscuious. My mum is a married White woman and is certainly not promiscuious!!

Hence my post stating that any one can generalize about another race, however what there saying isn't usually true or at least for most cases!!

 

I think black women who date these types of men do so because that's pretty much all that's out there. And also, the 'good' men, tend to not have the same approach as the 'bad' ones. Many women may not know a good guy is interested, because he doesn't approach her, while the bad one does.