White Women Are "Easy"?

Ya know, I believe that's the 3rd time I've seen you write this. Maybe I ought to take a trip to Canada myself. What part(s) of the country do you recommend?

 

Ontario...

Hey! Only the second!! :lol:

Well......what part of the country.....hmmm. I'd say somewhere in the middle. Large Jamaican community in Toronto and I'm sure lots of IR dating there.

 

Canada

What city in Canada,Toronto,Vancouver,or Montreal? I've never been there in my life and I thought Canadian women are just like the White women in the USA. As for Africanboychild,he needs to come to Canada since in Zimbauwe the government has taken the land and the White women since the government officials have them.

 

:!: If its going to be like that you should stay true to your convictions and either wait for what you want in a white woman or leave your country and go to one where you can because you're not doing any "chocolate" women any favors in the meantime. :evil: In fact you're sounding close to a sell-out. If you find white woman wonderful and you'd like to have a relationship with one badly so be it. But this garbage about "One day I shall get what I'm longing for but for now I guess its back to chocolate" pisses me off. You insinuate that until you can find a white woman you will have to make due with a "chocolate" woman, until what you long for becomes available. That is a sell-out remark and man to man I don't appreciate it and have no respect for it!

Your preference for white women and the lack of them in your country is understandable to your frustration. But its disgraceful to make comments that essentially come down to using black women for the time being until a white woman comes along or you have a chance to be with one.


-The Spade-

 

One last thing. Since Africanboychild, is from Zimbabwe, he knows how awfully difficult conditions are there with many people not having enough food to eat, dealing with a failing economy, and a seriously corrupt government. So while his fellow Zimbabweans are hustling to survive, living in critical conditions that are quickly deteriorating he comes here pining for white women to such an extent that he would dare say "One day i shall get what i'm longing for, but for now I guess its back to the chocolate" even with all the problems going on. He never did say anything that gave the impression that the "chocolate" women were of bad character or anything like that, but rather it was more a matter of racial preference (which he is entitled to), but it makes his latter comment in question all the more flagrantly insensitive. Especially considering the circumstances the people and "chocolate" woman of Zimbabwe are going through. See THE TRUTH ABOUT ZIMBABWE


Africanboychild is no longer here because he was banned shortly after we had a further dialogue. His posts were deleted save one, the very one I'm talking about now. Shortly after his banishment he comes back, under a different name as I did not ban is ip, and tries to petition the people here about whether or not he was treated fairly. Which I found incredibly stupid and a waste of motion! If you were banned and deleted the first time why would you think you could come back and start a discussion as to why you were banned? As if you would not be moderated again. Africanboychild, if you're reading this, instead of trying to get back on this board and petition against my "censorship" you should save that energy to help the people in your country speak out against the corruption of your land and respect your fellow black women in the process and not sell them out with comments like the one you posted formerly.


-The Spade-

 

first of all, i like to say HELLO to all the women on the board regardless of your ethnic background....... I'M NEW TO THIS BOARD SO YOU WILL HAVE TO HELP ME OUT......

ALL WHITE WOMEN ARE NOT EASY , JUST LIKE ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT JEALOUS WOMEN. to answer the question only black men who think white women are easy and black women are jealous are guys who had terrible communication with a women period or they attract white women, black women, etc.. with low-self esteem about themselves period. ONLY WOMEN THAT ARE EASY IS A WOMAN(BLACK, WHITE, HISPANIC, ASIAN)
WITH LOW-SELF ESTEEM...........

hello, ladies i'm a LOS ANGELES NATIVE CURRENTLY WORKING IN OHIO RIGHT NOW....

 

"You insinuate that until you can find a white woman you will have to make due with a "chocolate" woman, until what you long for becomes available. That is a sell-out remark and man to man I don't appreciate it and have no respect for it! "


Applause, applause!

 

snowflake: how is that a sell out remark? Do you understand what this website is about? This is about Interracial love. If the brother feels that he as to bide his time until that perfect match comes along then so be it.

the sell out remark is yours, trying to tell a person what they should think and do. sell outs are like Toms, they try and make others fall in line like clones of everyone else.

NO bro, black men who love the company of white women have the same right to their loving interest as you do for chasing black women.

 

In some of Snowfall's posts I assumed it was a woman, but I guess the the above post say's otherwise. Oh well, nevertheless I'm with Tuck on this one. I don't know, maybe it's me, but there seems to be a lot of confusion among a lot of the white female posters on this board as to why we CHOOSE to date white women. Yes, it's a choice. I, for one, do not NEED to be with a white women. My preference in them is a choice, nothing more and nothing less. Yet there are white women on this board constantly posting that they would not want to date a black man who hated black women, or they wouldn't want to date a black man who had a problem with black women this way, or a problem with them that way. So my question to the white women on this board guilty of feeling that way is this: "Where do you see black men saying that they hate black women or dissing black women in any way on this forum?" There's this constant assumption from some of the female posters on here that black men are somehow dissing black women. They say, 'You don't see us dissing white men', but those same individuals are on here saying that black men are better hung, better built, better at sex, and every other physicality than white men. Which is actually saying that white men are physically weaker than black men. Could that be considered dissing white men? The female posters on here are saying things like that but have a problem with the brothers speaking about the shortcomings of black women. It's bad enough that many of the white female posters seemed to have coward away from posting anymore on this forum after the incident that happened back on April 5th, but don't be using what the brothers say in this forum against us as a way to sheild yourselves from further attacks from the trolls who pop up from time to time to express their resentment about why they are against black men and white women dating. We all should be coming here to express ourselves in some fun, stimulating and intelligent conversation. Sure we're not going to agree with what everyone else says. That's cool. It only shows that there are real human beings posting on here. But let's get out of the habit of judging each other as to why we choose to be interracially involved. Each of us has his or her own reason for wanting to be interracially involved. And just because you don't agree with it does not make it a wrong reason. We're going to be getting enough attacks from the rest of the world. Peace.

 

Here's my POV about the BW bashing issue: I would not date a man who was more consumed with hating another woman (or group of women) than he was with loving me. Been there, done that: I was once involved with a guy who hadn't gotten over a bitter divorce. I felt that his ex was so strongly present that it became a "Three's A Crowd" situation and I had to get out.

I would rather hear my boyfriend say to me, "I really appreciate you because of the way you were so supportive to me through the shit that's been going down at work" than to have him continue, "...unlike all those _____ bitches from Hell who wouldn't know a good man if he came up to them on the street bla bla bla". Then, it isn't about us any more - it's about him and Other People. Does this make any sense to you?

 

Here's the quote I was responding to, which I cut out and probably removed from the entire context of the post:

Sorry if I wasn't clear! You know I enjoy your posts even if we don't always see 100% eye-to-eye, and it was not my intention to take a part of what you said and go off on a tangent/rant.

 

Cordelia,

That is vain,selfish, and contradicting. Your boyfriend can tell you that he appreciates your support for the things happening to him at work but he cannot be SPECIFIC about the people giving him a hard time at work if it were black women because YOU feel you are not getting the attention by trying to say it isn't about you anymore???? Woman, that is ridiculous! I can understand your sentiments about someone not getting over a bad relationship so much so that they cannot truly start a new one but the example you gave above shows that you are need to work on some things yourself before getting in a relationship let alone talk about someone else. ..

-The Spade-

 

Chillbill and Tuckereed,

Let's clear the air on some things. First of all, Snowflake quoted that statement from ME! If the two of you would go a bit further and read the previous posts you would see why. Perhaps this would clear up that bit of misunderstanding. If not, well, lay your cards on the table and let's get it on. Incidentally Chillbill, I know exactly what you are saying in regard to the white women on the forum and their opposition to our telling it like it is when it relates to our experiences with certain types of black women. I too have some strong sentiments to bring forth on that issue and will be doing so shortly.

-The Spade-

 

You're speaking some serious gospel now! But you see Chillbill, given the chance most of these white women would not answer your question because it would expose the flawed reasoning they base their assumptions off of. Which is precisely what I have seen many women here do, give accusations but provide no logic or reason beyond it. Should they provide an explanation it is always one that contradicts and is full of double standards. Not too long ago I had to remove a thread that was posted by someone trying to provoke a subtle disruption, more then likely that someone was formerly banned and was trying their hand at a different technique at the sly promotion of those black women whose negative character should not be promoted at all. And guess who this person decided to direct their comments to....the WHITE WOMEN! [To those white women who behave differently you are excluded from those I am speaking of.] Why? Because formerly this person ran into great resistence from the black men here but the women, the white women, were more passive to his/her cause. So said person decided to go immediately to the white women alone in a post to get the momentum needed for their disruption. Women like who? Women like Cordelia, who in one post admitted she did not know too much about the problems being discussed by the black men who were defending this forum from those black women who were coming here to be passive and aggressive disruptions but nevertheless decided to put forth compassionate sentiments to one of those disruptions when she should have keep out of it altogether.

When hating black women have come to this forum it was not and is not the white women that stand up and do the majority of the defending of this forum, it is the black men. This is because the black men here have much experience with these types of women (indeed said females do not even deserve such a term as women as they are imposters in every sense of the word) and know that if they were allowed to go about unchecked the entire purpose of the forum would be undone with senseless chaos and needless arguments. Are those white women who claim we "hate" black women in appreciation for those deeds! No! They run their mouths about matters they do not fully understand and give a hand to the very type of enemy that would help continue the division of the interracial relationship they claim to want to be a part of. Afterwards they would expect those same "black women haters" to come to their rescue and wonder why they would allow these women to be such a sweeping problem for the forum in the first place along with presenting themselves as if they were desirable.

What we have here is a organic portal network operating at full throttle. You were right Chillbill when you said:

My point exactly. If we allowed these women to have their way, both those who sympathize and those who would disrupt there would be all kinds of difficulties on this forum. Some of these white women are so hung up on themselves that they think we speak the way we do about those black women that are problematic to impress them. The audacity! As if no higher purpose were being addressed (more symptoms of an organic portal). And in addition to that they behave as though a black man cannot express himself nor deal with the problem that certain black women present without being needy and starved for attention to the point that they must engage in some manipulation to get him to do what they want him to do, and by doing so he must turn his back on solving the problem and let it persist until THEY say its time for him to give the matter some attention...IF THEY GIVE PERMISSION AT ALL. As men we are to allow all this for what? A chance at some terrible sex with some vain imposter version of a true woman who plays the understanding lover but opens the door wide for problems to surge through and parades about as if she were worth the trouble she would surely bring? NO!

Its one thing to have to fend off nonsense from people trying to ease in and start something its another thing to have the women here help them in the process. Then again, no it isn't. The result is the same, one component helps the other to further the objective of divide and conquer. If that is the case then I'm going to have to be more exacting on the other element of the disruption, because I've been paying more attention to those trying to storm the castle and not those lowering the drawbridge from within.



-The Spade-

 

Spade, i was addressing what snowflake wrote, sorry wasnt attacking you or anything, so dont care to get it on as you say.

I was writing to flake.

 

Excellent. It was just a misunderstanding then. 8)

 

Hey Spade, thanks for your support of my post. It was a misunderstanding on my part too. I didn't realize that Snowfall was quoting from one of your statements. I thought she was being another one of these women who were having a problem with the brothers expressing their disinterest in black women, thus my post. I guess I interpreted your post to Africanboy differently when I read it. I thought you were checking him because he made the statement he made while knowing that he and his fellow countrymen are going through some very terrible conditions right now. Africanboy's reasoning for choosing to be in an interracial relationship cannot be the same as ours. Unlike here, I'm sure the women in his country are devoid of all the haughtiness and insecurities that make so many of the black women here hard to get along with. So I was and still am in full support of your addressing Africanboy about that. But I thought Snowfall was falling into this pattern of thinking that if a black man said something that she felt was negative toward black women then he must be dissing black women. It's easy for some of the women in this forum to feel that way, because they're not the ones always being attacked by the trolling that happens here from time to time. WE ARE. Since I became part of this forum I have not once seen any white men come to this forum attacking white women's preference in black men. So to those white women on here who say, 'You don't see us getting into it with white men', the simple answer to that is they have not been given a reason to. Again, thanks for your support of my post.

 

Thanks for seeing where I was coming from Cordelia. My post was not an attack against you - or any of the women here for that matter. It was just something that I felt needed to be addressed so I addressed it. By the way Cord, I enjoy your postings also and glad to see that you and all the other women are part of the forum.

 

I wish white women were easy, heck, I would have a date once in a while. but I can attest that they are not even close to EASY.

 

Oyyyyyy.... What is wrong with these women???????

*goes to bang her head against the wall*