White women aging

I don’t like the mommy boy concept so I’m not into men who need a second mommy to help them with their hygiene and what to wear and all of that, no thanks. It’s enough for me to make sure my kids have clean faces, clean ears and no ashy skin.
If it becomes a complaint health wise I usually have something to suggest though depending what it is because I’m into phytomedicine and natural medicine. Up to him whether to take the advise or not. (Except for the vitamin D, I might mix that one into
his food. Kidding.)

 

Kinda what that is or just some form of codependency if you expect him to tell you when to wear sunscreen tho.

I think most relationships are somewhat codependent. I'm the odd ball for not wanting that stuff.

I just don't find it appealing at all.

 

No, I do not expect him to tell me to wear sunscreen.
I have the feeling you have a certain opinion of what you think I think about marriage so you read everything I ever mention that has to do with marriage a certain way. Well, you just might be wrong just like you were surprised I didn’t grow up in some evangelical fundamentalist household.

 

Not just marriage but relationships in general.

And yes most people have to be taught the bible at an early age to actually believe it. That was not a personal assessment of you, it's my observation of reasoning vs faith.

A lot of stuff in the bible would be and is considered absurd unless you were taught that from childhood. You were an exception.

 

Exactly, marriage and relationships. Well you know there are always 2 sides of communication, sender and receiver. It’s ok though, it’s the nature of the format we have only partial impressions of the members here. I don’t like it though when people think they have me so figured out they read everything I say along the same line and don’t try to actually get what I mean.
And yes it’s possible to become a believer later in life because that happens not through the intellectual part of you but the spiritual part of you. So it’s possible to have a conviction in the spirit that doesn’t make sense in your brain.

 

I'm just reading what you write.

It's common to look at relationships like you do. So it's not that I think I have you figured out. You just seem to want or have what most women want or think they want. Just by what you say. I've seen that plenty of times. You can call that normal I guess because it's common.
However you as a person goes beyond how you view relationships.

I guess I'm just responding from a perspective that you haven't seen before.

As far as later life "convictions" yeah I've seen it. Like Malcolm X ect.....

If a person gets in a jam and can't seem to figure it all out sometimes faith is what comforts them, not shocking that most of them are black when you look at America. Sometimes it could also be something that I'm not aware of but that would be an exception. I know exceptions do happen.

 

This white woman is aging horribly.

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