white woman on the run

I agree.

Yes, and why is she only mentioning the black men? What's up with that?

And, the comment about black men being mean and believing that everything happens to them because they are black is also a form of bigotry.

 

I noticed it myself. I wonder if they are all the same person as well.

It's pretty obvious how slow these trolls are, especially when they ask questions on the boards they should already know the answer to.

 

yes it seems like she has it out for the brothaz, she is the type of woman to avoid in a bar, if you even look at her she is calling 911 and yellin' a black man raped me

 

Hmmm... You see, to me all this girl wanted was a little bit of advice on how to turn down an unwelcome advance, in a polite way so that IF the unwanted advance came from a bm, that he would not think that his advances were unwelcome because he is black.

This sort of relates to my topic "Is it always a question of race?" :
( http://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=2650&sid=87f8a284e2cd221838eff3376a42c05c )

I think that is some cases, bm in particular, assume that if a ww rejects their advances that it necessarily has to do with the fact that he is black, when that may not be the case at all.

That's how I read this topic...

Now, I don't know about the "new members with broken English" theory... sounds kinda like a conspiracy theory to me... hmmmm. :roll:

 

In the real world, darling, most times it is about race. If you look at statistics, only 10% every date and marry outside of their so called racial group, that 10% includes asians marrying whites, hispanic marrying whites, and those groups marrying blacks too. so it is just not as clear as you want to see it.

when we as black people get rejected it may not be because of the color of our skin but because of the legacy of white racism in the US, Canada, and Europe so when we as people of color get treated poorly, rejected for jobs or relationships, housing etc, then it is more than likely it is because of our race but as your question stated, "It is NOT always Race, but certainly Probably Race".

the native Americans and first Nations people thought the Europeans were nice too, until the stole their land, committed genocide against their people, broke all the treatise and left them on reserves. White man usually speak with "Forked Tongue"

 

I hear what you are getting at.
but...
Is a person racist just because this person does not date outside their race? (for whatever reason... When I went to highschool, there were NO black kids at my school.... I didn't date black boys cause there were no black boys... certainly not because I was racist!) Is the ONLY way to not be racist to marry someone of another race according to what you're saying?

 

well thats just silly. if there are no blacks in the school or town, how would you date them? simple logic would stand that thats not racism, but if one chooses not reject some one based on race that is racist. it is saying that all people are not equal and that is part of what makes racism evil

 

I know... I just wanted to clear that up.

But it sometimes seems as though ww HAVE to accept an advance from a bm in order to not appear racist!

If a black man comes up to me in club and asks me to dance and I say no (in a polite yet firm manner... actually it makes no difference what I say or how I say it.. I could have a freakin' wedding band on and the reaction might be the same!) If he plays the race card and accuses me of not wanting to dance with him because I'm racist then what the hell I am supposed to do?? Dance with him to shut him up? That's just not fair!

I think that's what this topic was about... How can we, as non-racist ww, avoid these situations?? And might I remind that these situations can happen anywhere.. the grocery store, the gym, the library, the coffee shop.. not just at a club, so don't tell us to stay out of clubs!

 

not if you are polite and say no thank you , and you dont just do that to all black men

 

i am 39 years old and i am travelling round since 25 years. never i will understand or accept, if somebody tells me, that i have to hide myself, to be safe. if somebody does not know, how to respect or treat other persons, it is not my fault. i have the right to go in a bar, in a theater, in a cinema or wherever i want, with friends or alone.

this bar in las vegas was the bar of the hotel, where i was sleeping, by the way , four stars.
sometimes it would be better, first to ask, if something is not clear, before accusing or attacking.

yes it seems like she has it out for the brothaz, she is the type of woman to avoid in a bar, if you even look at her she is calling 911 and yellin' a black man raped me

this remark is really offensive.

and for my english, i am from germany, maybe my english is not so well, as you are used.
i am very sorry about that.

i like to meet people from other countries, i like it to travel, to see other cultures and mantalities. i am very happy that many persons have the tolerance and the same interest like me, so that we can talk together and maybe become friends.

 

The remarks she made about black men would be considered trolling, since she hasn't met all black men to know what they will be thinking...

and, it's not like all black men will hit on her anyway, or want to have sex with him. No one is forcing her to say yes.

If she wants to say no, then do it the same way you would with any man, white, black, or otherwise. It's just that simple.

 

totally correct. since I am a black man and I can tell you without a doubt, I would not hit on her at a bar. that is just not my style, i dont assume that a woman will like me just because i come up to her and start talking. many women are just as rude as men and will ignore you if you try and talk to them. so i just hang out with my friends, dance by myself if I have to, but not going to act desperate and trying to pick up a woman with some lame line