White men aren't into white women who date black men

fromrussiawithlove · Jan 2, 2010

Yeah, whatever. I've dated white guys after dating black guys. I've dated black guys after dating white guys. Nobody really gave a crap.

Harmless Voyeur · Jan 2, 2010

EspyInHeels said: ↑

I did read them, and he is by no means the most negative person here. He is simply entitled to his opinion, just as you are entitled to yours.

Again, he's entitled to his opinion. If his IR experiences have been negative, that's likely what his opinion is going to be based upon. You specifically asked people how they felt about you, a white man, being here. He responded honestly to your question. If you aren't prepared for the answer, don't ask the question. Given that you've been pretty upfront regarding what draws you to this forum, any negativity directed at you should be expected. I'm not saying that's right or wrong, but expecting hugs all around while Kumbaya plays softly in the background is a bit naive.

I personally believe you can learn something from everyone, sometimes all you learn is that there are some seriously fucked up people in the world, but it's still a learning experience. Sometimes I find that I learn more from people who think the opposite of me, than from the people who share my viewpoint, because they cause me to stray outside my mental comfort zone, so to speak. Perhaps you should try affording other people the type of open mindedness you desire from them. You may be surprised what you learn about them, and about yourself.
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I appreciate your post but I'm confused as to why you're directing it to me and not Frederick. Reading the posts objectively as possible, he's clearly the one who needs some advice on tolerance.

Please keep in mind that it was Frederick trying to take my comments out of context that caused this dust up to begin with. The fact that he earlier pointed out his knee jerk reaction to me being here only reinforces the idea that it his intolerance that is the issue here...not me.

Frankly, the guy just needs to stop obsessing about me being here and then he'll maybe stop trying to misrepresent anything I write to play into his own preconceived notion about a white man's view on IR relationships.

Harmless Voyeur · Jan 7, 2010

Frederick said: ↑

Look buddy, you can take your bogus accusation of racism and shove it...
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You had me at hello.

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