White men aren't into white women who date black men

I've heard this all my life. Once a girl/woman is with a black man then white men won't have anything to do with her. She's tainted, damaged good in some ways.

I've even seen this go on with a couple of girls I grew up with. This has never been my personal experience though.

Point in case ...right now I'm on a couple of interracial dating sites. On one a little over 1/3 of the men who have contacted me are white....even though I specifically have selected that I am looking for a black man. I've been rather surprised that so many white men have approached on these sites. And it hasn't been to be rude or condemn my attraction to black men at all.

Let me just say that I don't get approached by "thugs" or whatever. I tend to get approached by well educated, successful professional men....whether white, black, purple, or green. I will say that I tend to attract men who are more open...but I think that has more to do with my personality and my interests.

 

Stereotypes and Myths White Men Are Not Into White Women Who

- KnCA.

Okay, now this should be a case example that all people can learn from, especially when trolls come in here and espouse such ignorant viewpoints.The rest of the board has seen me post plenty of times that the idea of a white woman's "desirability" decreasing because she consorts with a black man is absolutely ridiculous.
My theory is that white men who say this are employing age old tactics that equate to "sour grapes."Think about it:If you can successfully get enough white women to buy into the idea that they'll be less appealing to white men if they consort with black ones, there's a good chance that some white women may develop negative feelings toward black men.Isn't that the goal of a racist paradigm?
Anyone is entitled to their own opinions about white women who date black men exclusively, but NO ONE is entitled to make up their own FACTS about a given situation.I am willing to wager that other white women on this board have had similar experiences to Kn in CA, and I'd love to see them posted, because it only serves further to drive this miserable stereotype deeper into the ground; where it ultimately belongs.
Thanks.

 

as with all stereotypes....I think it's fear based.

I think there are many white men who are afraid they will not live up to whatever ideas they have about black men.

In my personal experience, white men tend to be way more preoccupied with and insecure about their penises. But then maybe it has to do with that a black man going after a white woman is going to tend to be more confident in general.

 

You've all answered it best but i submit that this myth is just that; a myth. A number of the white girls i've dated have gone back to white men. Similarly, you won't be hard pressed to find other white women who've been involved with black men but go on to date white men in the future. Some folks would rather make up facts than face the truth but good rhythm (pun definitely intended) :lol: to them .

 

A stereotype just like any other. It depends on the white man. Some good ole boy yes, he may have a problem with it. But not the normal men that I've been meeting. And if I did come across a guy who had a problem with my interracial marriage, I'd want nothing to do with his ass. The men I've been meeting sometimes are a little surprised when I tell them, but that's as far as it goes. We all know this is America and everybody mixes with everybody all the time.

 

I remember I went to one of Mr. Spidey's football games. And one of the white players from the other team approached me and was trying to talk to me. I just looked at him and said "sorry I'm already going out with someone". And he asked me who and I pointed to the gorgeous hunk leading the drills. The guy looked at me like I was crazy and said "oh you're with n!gg@ meat" and he called me a smut. And I said to him "at least he has meat you ugly mother trukker." I wish I could have slapped him senseless but some of his "buddies" came over as if they were all big and bad :roll:. But Mr. Spidey came to save his Mary Jane before things got ugly. The nerve of some people.

 

So what??

Who gives a shit about who or what wm are into??

 

Good point.

However....who really cares about any of the stereotypes and myths out there....they are what they are. Just something of discussion.

 

Stereotypes-Shenango the troll is Back.

Hi folks.Shenango, our resident troll, is back, with more nonsense.

-Shenango, the troll.

Your life is limited, and so is your circle of knowledge.You have a personal agenda, and even when you see that something doesn't fit, you try and make it so. Don't they have any mental health counselors where you live?
You're a fucktard in the highest sense of the word.This poster knows who has solicited her.Just because you're an ass doesn't mean that all white men are that way.

Only in your make believe world.You must play a lot of online virtual reality games like "Second Life."Dude, , nobody has ever seen a single picture of you, so there is no good reason to believe anything you're saying. Why don't you go fantasize somewhere else? I know what you'd like to believe, but it just isn't true.

The proof is in the fact that you do all of this ONLINE, but in real life you're an abysmal failure.Productive people don't act like you do.White men who REALLY have choices don't choose to come to a site where they have been banned SOOOOOOO many times.Ask your friends whether or not you're a moron for coming to this site over and over and over again?
Damn,you're a waste of carbon.

 

Re: Stereotypes-Shenango the troll is Back.

LOL how conceited is this guy!!!! There are a lot of attractive people on this forum and nobody boasts about making people's day by talking to them for a few minutes! What is this guy doing on this board anyway?

 

Stereotypes.Shenango, The Troll.

:? This guy has been coming in since April that I know of, and saying these things.The poster claims to be a white male of MiddleEastern descent, living in Philadelphia, PA.He always starts his posts by saying he has mixed feelings about interracial dating.He has a psychological problem with black men and white women.He's stated so publicly.
He has been banned about 5 times and uses "Shenango," "Shenango 1," Shennango 2", "Shenango 3",(possibly 4) "Oculus", and recently "Kohai."

Most consider him to be just a minor annoyance, but cowardly insecure, ignorant white men with penis envy especially bother me.The kind that won't state how they feel publicly because it's easier to insult women in an anonymous fashion than to go seek the therapy so desparately needed. You'll know him because his post counts are always low.As Shenango, he had a few posts until the board, especially me, got sick of his act.Most on the board know that I don't care enough to hate him, but they also know if he uttered one negative word within real life earshot about these beautiful women on this board and these stand up black men, that he'd be a canidate for reconstructive surgery. And I'm pretty passive.

 

It's really not worth it.

Just remember....consider the source. It's not worth giving people like this any power. They don't deserve your consideration or energy.

 

Stereotypes an Myths -Wasting Energy On A Troll

You're correct. It's over now, trolls like that just irritate me.I'm cool now, thanks.

 

Contrary. Ww who dated bm are more open to other cultures and on average smarter, definately more creative.

 

I have come across wm who say that they wouldnt date a ww who has been with a bm. Whether this is true in practice, I dont know. But its true that once you start dating outside your race, you become more open and tolerant. Since dating bm, I have also been out with arab guys who I would never have considered dating before. Meeting people broadens the mind.

 

Yes it does.

 

I remember a brit celeb named Jordan. She had dated and had a child with a black man. I had seen her date a lot of WM.

 

I have heard this too. They say it out of frustration to upset you. I just say, that's fine, since I have no interest in any WM anyway!

 

That is the perfect response, every WW should use that response whenever an ignorant jealous WM says something like that. 8)

 

I have not run into this problem. I've gone back and forth and this has never even come up as an issue. I think it just depends on the man, personally. Some men are just stupid like that. :?