White Girls Discuss Dating Brothas

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I was a lil' skeptical before opening this thread as i thought it was going to be packed with some racist bullshit, but then i remembered it was my boy Noble 8) who found it, so i went on ahead.

Anyway, i respected the honesty and whilst the stereotypes were unfortunately present (God, how often does that happen! lol), for the most part, it was pretty decent and truthful. It seemed like the general consensus was "If he's "nice", go for it" although the definition of nice these days is pretty obscure.

 

yeah Cris, i agree. i only opened it because i knew noble wouldn't steer us wrong..lol anyway, i do think all the girls there were being totally honest with each other, and although the one girl says that she wouldn't date black guys because her family wouldn't let her *sigh* :roll: the concensus did seem to be that they would date a black guy if he was a great guy, and if he was compatible with her. i'm also extremely surprised that none of them seemed to be attracted to the so-called thugs, which was a little shocking. oh well, that bodes pretty well for guys like me, so i'm not complaining :wink:

 

Along the lines of white girls wanting to be with thugged out bros, someone had posted that it's also sort of a security thing for them to be with a brotha like that. They feel as if no one will mess with them when they're with this type of bro. :?

 

Some white ladies cos...not all.

 

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Result of poll Why white women date black men

 

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Agreed. I myself am not the scariest brotha out there but can hold my own; 6'8 250 lbs. I'm into martial arts so i am fluent kick-ass. lol. And i graduated University of Miami Law school. How awesome is that? Quite. How protective is that? Very.

Not to toot my own horns but women with class should pursue similar or better prospects.

 

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No...I was giving due respect to the LC as the Martial Arts Lawyer :!: :lol:

 

lol :lol:; thanks.

 

just seeing white girls talking about it and being open minded about it is such a great feeling for me. too bad most of the black guys in that thread were horny jerks. the sad part is tons of white girls DO wanna mess with a black guy (even if thats not really their thing). Odds are they will find at least ONE black guy they meet attractive over the course of their teenage/young adulthood years, but many are afraid of what their parents will think.

some are bad girls who enjoy rebelling and sneaking out and doing sh*t behind their parents back, so in that case its all good. but some are the goody goody type and dont wanna piss off mommy and daddy (or "disapoint" them) by bringing home a "Ni99er", no matter how well spoken he is.

I've been on both sides when "meeting the parents". There were times where I expected to be treated nice and they acted like I just got out of jail and couldnt stand the fact I was with their "precious" daughter. Other times I was scared and the parents were TOTALLY cool once they met me and I felt at home. Its a great great feeling when the parents approve.

I just wish we had some more cute white chicks in here having those types of conversations. this place would definately be more fun. its a shame noble has to go to some other forum to find that type of stuff. this damn site is a freakin sausage fest and the only females here are either way too old or taken...

 

Not for this white girl. I grew up in an economically-depressed area, so I've had my fill of bad boys. The BM I attract are all good, decent people, for which I am thankful.

 

Re: In 2007, It's Unfortunate This is Still Going On

Just happened to be browsing on this forum to see what's been going on here. It's unfortunate that in 2007, many white American families (and I'm not saying all, gut a good number of them) still behave this way. It seems as if any other ethnic group-Latino, Native American, Middle Eastern, etc., is more acceptable than black, especially if you're a black male. With white men, it is different from them. Their families tend to accept almost whoever they decide to marry.


I'm in my last semester in a graduate program at a predominantly white, Catholic and private university here in Philadelphia, Saint Joseph's University. While it is a great school in terms of academics and the professors are very approachable, intellectual and open-minded and liberal, it truly isn't the best school to go to if you're a black male hoping to have an active dating life. I pretty much don't even waste my time trying to talk to most women at my school unless I get a hint that some of them may be checking me out or showing some kind of green light. I tend to see these really terrified looks in most of their faces when you try to make eye contact with them. Most would immediately look away, others deliberately try to avoid making eye contact with you, etc. Also, most assume that you're there due to affirmative action and not because of your own abilities. I can't wait to get out of there. I only take a chance and approach women outside of my university. It's a shame.

 

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The term gangster "moll" was originally coined for women who are not Black. I can't tell you how sickening it is that so many of you have made this your mantra...while you give a straight up pass to all other women who lay with thugs. And BTW...thug is NOT synonymous with bm. Certainly you know who the original thugs are. How blind can you be to remotely float this lie that it's purely a Black woman's domain. *SMH*