White boyfriends wanting to share you

Age is nothing but a number....

 

Touche'! You're right, age is just a number. From the feedback I get from others, I'm holding up pretty well. My son's friend tried to flirt with me the other day and told me, "you look like you just turned 26". It was great for my ego since I actually just turned 40. So age maybe wouldn't be a factor but the 3,000 miles between us might!

 

WOW!

I'm somewhat impressed Moskvichka.

You seem to have the right combination of being able to keep your man thrilled, yet not making him feel disrespected. Plus, you seem to know just exactly where to draw the line on what is appropriate, and what's not in a committed relationship. How refreshing! You seem to display the hallmarks of a fine lifetime partner. We need more like you! :grin:

 

Thank you! Gotta love the man... if you love him, it all comes naturally. By the way I just found the most beautiful love song in the world. I'm sitting here wiping away tears. Here it is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W5fBppsntAE I heard this ballad before performed by Joan Baez in her early years, but this version is different.

 

Beautiful song indeed!

Love your taste in music.

If I were there, I'd wipe away your tears for you. :smt056

 

The only one that ever wanted to share me was the one that I mentioned in a different thread that had no respect.

According to him, he told his friends about the bedroom antics, and they wanted a piece of it. He was not only willing, but tried like hell to talk me into it so that he could watch. Told me how hot it would be.

That and he tried to convince me to show another woman a trick or two.

Yeah...he is long gone.

 

I agree. If I can't satisfy a woman MYSELF, I don't need to be with her. I sure as hell is not going to watch some other man do it.

 

How prevalent is this where you live in PA? Any of your friends been hit up by white couples to do the same thing?

 

No way, no how

If for some reason my man radar broke down really badly and I was unlucky enough to end up with a guy who suggested this, I would help him out with an express, one way ticket right out of my way. Hell f***ing no.


That cuckold issue makes me feel quesy, like I ate something bad, personally.

 

I don't know how prevelant it is or isn't, to be honest. My friends don't interact with white people as often as I do. I would never hold this conversation with most of my friends.

The guy I played baseball with knew that I was okay with being watched. He also knew that I wouldn't go off on him if I wasn't interested.

As far as the woman from work, she knew a lil about my history from 'office gossip'. I was quite young and plowing the woman around the office when I could.

I get the vibe from couples I know, but it's never obvious enough to risk the awkwardness of it, ya' know ?

 

I think the cuckold thing is rather common, and not a big deal. Different strokes, for different folks, ya know.

Most any well mannered, fit, black guy can easily become a "Fuck Buddy" to a "Hot Wife", if that's what he so desires, and as long as it is between consenting adults, then who can judge others for what fantasies they may have.

There are worse things a person can do.

 

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:smt042@ this thread.

 

Well said. This is a good reply to the mandingo thread

 

I have seen and witness this phenomenon before with white men.
It is both sad and sickening at the same time. .where the white man attempts to live vicariously through the black man to pleasure his wife.
Sexually, he is gratified when seeing or hearing about his own wife’s response in the experience. Whether it puts her in emotional conflict or not is inconsequential to him. Whether it will blemish or scar the marriage as time passes is also irrelevant. The goal is instant gratification at all cost. These twisted individuals often suffer from hypogonadism (grossly undersize penis) and are haunted by their own inability to adequately please their wives or partners.

 

Hell no..

 

Obviously each to their own but personally I don't see any amount of jealousy as healthy. Jealousy doesn't show that a person cares more for you its just insecurity within that person and they feel threatened if you show any attention to another person or if another person shows any attention towards you.

 

:smt042:smt042 Damn! if only that utility belt had been a few inches closer, that sexy fuck buddy coulda been you

 

I personally know 2 couples who had open sexual relationships as married couples, this included wife swapping and watching the wife sleep with another man, in both cases they ended in divorce, shortly after the sexually open behavior began, and all the people involved have had major emotional issues since, one suicide of the third party, (he personally told me many times it was a huge mistake) the women have been in multiple marriages after this, (3&5) and the 2 other guys, have been in multiple failed long term relationships and are both lonely old men now. Not one person now a number of years later that was involved in these relationships is happy.

Now you may say their unhappiness, is a result of many factors, and I'm sure that is true, maybe the "open relationship" was to blame, or was a symptom of a much deeper issue, either way it doesn't matter, they are all still unhappy 7 children were raised without both parents, and at least 6 adults are still regretting that decision.

Yes, you may say these are only 2 cases, but I challenge any one of you to tell of personal acquaintances any of you may have who have done so, and it has now been a while, and they are actually glad they did it.

 

You often hear of such cases. Also, couples think it's a great idea to have a one off threesome but it leads to many other problems. I don't think a trusting long term relationship can really involve a third party because where do you draw the line? If it's three single people - fine. I just can't see how it could work in a marriage. As they say though, every relationship is different and if it works for them...