Which Type of White Girl Is For You?

To me there are 5 types of white girls i cant resist:

ALL AMERICAN WHITE GIRLS: I grew up around these types of girls. These are your typical "shop at the mall all day", gossip about nothing, cheerleading types that usually go after the Brad Pitt looking guy on the football team who drives a corvette. i always believed these types to be unavailable to me, and they still are. I've never been with a girl like this and still remain a sort of "forbidden" fantasy. The only white girls I've ever been with belong to the remaining 4 categories below.



HIP HOP WHITE GIRLS: These might be my favorite. There is nothing like a white girl who knows hip hop slang, hip hop music, and who accepts and understands little things about being a black person that most "all American white girls" dont. The way they talk and how natural they blend in with other black people is so awesome to me. Alot of New York white girls are really "hip hop" and I LOVE it!!!! The two brunette chicks im talking to now are hip hop girls. One, who is still in high school, is VERY hip hop. The other, who goes to my college and is a model, isn't THAT hip hop but she hangs around mostly black guys and is pretty tough. They have a swagger and confidence and independence about them. Sometimes I feel like it is sort of like dating a black girl who just looks white. I also like the way they dress and when I introduce them to my black friends, they dont feel uncomfortable and my friends dont go "what you doin' wit this corny ass white girl"? Instead she's cool with everything in our culture and can relate to what we like and she doesn't seem out of place. Once they get to know her, they see how she has everything in common with us, she just has lighter skin.

HARD ROCKER CHICKS: These are girls who like heavy metal and tend to have lots of tattoos and piercings. Now I dont mean the goth girls that dress in all black, wear black lip stick and worship the devil...they gotta be cute! And trust me there are cute ones out there. one is a close friend of mine Stacey. I love TONGUE RINGS and nose rings, I think they are so sexy! (and long nails are also a must for me when it comes to ANY girl, although long nails seem to be mostly had by hip hop girls and some all-american girls). These girls though seem to be the most depressed and have the most issues. I've dated a few and they all have major self esteem issues and drink a lot. Since a big part of me likes rock music I used to be interested in these types of girls, if for anything just to have someone to talk to about rock music with. I was really depressed during two periods in my life...when I first graduated high school and didnt know where my life was heading...and after my southern ex-g/f dumped me :cry: . Both of these times i became obsessed with hard rocker girls. The bad part is they feed off of drama and have tempers. These relationships NEVER lasted very long.

SOUTHERN GIRLS: I love accents. My girlfriend who i was with for 3 years was from the south had the most amazing southern accent. Until i got used to it, it was the sexiest thing in the world to me. Southern accents have always drove me crazy and when I met Kristen I knew she could be the one and her accent definitely helped! LOL I doubt I will ever meet another southern girl so she might be my last chance to ever end up with one. Odds are I wont. Too bad, I love them!

The one draw back is some of the racist comments they tend to make. My ex-g/f did this and it hurt sometimes, and other times I had to laugh. It's not their fault they were raised so ignorant, but it is still awkward at times. Once she asked me do black people get chicken pox? I was shocked!!!! I had to explain to her that everything that happened to white people happens to us too. Can you believe that? She genuinely did not know that! That goes back to the ancient ways of thinking that blacks are not fully human, but animals of some kind.

She also used to say niggers alot to describe poor black people and she tried to convince me that it wasn't meant in a racist way because if she really felt that ALL blacks were "niggers", then she wouldn't be in love with one (me). She was right but I still had to tell her to stop saying that word because not all people would be as understanding of "what she meant by it" as I was.

EUROPEAN GIRLS: I also love european accents. Swedish, Polish, German, Russian, whichever. ALOT of European girls go to my college and I've gone out with, met, flirted with, or approached most of them. European girls just have a care free-ness about them. Not that they are easier or slutty or anything, but they are less stuck up and superficial and gold digging than American girls. American girls can sometimes be spoiled and only care about what you can get for them. What car you drive. All that nonsense. Most of them cannot even cook or care to even bother to learn.

European women WANT TO and KNOW HOW to please their men. The whole European way of life is more laid back and IR dating over there, especially in England, is very popular. IR couples are so common over there. It is soooo beautiful. It's crazy because you would think that since America is so diverse that there would LESS racism here than over in Europe where you might assume there aren't as many black people so those girls might not be as used to black guys.

The way I've experienced it is european girls come to America and are so happy to be treated nice by an American that they do not see me as black or white, but as AN AMERICAN. Around the world, America is THE PLACE TO BE. We are # 1. Everyone wants to come here. So they look up to us. But here in America, many white girls might look down on you as "just a black guy". Plus people tend to forget that discrimination goes beyond just black and white. Look at the Holocaust. Look at that movie Gangs of New York where irish immigrants were being killed left and right. It would be hypocritical of european girls to come to this country and be racist when they themselves want to be accepted and not discriminated against.

I've dated Swedish, Polish, German and Russian. For a while I almost completely gave up on dating American girls. I got sick of the "all american white girls" for obvious reasons. Southern girls brought too much racial issues with them, not to mention meeting the family would be HELL (and the ONE southern girl i dated broke my heart due to racism and wanting to please her family, so she threw away 3 years of our love :cry: ). And hip hop girls like i said can basically be black girls with white skin. So as soon as they find out I like rock music and other "white things", they stop calling and go out with "blacker and harder" black guys. For a while I felt European girls were the ticket.

The Swedish and Polish women are very nice but not too smart. German and Russian women are very assertive, head strong, smart, driven, and know what they want. The Russian girl I dated this past summer was older than me, a law major, and had an attitude problem. After that I went back to American girls.


So for me I guess it is between European girls and hip hop girls. Which of these types of white girl are your favorite?

 

1st place goes to --Southern girls for me

2nd place--European girls

3rd place--all American girls

 

Why no hip hop girls tucker? Overall, they are the ones most attracted to black guys and come on to me the most. It's once they get to know me where the problems begin. The other three (all-american girls, southern girls, and european girls) you have to chase after and HOPE they are attracted to you.

 

the hip hop girls here are not like the ones you meet in nyc, i suppose. they are not at all open, they dont smile, they act tough. they are interested in thug like brothas or other hip hoppers.

I have no problems meeting the other types of women, they smile, talk to me, easy to meet in starbucks or jazz clubs or bookstores, church, lectures or work.

also, the hip hop girls are the least attractive to me

 

Oh ok. I see. Do your thing man. What about Hard Rocker Girls? Had to make a last minute edit, I forgot about them.

 

do my thing? I thought you were asking us about our types, and now you dont like my answer?

 

Different Types:

1) The Redneck Girl?

2) The Professional woman

3)The intellectual Bohemian?

4)The Church/Synagogue Religious woman?

5)The sporty woman?

6)The Political Woman?

7) The Plain Jane

 

i love tall women!!

http://www.tallwomen.org/models/alexis/

 

a woman like Jennifer love Hewitt is my type

http://www.actressarchives.com/display.php?g=jlh&img=hewitt022.jpg

 

You're stating that Swedish women aren't smart??? Then why do they speak three or more languages??? Why do they know almost as much about African American history & culture as I do???

The Kid Rasta 8)

 

like Jenna jamison??

http://www.actressarchives.com/display.php?g=jennaj&img=00990_JennaJameson_Grayson_1071171.jpg

 

kristin scott thomas

 

I definitely fit into the All-American white girl category. I date black men but I guess I don't see as many other girly-girls like me doing the same. It's much more of the white-black girls it seems.

 

I wish there were more white women like you where I live Amy. "All American-type Girls" here are the type to look down on black guys and most are too scared to date one even if they DO like him out of fear of what their friends and family might think. I lost the love of my life due to her giving in to her parents' racist demands (we also broke up among other reasons as well but that was a HUGE part of it).

 

i never understood that peyback, the most liberal minded city in the USA and yet the women are just as racist as hillbillies in the back woods, can we say hypocrites??

 

Exactly. I dont get it. The women here ACT like they are so progressive and ahead of the game but when it comes time to seal the deal, they chicken out. Like my ex-g/f for example...she loved the sex with me, but after we broke up she admitted she couldnt stand being seen with a black guy in public and was ashamed of what her friends and family thought of it. Now she will only date white guys from now on (even though for a few months after we broke up we were "fuck buddies" who had sex every once in a while when the other was horny but she recently cut me off from that too).

White women need to make up their minds. You want a black man's love but dont wanna be seen with him? You cant have your cake and eat it too. By the way she STILL hasnt found a guy since we broke up to treat her as good as I did. Yet she still wont admit she threw away the best thing she ever had! All due to her inability to get over the racism she had in her heart when we first met and accept the fact that she fell in love with the very type of man she was raised to hate. (GOD I need to get over her! :cry: )


P.S. I like white women with LONG nails, tongue rings, nose rings, slim waist with nice big butt, sexy legs, long hair, some sort of southern or European accent, not much make up, maybe some hip hop style, knows how to dance and cook, dresses sexy, has a goofy sense of humor, doesnt smoke or drink, and is open minded to new things. Thats my perfect woman!

 

thats why i dont sleep with them until i know them really well, for me thats along time but for others it might be shorter. you need to know what she thinks about things like race in full before just becoming her experimental darkie in the backhouse.

i have to ask, are these women you date, manhattan uppercrust, middle class or are they new york ethnic whites from the burroughs? sounds like unenlightened to me, bro and i am sorry for your pain

 

I think I remember her exact words were: "My need to be accepted by my family, friends, and society outweighs my feelings for you. There should be more to a relationship than just good sex. I don't love you the way you love me and I don't see myself spending the rest of my life with you."

As for the types of girls I go for, I'd have to say it is usually the upper class ritzy "I think I'm too good for everyone" types. I dunno why I aim so high. Maybe it is to prove I can get them. Maybe it is because I want a woman who makes good money, that I can trust, and won't become a gold digging, lazy baby factory who can't pull her weight. I'll be the first to admit I can sometimes be a glutton for the punishment and I put up with too much drama and bullsh*t just because of how she looks. Therefore I try to put my foot down and make rules but then, as in most of my relationships, I've been told that I'm too controlling and possessive because of that. It's like either way I can't win.

Then every once a while, like these past few months, I try for the lower class "ghetto, hip hop girl" types and figure it will be less stress but it turns out to be even MORE stress. This last girl I dated (and spent this recent Thanksgiving with her and her parents) seemed like a fun and beautiful blonde Italian girl and ended up being a drug addict who had done every drug you can think of and lied to me about her abusive ex-boyfriend still being in her life. Whenever I fail with the previously mentioned classy girls whom i consider marriage material, I begin to settle for the "fixer uppers" and try to make them into respectable, "take home to mom" types, but it never works. I've had several of these types of girls. No job having, weed smoking, party all the time, no plans for the future sluts. It's like I'm either dating women who are too good for me (or at least they think they are) or women who are clearly not good enough. And it seems like all the women that are "on my level" are either taken or not attracted to me (or maybe I'm not looking in the right places).

 

PeyBack,
I have to say that since you have started posting on this site, I have found your choices in women to be quite immature. I realize you are young but the ladies you are attracting to you do not appear to have much quality. I highly suggest you follow 7's advice from another one of your threads:

Personally, I do not fit into one of your categories of women. I am multifaceted and beyond your simplistic evaluations. I am attracted to, and attract, many "types" of men. However, I would never date a man who has not taken out time to improve himself through reading, study, hard work, exposure to a variety of cultures, travel, the list goes on. A man who spends much time pursuing women, and not improving his own self, is not worth a woman of high quality.

 

I'm just odd. I don't gossip about anything, but I do love buying Chanel. My boyfriend just winces everytime he drops me off on Fifth Avenue. I know he'll never complain, but I can see the pain on his face, lol!

I study art, but I can't paint. I love Pink Floyd, Sting and old heavy metal. My favorite book of all time is "Griffin and Sabine". I don't know what category that puts me in, but there I am.