Where did your facination start?

It sounds to me like you were a sheltered WF that got turned out....You got jungle fever....LOL!!. Got a taste of that chocolate and lost your mind. Men are men regardless of color. Don't be like those dizzy WF's that run up to BM because they are Black. They will run game on you and turn you out and get you stuck...or you could be rebelling against your parents. Let me tell you like this I am 33yrs old have been dating BM since I was 17yrs old. A lot of BM I know talk with me concerning the WF that they are getting over on...I think it's funny. Look plain and simple don't play yourself. No offense to the bruthas... I just know a few who run game on WF.

 

Hmmmm...

i'm not going to touch this one

 

That's one of the most eloquent, articulate, and candid posts regarding this subject I've ever read. I'm glad I was able to read that. You're perceptive enough to see through what the media projects, and look deeper into the essence of "who I am". That is beautiful.

 

Intriguedone, your post means more to me than you know . . . Much love :heart:

 

I got good spidey-sense, lol . . . :smt079

You're right though; the vulnerable are always easy prey (no matter the race).

 

....my gratitude belongs to you for the thoughtfulness.

 

Okay I already have like a major crush on you and now you're just making it worse. :wink: Oh le sigh, le sigh . . .

 

LOL.......

It all depends where the black man was raised. A black guy who was raised in an all black neighborhood is in most cases more confident, than one who wasnt. Similar to a white guy raised in a all white neighborhood. What make some of these motherfuckers "cave" in so to speak, is the fear of being stereotyped or objected to ridicule. Most black guys in all white neighborhoods from what i see tend to fear confrontation with white ppl. I saw a grown ass black man once tip toeing his way through a bunch of WHITE KIDS. Apparntly he feared he might be stereotyped one way or another, and i can bet my left nut that this guy wouldnt be as fearful around black children.

Who in his right mind wants to be treated like a crazed animal all the time???.....Now lets say you fell inlove with a black guy, who was raised in a white neighborhood and didnt possess the qualities you just mentioned???....

Basically what im saying is that, you dont like the black man at all. But rather you like a certain stereotype OF black males. And youre at a point in your life where black males feed your soul with a "high" of some sort. You'd prolly refer to black males as your "high"-ness due to this highness they provide. But based on what i know of some white women i can bet my tuition fees that you will eventually get fixated with karateka, or judo, or taekwando, and will start lusting after asian men......i can guarantee my ass that shit will occur

 

As for me i aint fascinated by or with white women. I do however admire the fashion in which some white women are and how they act. I also admire the body proportions, although they have no ass to speak of, i can apreciate the abdomen, and how it is in most cases more narrow than black women. And they have the longest toes ive seen in my life....lol..they can catch flies with that shit fo realzzz...lol...all kidding aside......white women are ok in my book. Im not fascinated though, but i do find [most of]them to be very aesthetically interesting. And the sex is usually a guarantee..lol...ok,,,maybe its just me??..lol..

Oh yeah,,,,gotta love the hair....i like white womens hair, and how they rest like a bag of potatoes on their shoulders. I like their lips, how they look so red,hot and tasty,,,,and yet you'd fear kissing some of them because you think you will make em bleed......And then theres the skin. I like the paleness of it. How you can tatoo your name on that ass so easily....But you fear groping her too hard cuz the skin makes her look delicate, and you dont wanna hurt her cuz shes your boo....

 

:roll:

My apologies sir, there seem to be some personal issues all over your crystal ball. *tries to wipe it off*

Hrmm . . .

BlackMasterJay, I’m glad you wrote this. My spidey sense was tinglin big time last night after I saw your latest posted photo, and after I read through some of your prior posts, I realized why it was tingling . . . It’s because you’re kind of a dick.

I don’t know you, but from what I’ve read you seem to be a volatile mix of anger, vanity, and selfishness. I worry that you are unable to connect with a woman in anything but a one-sided, sexual sense, and I deeply regret the pain that has turned you this way.

But keep posting the photos – you would honestly (and I really mean this) make an excellent model – partly because you are "aesthetically interesting", and partly because your photos display absolutely no personality/soul whatsoever. Put together a portfolio and get thee to an agency!

 

WoW!

 

:lol: Classic

 

lmao i agree on the whole "fascination" thing.Thats stretching it for me.I just tend to like light skinned (preferably white) women with long black hair...and white women happen to have that.My preference is middle eastern & european(perferably italian) women.

 

All white guys share cultural commonalities? All black guys share cultural commonalities? Beyond race?

wow. This reminds me of some of the BW bashing posts I've read.

I'm glad that every single black man that you've met has had this "joie de vivre." I just can't help but believe that it may have been a characteristic they shared because of who they are as individuals - not because all black men share this specific "cultural commonality."

I do appreciate your eloquence, seviya. And I certainly don't mean to rain on anyone's parade because the men of this board, and black men in general, certainly deserve to be appreciated with the enthusiasm you showed. I just wasn't comfortable with how you seemed to lump people into categories in the process.

 

I can understand being concerned about her post and thinking that she may be objectifying BM, but I dont feel like that was the case. It sounds to me like she's a lady who has finally discovered what she is looking for. Should seviya be wary because every encounter she's had with BM has been positive?

Maybe having positive encounters with BM (and all people) has more to do with "you being positive" instead of thinking that every guy just wants to get in your pants or wants something from you.

Also, I am pleasantly suprised when someone (read:white person) sees positive traits and has positive images of black men as opposed to the reverse.

 

Thank you, Jellybird. That rather hits the nail on the head. Much love . . .

As regards my original post - a heartfelt exploration of my feelings - I'm afraid I'm only open to requests for expansion. If you would like for me to expound further on a certain subject, by all means so request. I am not open to give any explanation initiated by criticisms or insults - specifically, semantic ones, and, even more specifically, backhanded ones.

You know, I like to think I write a little something for everyone, and some people are always looking for something about which to bitch . . .

Ah c'est la vie

 

^^^^this woman, is a trip

 

I firmly co-sign that. 8)

 

how do you derive such intense satisfaction from these encounters? :lol:
You said ask :lol:

How old are you?
Still didn't say how many or is it personal?
Why didn't the relationships last?

So you what your saying is you found somethign that feels good to your intimate feelings, feelings of the heart, you should of been on one of my posts, you are one of they very few ww I met that knows how to put their reason as to why you date bm, cause I gotta tll you a lot of other white women be all over the place or they treat it as a uncomfortable subject or the bigger one a lot say "I don't know why". Maybe it is because you are saying it out of your feelings (which is how poets do ) and they say it from the mind.....hmm I think we found a new way of who goes through a phase and who is on that Real Talk :lol: coming from true feelings.

Endearing & potent with grammatic expressions of share & honesty

 

wow, you clearly dont know me

thanks for the tips......but Im not vane enough to be a male model