where are the good women and how to know if she the good one ?

-Part Time All of the Above
-Full Time Gang Member.... watch out now...

 

yes. common names are a challenge. then u need to add age and address and other information to the search. Sometimes there isn#t enough information or nothing come up.

The last time i did this i was running the search while i was talking to the guy on the phone and he was running the same search on himself at the same time to see what came up. He told me over the phone what was him and what wasnt and told me about past jobs and businesses and family conections etc. It was just another way for us to get to know each other. I talked him thru how to run a search on me and then told him about my career and about other things that came up int he search. we learned a lot about each other and it was fun.

It also made us both a little more at easier with each other i think. we had not met in person yet and it helped us get to the place where we did want to meet in person. If u have never done it u should run a google search (at least) on your own name and see what comes up. it might surprise u.

 

Only YOU can know who will be right for you.

You can run all the checks in the world and that's really not going to tell you much. First, there are those who are very good at hiding anything they want to have hidden. Whatever checks you may run are only as accurate as the information you have been given. Then just because someone has clean records really means nothing. Most child molesters have never been convicted.

I have known those who may have had something show up on a check who have turned out to be really great people and then those who show up as clean as can be and are truly horrid individuals.

I think it really comes down to knowing yourself and what works for you. Don't try to make someone fit that doesn't. Pay attention to the uneasy feelings and red flags that come up for you. You can have all sorts of rules but sometimes those rules may keep you from finding a really great person.

Um and the credit check? lol that's pretty funny considering how many people with really good financial backgrounds have had credit issues recently.

The thing is - the truth always comes out in one way or another. I get the idea of people trying to protect themselves...but relationships are a risk.

 

Wise words.