When did you first realize or accept you were attracted to WW/BM?

For me it was almost as far back as I could remember when I was 5 or 6. I saw a movie with a pretty white woman and told my older bro that I think they're pretty. But then he told me, no you don't want to be into them (he was kinda racist). So growing up until high school, I pretended not to be attracted to white girls even though I was. But in high school, I decided not to fight it anymore and to be true to myself (the fact that I went to school with so many attractive white girls helped). When was the moment of realization or acceptance for who you're attracted too?

 

well i started finding white girls attractive at the same age or even younger then that, my first kiss was with a white girl and my first time having sex was with a white girl at the age of 17, so i was basically hooked, and it turned into a preference

 

For me, it probably started around the age of 10. I think the color contrast is what instantly grabbed me.

 

In 6th grade when I got my first kiss :heart:

 

Fresh out the womb.

 

At age 16,when I started to go out a lot.

 

My first kiss and sex experience was with a white woman too, but for me at 19.

 

When I kissed my first girlfriend:smt004

 

I think my realization was odd.

Realized 4-5ish years ago, when I started college and met the ex. I didn't notice race then really. We just spent a lot of time talking to each other, and feelings grew from there. One night he came to my room, simply to say good night and get a good night hug. I was wearing a tank top, he was shirtless and I got a glimpse of us in the mirror when we were hugging. Only then did I really notice the color difference between us an d all, even though I already knew he was black, things just didn't "click" for me, I guess?

It took until college though, because my city was like... 98% white. I dunno about now, seems that its finally becoming more diverse. I guess I've just never seen enough BM before then to realize an attraction.

 

Work with tourists. That's how my husband and I met...I was the tourist in Kenya, he was the cook on the community project I was doing. Working with tourists is the best place to meet white people, if you're in Africa (unless you're in South Africa, in which case we're all over the place LOL).

 

With me it's kind of went like this i grew up in the Caribbean and through my early teens I always had very light skinned girlfriends but never thought anything of it until I moved to New York and that is when I realized that whenever I went out to the bars and lounges i always gravitated tithe white women in the room

 

At birth! Haha just kidding. It was no later than kindergarten when I had my first crush who happened to be a white girl, but possibly before then, I just don't remember. Basically every girl I liked growing up though was white. Until upper elementary/middle school though my environment was mixed (mostly white and black), so I guess I knew pretty early.

 

I actually thought you were ludacris because of your avatar, has anyone ever said you look like him?

 

I grew up in many predominantly white neighborhoods growing up so that swayed my attraction towards white women. Funny though my hugest crush for a while growing up was a Korean girl.

 

I've always known...as a young child, I was always attracted to white females more than any other race...although I will date women from every race

 

About 13 or so I ended out making out with a nice WW on bus funny thing was the bus driver was a BW and she knew what I was doing.

 

Birth....but I wasn't allowed to date them. Both my parents are gone 13 years, and it was when Obama took office, I decided to start dating them. (I sent him a letter thanking him for that push I needed, and he wrote back) Never been happier.

 

so thirsty

 

As soon as I started Infant School I realised I liked white girls. Then again I grew up mainly around other white kids so it was always very likely.

 

At 21 I ventured out and dated black, hispanic, asian, indian, and arab. By 24 I knew my preference was for black men.