What's In a NAME?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by stiletoes, Aug 3, 2008.

  1. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Okay, so I have been apart from my ex-husand for 2 years, divorced 6 months legally, emotonally divorced since about 2001.

    Anyhow o vacation, my an says that we wished that I would have reverted to my maiden name. It really never mattered to me. If you were dating a divorced person, would it bother if they kept their married name?FTR my man is divorced as well as his ex kept his name. Thoughts?
     
    stiletoes, Aug 3, 2008
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  2. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    interesting

    I kept my married name also. I guess I figured that I had it longer than any other last name and my children have the same last name. (not to say that I wouldn't change it if I were to get married again)

    I guess I would be surprised for a man to say anything about having kept it.
     
    KnCA, Aug 4, 2008
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  3. Moskvichka

    Moskvichka New Member

    As far as I know most divorced women keep their married name. It shouldn't matter to any sane person.
     
    Moskvichka, Aug 4, 2008
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  4. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    :lol:
     
    KnCA, Aug 4, 2008
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  5. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    Technically the court granted me usage of my maiden name again after the divorce, but I've yet to get the proper paperwork fixed up. I will, eventually.
     
    Persephone, Aug 4, 2008
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  6. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    He was not mad about it, he just said he would have liked it.
     
    stiletoes, Aug 4, 2008
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  7. redlady

    redlady Active Member

    I am changing mine. I was so happy to get rid of the awful thing and am even more glad to get it back. :lol:
     
    redlady, Aug 4, 2008
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  8. jellybird

    jellybird New Member

    ...talking about an insecure guy.

    Watch out. Next he's gonna want you to get rid of the sh*t given to you by past lovers.
     
    jellybird, Aug 4, 2008
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