What's going on with you?

Well, i thought to start be more active go on treadmil and with the bike also, i manage few days but like always when i say i will do a lot then something happen, end up busy and too tired late to do any exercise after..
and while i thought the month with birthday finish more places i have to go, got an invitation for a christening and they have the birthday together on the same day.. in about 4 weeks .. some expenses i will not have the money for lol trying to see how to save some
and also internet is bad .. always sinking low that we should have i dont even remember how many call we made and nothing done yet had enough of paying for fast and got only half the speed that we should have
and doing a small bbq tomorrow actualy today lol past 12.. invited my inlaw over lately she keep complain more that we dont see her much and will die and no one will know damn she have 2 daughters also am not the only person only :smt021
seems like i never have break from problems i need holidays alone :smt091

 

im sure you will find the places all the cute guys go, lol

 

Haha. Is there anywhere you can reccommend? When I go somewhere new I always end up in some ghetto club. Like in London we ended up in some dodgy place to start with, finally found somewhere a bit better though haha. There has to be someee clubs - cuz Aberdeen is half the size and even we have a few! Lol.

 

ill ask a few of my friends for ya hun
i honestly have never been on a night out in sheffield so have zero idea where to go i just know you dont wanna be going to the manor, norfolk park, gleadless ( areas of sheff ) and please what ever you do if someone asks you to go to la chambre with them just say no!

 

Fuck!! What coinky-dink!! And how old is he?

Awwwwwwww!!! You realise he's clearly still holding a candle for you, even after all this time? Make his day, ring him up, say, "No funny stuff now, but you wanna come round on xyz-day?"

:smt023

 

hes early 30's, dont worry hes not you i did check your age to be sure, lol

the reason i stopped him coming round before was to stop any mixed signals

he was married to his cousin previously so im quite sure i wouldnt be his type. he knows what i want for life is to meet a guy i could be in a long term relationship with and he swings from suggesting we be together and suggesting a friends with benifits thing
then of course there the fact that i have a preference for black men, lol

 

:smt038 I just laughed so hard I almost spat my tea at the monitor!! I wasn't worried it might be me, but if you carry on making me laugh like that, I might reconsider...

He may be a moslem, there aren't that many Gujju moslems but I know a few, my mob NEVER marry cousins, I personally think that's barbaric but I'm not judging, I know one or two nice people who have done so. The reason I mention it is that's probably why he is wavering on whether to make you a committment, his community have very strict parents, the kind who can cut a child out of their hearts and lives if he marries out of the faith. Ours don't, but they really do feel a certain loss of face if their kids marry out. It can be pretty harsh on us if we happen to fall for a WW (or WM). Lucky for me my Dad is well-trained...

You seem like a really nice person, so I'll betray the brotherhood of all men...I'm risking my neck just telling you this!!. If you wanna get and keep the man of your dreams in that long-term relationship, MAKE HIM LAUGH. You know how you would tell a guy who wants that babe to make her laugh? Reverse is also true. And the great thing is, so, so few women know how to make us laugh. Easy ammo !!

 

yep hes muslim and thats a problem for me ( past bad experiences ) also he has always lied to him mum about where he is when he visits, for cyin out loud the guys in his 30's, i hate to think what he told her when he flew out to ireland to see me

 

Babe, I'm not making excuses for him, yes he needs to man up to his Mum, but a lot of us are under our parent's thumbs, my uncle is 60 ffs and his Mum lives with him, and makes his existence a purgatory. He has actually said, "When she dies I'll be so relieved"!!

My two brothers both smoke, late 30's, and STILL hide it from my Dad. We have very, very strong family bonds, cuts out a lot of problems with divorce/loneliness, but the flipside is that it stifles us too.

My advice to you? From what you've told me, change of direction; drop that guy gradually and gently, and follow your heart.

Good luck!!

 

drop him gradually, erm hun i cut him right back from my life over a year ago

 

thanks, it was quite fun we had a lot of escapees the anaethitizing did not work out too well im glad i wont be seeing them for another 2 weeks lol.



Brotha Ajax hope you get better soon if you have a temp higher than 38 C/ 100 F you may have swine flu. I should know i've literally just recovered from it anyway hope you feel better soon x

 

I have an exam in 3 hours. Predicate Logic. Yes! How very fun. :roll:

If I don't post again, you'll know it didn't go well.

 

all the luck in the world for today FEHG...!!! i'm sure you'll not need it though, you're one of the most intelligent women i've ever met, you dazzle me with your brilliance...!!!

 

poor little lamb...!!! great big e-kisses & hugs coming your way...!!! :smt056 :smt058

 

Bruh Ajax, as princess of asses I demand that your ass get well soon.



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met nate's dad and his dads girlfriend. Both were really nice. The girlfriend is Asian. I love it. Think they're getting married soon. Nate gets to be best man. So awesome.

Moving to a new apartment in housing soon. The girls seem nice but I haven't met them all yet. Sucks though cause I don't get my own room this time but idrather share then deal with this bullshit here anymore. Gotthe keys just gotta get my stuff moved. Gonna try to do that this weekend if work doesn't tire me out too bad. Working somewhere reAlly fancy so kinda nervous. Not sure if I'm good enough at the whole synchronized serving thing yet, but I'll never know til I try, right?

 

CONGRATULATIONS DH...!!!! that's fantastic news about the living arrangements & meeting Nate's dad...!!!! Things are looking up delish...!!! :smt026

 

Thanks Tarshi, Empress, and DH. I'm feelin' a little better. Hopefully I don't feel like shit at all when I wake up in the morning.

 

Good shit, DH. Good luck with work, and your new roommates.

 

That's great DH, meeting his dad and gf plus a new pad, congrats!

 

Just had an old favourite I haven't eaten in 10 years at least, melted cheese on toast with worcestershire sauce....

Scrumptious!!