What Type Of Person Do You Attract?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by jmoney42, Feb 25, 2025 at 2:03 PM.

  1. jmoney42

    jmoney42 Member

    Topic probably has been discussed before so apologies if it has. Had a conversation with the old man the other day that prompted this.For me it’s a polar opposite so I guess opposites do attract lol. There’s usually one, two max, mutual interests/hobbies but everything else is night and day. Surprisingly works well though.
     
  2. Makena

    Makena New Member

    The type of people or guys I tend to attract are the unserious ones. No goals, no ambitions, no drive. All they want to do is smoke and drink, two things I don’t do.
     
  3. jmoney42

    jmoney42 Member

    I’m sorry to hear that :(. It can be tough in this day and age especially for someone in their 20’s like us to find somebody who doesn’t partake in those activities. Feel like I was born in the wrong generation at times.
     
  4. Makena

    Makena New Member

    Right?! LOL, so do I. When I tell people that they never believe me.
     
  5. jmoney42

    jmoney42 Member

    One and the same lol I usually get hit with a :eek:o_O:confused: when they actually see I don’t do those things. Always felt if that’s the only way I can have fun I have some problems I need to deal with first. Actually had some applaud me for it. Guess listening to the old heads kinda worked that time
     
  6. Makena

    Makena New Member

    Yep! I know exactly the looks and reactions you mean. And I’ll never say it out loud to my parents right now but they are the ones who led me to not needing those things to be myself or to have fun
     

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