what type of black men you go for ? LOL. the inverse to that other thread. LOL

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Aug 2, 2010.

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the type of BM you like

  1. the business type

    8 vote(s)
    50.0%

  2. the thug type

    3 vote(s)
    18.8%

  3. the artist type (musician, painter, poet)

    3 vote(s)
    18.8%

  4. Mr fashionable and hair is always in place type

    2 vote(s)
    12.5%
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  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    cool. i got ya. there are only a small handful of women like you. real men love women like u
     
    goodlove, Aug 20, 2010
    #21
  2. daydream16

    daydream16 New Member

    There is seriously nothing much hotter than an athletic looking business man wearing a really nicely fitted suit and having a briefcase in hand. Even glasses would be hot, adds to the whole look I guess. *swoon* wheww I think I need to go cool down lol.
     
    daydream16, Sep 26, 2010
    #22
  3. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    \\This^
     
    FG, Sep 26, 2010
    #23
  4. botoan

    botoan Active Member

    Thank you Inner Beauty!
     
    botoan, Sep 26, 2010
    #24
  5. daydream16

    daydream16 New Member

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    :smt050 :smt038
     
    daydream16, Sep 26, 2010
    #25
  6. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    :confused:

    My "type" isn't on this list.

    I like a man with a little bit of edge to him. He's confident in his manhood, he's real & he knows how to respect & treat a woman.
    He needs to be intelligent (this doesn't necessarily require a college degree) & have common sense. A smart man is a sexy man!
    A sense of humor (twisted is preferred because I've got a twisted sense of humor myself); I love a fun & crazy (not as in mental) man. I love a man I can laugh with.
    I like a man that knows how to take charge & makes me feel protected. I like 'em firm but gentle. A real man doesn't act like he's got something to prove, because he doesn't need to.
    I also like a man who lets me be me & values what I have to offer. One who isn't threatened by & who can handle a real woman.
    He's gotta be hard-working & dependable. I'm not about a man's money & I don't want him to be about mine either. We should be working hard together.
    Sexually he needs to be open to anything (except for anything outside of the relationship-just us two), because I need a man with an imagination. In the bedroom-or wherever- I also like a man who's willing to take turns being the boss ('cause I'm bossy & demanding as hell).
    It's also good if he likes the same music, movies, sports, etc. It's a plus if he likes to read & enjoys poetry.

    What I don't like:
    I don't want a man who wants me to be his mama.
    I don't want one that treats me like he owns me; I can't stand a jealous man.
    Laziness.
    Excuses.
    Selfishness
     
    Tamstrong, Oct 8, 2010
    #26
  7. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    Totally agree DD.
     
    JordanC, Oct 8, 2010
    #27
  8. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    I wonder if you missed something. are you sure you named everythang because you were really succint . LOL.
    Nice to know a person knows what they want
     
    goodlove, Oct 8, 2010
    #28
  9. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    YES :smt060

    I like uniforms too... my bad.
     
    Arwen, Oct 8, 2010
    #29
  10. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I think I covered most of it. lol

    No one expects perfection, BUT if a man is willing to please me, it's in my nature to do my best to give him whatever it takes to please him in return.

    When I love somebody, I love hard & I want a man who will love me the same way!
     
    Tamstrong, Oct 8, 2010
    #30
  11. goodlove

    goodlove New Member


    Im with you on that. I hate selfish people....I feel if Im putting out my best (despite my mistakes) you should do the same.
     
    goodlove, Oct 8, 2010
    #31
  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    Very well said! It doesn't exactly inspire loving feelings when someone beats us down for our shortcomings instead of giving us appreciation & encouragement for our love & effort!
     
    Tamstrong, Oct 8, 2010
    #32
  13. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    Ok, so... THIS is the man of my life lol. Found it around the internet and fell in love with him lol.... so i'd say it fits the business man type.... whatever. he's hot anyways haha


    [​IMG]
     
    Arwen, Oct 9, 2010
    #33
  14. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yes ma'am he is definitely hot! Especially that smile of his! You've chosen well!:smt023
     
    Tamstrong, Oct 9, 2010
    #34
  15. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL
     
    goodlove, Oct 9, 2010
    #35
  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    I dont understand why yall acting like you dont like for men to be hard and tuff so you can feel protected and womenly. sort of a guy like this

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    yall like that huh. make you feel all goo inside
     
    goodlove, Oct 10, 2010
    #36
  17. daydream16

    daydream16 New Member

    :heart:
     
    daydream16, Oct 11, 2010
    #37
  18. TheHuntress

    TheHuntress Well-Known Member

    Dear heavens, he is BEAUTIFUL.


    ....want!
     
    TheHuntress, Oct 11, 2010
    #38
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