What type of Black Man do you like?

I already saw the question for BM what kind of white girls they like;
so, here is my question to all the WW- what kind of BM do you like?

 

Kind, proud, intelligent, funny, hard working, caring, silly, playful, witty and handsome.

Like this guy.

 

That's right, Sin, make the rest of us green with envy ;-)

 

:smt042:smt042 I'm lucky, and I know it.

 

You are, he's handsome, he's got great hands and eyes. And all those other attributes you list are pretty damned important in a man.

I'd add patience, but that's because I can try the patience of a saint, and calmness because I don't do chaos well anymore.

 

Calmness and patience are important too. My guy's calm, but not always patient. LOL

 

LOL!! I figure patience matters for me, because I'm not an easy woman. I'm more stubborn than your average mule, and stiff-necked independent and proud. Not an easygoing combination

 

i love how this was most likely about looks when this question was asked to men, and here..it is all about qualities.
here are my most wanted:

love life (I love having happy people around me!) To really appreciate little things and not get off track when something doesn´t work out the way it was wanted.

educated and intelligent. I love having good conversations. Talking about the world. A conversation can never get boring with someone that has world knowledge.

Sensitive/Non violent I love guys that understand the female mind. Some might call those guys softies- I call it marriage material. Agression and violence have nothing to do in a happy relationship!

Confidence. There is nothing more attractive than a guy being confident about himself and his life.

Someone that takes care of himself. BM hair grows fast, a visit to the Barber is something someone should not forget. Good clothes and a "clean" appearance is important to me.

A Family man. Yes, I want to have a big family someday! A man that loves kids and knows how to take care of them is important to me.

High Goals. A man that wants to achieve something in his life. Someone that works on his goal step by step and does not give up. Someone that knows how to organize his day and doesn´t need a second Mom. (There is a difference between someone dreaming big but not doing anything, that is a NO GO!

 

Musts:-loving and caring
-inner self-confident
-a man that takes care of himself, but is also interested in the life of others (interested in foundations and to help people)
-perfect manners
-gentle behaviour
-sexy to me

Wishes
- a man that knows the difference between a Chateaubraind and an Entrocote (sounds funny, but I like a man with culture)
- a man that travelled around the globe and understands the different cultures and menataities and is secure in talking to people of different levels

 

Shame that was the case, all too true. As a man I can safely say that far too many men are not at all bright in that department. Going for the best looking girl instead of the best girl full stop. For me a woman becomes less or more physically attractive depending on her personality and outlook on life and everything in it. Besides even if I wanted a smoking hot trophy wife smt018) I'm too poor anyway.

 

*Honest and loyal
*The right balance of selfless and knowing when it's better/okay to be "selfish"
*Loving,caring and affectionate in word and action
*Humorous and has kept the ability to be as enthusiastic and passionate about things he likes as people often no more do as they grow up
*Respectful and considerate
*Physically attractive to me (charisma matters more to me than poster boy looks)
*Humble - I absolutely can't stand conceited people who take themselves too seriously
*Able to and enjoys to communicate
*Some level of intelligence -Not expecting a college or university degree,just some common sense and random knowledge are perfectly fine
*Open minded to a degree - Not always trying new crazy things,but generally open to reasonable suggestions
*Non-smoker and drug free
*Not abusive in any form
*with a romantic and sensual side to him

 

Well, would be interesting to see how you look in first place...

 

Do you know the difference between the Hegelian dialectic and dialectical materialism?

Without looking it up.

 

I assume that out of the reason you ask me that, you are anyway a well-read man of philosphy…with a probability bordering on certainty more than me. But I will try to ask your question, as much as I remember.

The difference ist that Hegel is of the opinion that the awareness of a person definites the reality ("father" of Idealism)…in dialectical materialism the materialistic /position in society influences the awareness (Marxism)..I hope my English is good enough to understand what I mean. Much more I don’t remember, just that Hegel was very helpful for the development of Germany

But would you live close to me I would like to invite you for dinner(Chateaubriand or Entrecote, whatever you prefer) and listen to your definitions, as long as I may choose the wine. I am sure it would be an interesting evening.

 

Not bad. In the Hegelian dialectic the tension between ideals, as Hegel was an idealist, embodies the constant striving towards the realization of Geist. For Marx, the dialectic is turned upon its head with the material forces of production assuming the role of opposing parties; the ultimate goal being to establish a classless society.

And I don't eat meat.

 

Emotionally intelligent. He must have healthy coping strategies for life’s downers.

Funny…or to be more specific, we must share the same sense of humour and be able to laugh a lot.

Communicative…I like strong but not silent! Has to be able to chat about anything, even if it’s a difficult emotional subject.

Educated. But I don’t necessarily mean he has to be academic, just that he has an enquiring mind and a thirst for knowledge.

House-trained! I don’t like slobs.

He has to be physically attractive and sexy to me. The feeling has to be mutual.

Demonstrative…wears his heart on his sleeve. I don’t want to have to guess what mood he’s in or whether he’s keen on me, I need him to demonstrate his feelings.

Sexually compatible…a good “fit” physically and mentally.

A hard worker with short, medium and long term goals. He doesn’t have to be wealthy, just not the type to be content sitting on his arse doing nothing all day every day.

 

there are pictures up of me and my bm.

 

I come visit you! I cant stand entrecote, I cut in-between all that fat
though - I take the chateaubriand please

 

:smt043:smt043:smt043

 

Bon Appetit!

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