What turns you on?

Intellectual conversations turn me on! Doesn't matter if I'm a part of the conversation or just a bystander, seeing a sexy man hold his own in an intellectual conversation/debate...*fans self*...mmm mmm mmmm!

I'm sure confidence has been mentioned a thousand times in this thread, but a man who doesn't hesitate to go after what he wants (whether its schooling, a job, or me :smt077) is a huge turn on!

Lastly, a guy who's not afraid to call me on my bullshit turns me on. Might sound crazy, but I'm not into guys who just give me a pass even when I'm being unreasonable. Im far from perfect, I keep my guard up longer than I should, and a man who'll call me on that is hot as hell IMO. Understanding and compassion is one thing, but being a pushover will never get you what you want (jmo).

 

Then you will like my other turn on: A black man's arm with a metal (preferably) gold watch. A picture of which I can't find to save my life. Guys, can you help us out? In nice weather, you see that arm resting on the rolled-down window of his vehicle....oh my... *melts*

Also love a black man in white footie socks. (Or anything white, for that matter) Lol. That white fabric against his luscious chocolate skin.

Sometimes, it's the really random things that just does it for me...:heart:

 

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Yup. But only when I'm truly being unreasonable. Lol.

 

I adore a man with a sexy watch! When men accessorize...*sigh*

One of my favorite colors on a man is white! I went out with marine last night and he had on a black jeans, a white button up shirt (white undershirt, with a white wife beater underneath that lol), white j's (with a little blk/red) black watch and a black and white (albeit NY) hat. And yes...I noticed every single detail because he looked that ridiculously gorgeous!! :smt119 Tasty, tasty, tasty ;-)

 

Ohhhhh, a black man in a bright white beater..... *swoons*

We need a fainting emoticon.

 

Jealous!!!

 

So I'm totally your type huh? Good to know

 

Lol I thought we established that long ago my love :smt058

 

A guy who challenges me, is cheeky and fun.

Has a kind smile and sexy eyes.

 

Well yeah, when she wears 6 inch heels

Or 5 inch heels. But as a watcher (an old guy) nothing makes a white woman hotter than when she is with a black guy, touching, or very close. I guess it is a no brainer, but for me, watching, I sort of lose my brain anyway. Does that make me a pervert? or I guess one word is voyeur.

 

It means that you are human.

 

A confident, intelligent, dedicated man. Rawr.

 

That looks like a black clark kent keep it real boo lol

 

Pffft.
If this isn't keeping it real, I'm just going to quit while I'm ahead and become a nun.

 

There are more of us Clark Kent types than one can realize. You don't have to go to the convent. Just open your eyes, mind and heart.

 

Everyone's looking for a superman, I want the "Clark Kent" type that people don't notice as easily.

I know they exist, because I've met a few

 

I am a Clark Kent type.

 

Clark Kent had a secret that wasn't a bad one, but had the (ongoing) probability of being very inconvenient at the worst possible moment.

 

Black Clark Kents are seen as nerdy and not the epitome of a strong black male hence get overlooked, hell Lois overlooked Clark Kent

 

That is our power. You won't see us coming. Nerdy black males are strong because they are smart enough to know their limitations. It doesn't suggest that they are better, just smart enough to avoid getting them into trouble.