It would appear that if there is a problem, it is that couples with children are breaking up. As Robina rightly points out, this is not an indicator of parental involvement of nonresident parents, as there isn't any research into that presented here. What we have is an indication of how many children whose parents no longer live together. So, if we were to properly identify this problem, it would be that British Afro Caribbean couples with children are not maintaining long term relationships.
this is what the "babyfather" initiative had to say on the matter and no im not saying everythings rosy in the uk but we do need broader reserch across all ethnicitys
the article was written on the reserch of how many white kids live in one parent households in respect to afro carribeen, african and mixed race children so great theres more single parents for afro carribean kids but still without the information on how many of those parents not living with the family still maintain contact with thier child then the argument holds no weight people used to tell us the earth was flat, we now know that to be untrue dont believe everything you hear and see
You are just being a pain in this arse... Liquidswords saw it straight away and agreed. She lives in the UK. What the hell is wrong with you?
so because liquid agreed with you and shes also english i should too? sorry hun the world doesnt work that way
AGAIN From the article: The term "babyfather" seems to suggest that the problem of absent fathers is one that members of Afro-Caribbean communities are familiar with. How else can they spell out!!! C'mon Robina, you better than this!! This should be the end...
No, it doesnt mean that, it just means she is probably smarter.Thats all. For goodness sake you didnt even know what " across the board" meant. Cant be bothered anymore
again stating the end doesnt mean you are right. ive posted what the baby fathers inititive have to say, that MANY afro carribean dads significatly participate in thier childs life and that they need to work out why SOME dont still you fail to produce the stats that say black fathers are more likely than other ethnicitys to drop out of thier childs life come on madiba, i thought you were better than that, to base an argument on a news clipping thats NOT backed up by statistics
wasnt going to bother responding to you anymore but lets set one thing straight i had already used the phrase accross the board in context. you then said a jumble of things including the phrase across the border so yes i responded taking the pee about land boarders. so dont be going around saying im stupid hun
Dyson is a suck ass. he gets on the tavis smiley annual black thang on Cspan and dis the bros saying they need to pull their pants up and be real fathers then scream i have a book out. F-him. until they start stomping on the women i dont want to here it. they will say in 3 secs women stop holding the kids hostage but for 45 minutes its the BM fault....gang violence ...BM fault....economic depression in the black hood...black mans fault......car accident on I-65...black mans fault.....911 ...black mans fault.....oklahama city bombing ......black mans fault...what it was some white dudes...well it was a black man that sold him the rider truck..black mans Fault
who gives a fuck about rep? just speak your mind...this is not high school. dont get stuck in a matrix
I know what you mean sometimes you have to see it yourself. the bible tells you he gives you the power to get wealth... also when i say a mentor im speaking on having people showing you how to do something. Like I had to teach myself thru trial and error in life , how to study and all that shit....trust me its no fun... so that is where a dad will come in. see women need to choose their man correctly because if he fathers the kid as a woman you want a man who knows some sh## and have the discipline and the common sense to teach the child some real sh** and not be a bone head. just teach some basic skills to get thru life instead of learning thru trial and error. wise people learn from other peoples mistakes and been taught. smart people learn from their mistakes and fools never learn
Do you have a link to that study? I have never heard of this study. Some black men are wonderful fathers but the term "Papa was a rolling stone" applies often too many times in our community. My elementary and middle schools were probably 99% black and I can't count how many times I heard kids say I don't know my father or he isn't a part of my life. When I attended a predominately all white school in high school and I don't think I ever heard a white kid say I don't know my father or he isn't apart of my life. I don't know if it is the men just not MANing up or the women giving the men problems but the fact remains alot of BM are not in their kid's life.
I know quite a few people whose white father was absent from their lives, including my own kids. Some people probably just don't go around broadcasting the fact. I assure you deadbeats come in all skin tones.
20 page thread on this? I see some of the other people on here have found out what its like to get into a "debate" with chicity. Pretty fun huh?:smt043
