What is it that black men like about white women?

I am a white female and I have always been particularly attracted to black men. I know a lot of people on here are having really mature conversations, but i guess I'm new and just want to bring it back to basics. Would you disagree that its plainly a sex thing? does it have something to do with a white woman's personality? I don't doubt that every black man on here loves the black women in his life the way they deserve to be loved, but what is it particularly about a white woman that does it for you?

I've heard lots of sociologist and columnist make claims about forbidden this or that. But I want to hear it from the men out there, cause i trust your opinions above all. To be honest, i bet ti will help me figure out why i have a particular thing for black men...

 

and another thing! I'm Italian, dark hair, dark eyes, real attractive i might add, but i find that if I'm out with any blonde girlfriends of mine, no matter how attractive or unattractive by my standards, she's getting the BM that's I'm interested in. Are blondes just more white I'm embarrassed to ask, but I figure if anywhere is the place, here is. O

 

sorry! i see there is already a place for this in another forum! sorry for not reading closer!

 

I cannot speak for other BM, but I love white women's softness, kind hearts, always in a sweet mood, manners, class, skin, hair, eyes, personalities, innocence, and the fact that they accept me for me and black women don't.

 

Instead of just asking a one-sided question, try it in reverse, while keeping the above post in mind.

 

In less progressive parts of the country, you prolly find that true, but only to a point. White men gravitate to Blonde women also, so its not only a Black thang, its a Man thang.

If I had to pick I find Blondes the most attractive overall, but almost everybody I have dated has had dark hair, but light eyes.

I do believe that blondes have more fun, but brunettes get the job done...

 

I find blondes just as attractive as the next man but personally the type of features that your describing (dark features hair and eyes) is what really gets me going and especially if she has a nice ass as well. Blondes in general are held as the cream de la cream of whiteness in this world lol so i would not be surprised that men gravitate more towards them.

 

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I also find blondes more attractive to me who is a black man. I also like the foreign blonde women like the Sweish white girls. I like blondes with nice big breasts, nice rounded ass on them but not too big, pretty face, long hair, and pretty blue eyes. I think that if a blonde has a nice ass on her it seems to be that they have the nicest looking asses on them out of any race of women that I know. I know many blondes who are hot-looking that will have sex with a black man in second. The blondes seem a lot more wilder in bed than brunettes and I can cum several times when I have sex with them. I like their personalities and they are fun-loving overall.

 

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I think many white women who are open to dating outside of their race who find black men attractive often tell me that the black men will go out of their way to do more things for them than will white men do. It seems like it is a exploration of an interracial sexual fantasy about the black man ravishing the white women in the bedroom as a super hot sexy stud in bed and she is is little play thing. It is also looked as a black man as he is more of a masculine man and fits the description of a man in her eyes. Black men have to struggle just to exist in this white-male dominated world and we have to do things 300 times better then white men to get ahead in the world. Black men have to work hard in any area, sports, music, entertainment, business, and etc. I think many white women who like black men realize that and they know that if they are with a white man that most white men do not have nearly as much obstacles or challenges to face period. They may go through hard times but they have all the advantages of being a white man in this world. However I don't think that a black man should think that every should be handed to him on a platter because he is black either. I think the more forbidden the interracial relations between black men and white women it was the more white women wanted to go there and to experience it. You can also apply the same thing to white men who like black women or black women who like white men.

 

Wouldn't it stand to reason that you are simply more turned on by blondes and so the whole sexual experience with them is more satisfying to you because of that? Rather than because blondes have this mythical ability to make you "cum several times"?? It's just how you made it sound.. that's all.

 

who doesn't like blondes with big tits? i mean honestly? lol

 

I know I'm a sucker for a pretty blonde. It's something about that light hair and those light eyes that turns me on.

 

Maybe its just me....but blondes just seem to be more open to dating across the spectrum than darker haired WW. Call me crazy, but the blond-haired, azure-eyed ladies are just more uninhibited than attractive dark-haired WW. Maybe its because the differences between BM and towheaded WW (aesthetically speaking) are so contrasted that its just an "opposites attract" thing. I think blondes and very dark haired WW are the most attractive amongst WW....red-heads and mouse-heads are fine too though....aww...who am I kiddin...I like 'em all.

 

Ok, maybe it`s just me, but...I`ve been with a blonde and I could almost always see the "SEXOMANIAC" stereotype in her, therefore a more sexual relationship than anything else...But with brunettes, I was more attracted to their whole (physically, intellectually) therefore had more serious relationships!

I prefer brunettes FOLKS...blondes are a fantasy!!

Now why do we BM like WW more? Ah...is there one answer?...a billion answers I guess!

 

I don't need to justify my preference in non-black women or even black women. It's not that complex; I just find them very attractive. Nothing else.

 

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As one ex used to say... Be seen with a blonde, be in bed with a red, be married to a brunette. He was white so it's not just a black thang.

I'm a natural redhead, but for my birthday last fall I had my hair highlighted BIG TIME, to the point I'm now a blonde. Nothing else has changed, but suddenly all the guys are paying attention. Black, white, latino, doesn't matter. Frankly I find it absurd, but I'm not above enjoying the attention, heh. If they wanna tell themselves that the blonde hair is an indicator of my astounding BJ abilities or that I'm a freak in bed, well I'll be happy to wear that myth.

 

There u go JadeofTexas!! grab that guy before he`s gone!! and so your dog can lose some weight too

Well, I find it highly interesting to hear all the BM on this website where they are supposedly to meet almost exclusively WW, who keep saying that they have absolutely no preference between BW and WW...is it a politically correct thing or WHAT??? We are what we are, so let`s BE who we are!...if that makes any sense

 

JREMINATOR.
What's your deal?
Some black men on this site are saying they like white women but they ALSO like other women [including black women]. That does happen in the real world.

Why do you have a problem with that?

 

Ok...ok...I didn`t mean to make anyone mad Kev...but well, sometimes it doesn`t hurt to stir a bit of contrversy...constructively...right?

That is true, Kev, in the real world many men like most women anyway...of all colors and cultures...

I guess my problem is I feel that especially here in America, BM tend to try to drown their attraction to WW in "I like BW too" as if they were afraid of BW waiting for them at a corner with a big bat to beat them up if they ever admitted that they liked WW not only more, but also didn`t feel that strong of an attraction towards BW...I`ve seen many who feel that way...not many who admit it!

Fear of being called a sell-out? Fear of the so-called "social suicide"?Dunno...just wondering