What Is It About Older Black Men?

Of course there are women out there who are only looking for money, but if that's the only kind of women a man meets, he should reconsider what kind of women he's approaching and where/how he meets them, as well as what kind of signals he send out. There are plenty of women who don't care about how much a guy earns, as long as he's a kind, decent person.

I also feel like mentioning that personally, I'm completely turned of by men who brag about how much they make. It really makes me wonder if they've got nothing else to offer.

 

Nikki ~ I think I mis stated what I meant to say. My point was that there actually are men who are ok with men wanting them for their money (probably women too). Hey whatever floats their boat.

 

I can't agree with you more. I'm 41 but I'm not into the younger gals. I have a friend my age that love younger gals. He however, has been pretty immature his whole life. I'm not into younger females for some simple facts that they are not independent, most of them have small children (I don't need to raise anymore kids, I've raised 5 plus a stepchild) and most of them live at home. I love women between the ages of 35 - 45. Especially if she keeps herself curvy and thick! Yummy

 

hi everyone! let me just start out by saying i'm sorry- i didn't read all the posts- just kinda skimmed thru- but i loved the topic and wanted to throw out my 2 cents... i'm 33 and def attracted to bm in their late 30's and 40's and even older. gosh- i didn't reallly take the time to figure out why BUT i just love guys who like frankie beverly and the maze.... and gerald levert, etc. it's just so sexy lol. of course i like that they are not into playin games and are more mature. i like their style, their confidence, their desire to please. of course this is not just limited to older bm, but this is just my experience... i like bm who are closer to my ago too but there is just something about a man that's more experienced and really appreciates women and isn't in to all this game playing stuff... i will always be open minded though when it comes to age