What I love about Men/Women/Relationships

Ok, time for a straight up positive thread about what we feel about the opposite sex and relationships.

Absolutely NO negative posts allowed!

 

A start:

I love relationships - because I feel he has my back.. when you come together and it works, its a mental connection that does so much more than just physical and emotional attraction. Its a unity that makes you feel you can conquer anything, not be judged and face the day. Just a few words can make a bad day just vanish. A smile that makes you forget anything else. The voice soothes you and makes you warm. It makes you want to be better and make an effort. It brings out the best in you....

tbc

 

I love it when she leaves my room immediately after sex after spoiling me with a $1.75 gratitude for my service.

 

In a really good and stable relationship when lucky to be able to meet a person who is willing and able to take that path with me I appreciate many things.
His interest in what's going on in my life,and sometimes support even when it's by just giving me a hug when I need one,or just us looking in one another's eyes and seeing the reflection of emotions we have for one another.
The goose bumps I get from just a gentle touch of him-not even in a sexually intimate way,can be just a simple innocent touch that can "electrify" me and make me feel all warm and fuzzy hehe.
Knowing that there is someone to come home to or to really look forward to and who feels the same way about me.
Someone who introduces me to new things I may begin to enjoy and who I can also introduce to new things,broaden one another's horizon in many things,whether it's hobbies,art,culture or anything else.
Being with a person I can totally be myself around,no fear or shame.We can laugh & giggle together even when clumsy things happen to either of us,and it won't decrease the feelings or respect for one another.

 

Oh, come on GZ. Dont derail a positive thread right from the start hun.

Funny, yes.

 

I am not, you said post something positive. Checking out your room Madam, lol

 

LOL!

 

I enjoy someone that you can share the experiences of life with in a passionate way.

Your love for one another, your highs and lows of life.

Someone who accepts you for you as a man and in my case potential husband and father, with good moral values and character as a human being.

Someone I can share a nice dinner at a restaurant with or a home cooked meal, a romance or comedy, a walk in the park, sunset on the beach or visit to the museum.

The little things of life that make the heart beat faster in anticipation of each other.

A kiss leaves a tingle, a touch leaves a longing. We learn and experience new things from one another and exchange the intense passions of life and love.

She is my woman and I'm her man.

 

i love that he texts me first thing in the morning and throughout the day just to let me know he is thinking of me...i love that the more we get to know each other that common ground is found...i love that we are getting to a point where we trust each other to talk about sensitive subjects or can express a desire/fantasy without judgement...i love that everytime i hear his voice he takes my breath away...

 

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Very well stated. Love it. :smt023

 

What I like about a relationship is that you have someone to talk to.

 

i find that i'm more emotionally balanced in a relationship...they bring out the best in me. i have a certain calm to me but at the same time my head is in the clouds. there's nothing like knowing that someone will always have your back and will love you at your best and worst. that knowing look you give each other when you're in a crowded room, the inside jokes, knowing his body and never tiring of it.

 

The unscripted life that comes with being you. No masks to wear, no roles to play, and no scripts to recite. It is the beauty of everyday, where the mundane things count, and where you have the privilege to share it with someone, both of you partaking in the joys and drama of existence.

Sometimes, life comes with its challenges, its phases and its mean story lines, and in those times you wish you had someone who cared less what the story was, but cared more deeply about the person. It is like having a Siamese twin in an emotional universe where all that counts is the bond and feelings you both share.

 

This!!!!!!!!

 

You have different and several relationships during your life. But the only ones that are worthful are the ones, you can let youself fall. This person can read in your face, can understand your feelings and thoughts. When you look in his eyes, you can see his love; a man who protects you and this feeling is like a warm coat, because it's welcome. When I think about, what I can do to accelerate his success. When we have the wish to create something together. A man, who talks about" US" instead of "I". When he calls me, when he needs an advice and when I don't fear to do the same.When you don't mind about circumstances, how we live, where we live, because my home is with him. When I always need to touch him. His body is mine, my body is his and together we shoot us in unknown shperes. At the end to be "ONE"- and just the thought it could be finished sometimes-nearly kills me

 

Can we push up the wedding? :smt060

All of this for me, too...and something else I love is the way it feels to be wrapped in a man's arms when we fall asleep... it just feels so safe, warm, and wonderful.

 

I'm suppose to be giving up social networking for lent but this thread kind of spoke to me.
I can't honestly say what I love about relationships since I've yet to partake in healthy one but what I hope for is someone who comes to me with an open mind and an open heart. I want us to be friends above all else, someone who trusts me not only when things are easy but when they're difficult. Someone who judges all my actions and not just momentary misunderstandings. Someone who allows me to love them even when they don't love themselves and who is secure enough to know space doesn't mean space from them but space to myself.
I want a love that will create children and grandchildren. Summer vacations and backyard bbqs. Long walks filled with laughter and senseless conversations.

Damn this is therapeutic lol

 

THIS!!!!

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wow...what a blessing to have a deep thinker on the site able to express himself so beautifully:smt023

 

I absolutely co-sign this. You've summed it up perfectly. It's often the simple things that matter the most. And I love what you said about space.