what do white women love about black men?

I'm guessing she's between 18-21. And it's telling that she responded to this thread and the fetish one first.

Which leads me to another point- She's too young for you, MF!! LOL I have already warned you!

 

Because their dads hated them...LOL
Thanks for hating tha Brothas, dads!!

 

First of all 21 is definitely not too young to play with lol.
Second I agree with you on everything else kid.

 

That's so true. I've yet to date one girl who had a good relationship with her dad.
Wow not even the girls I just hooked up with. That's a really good point fame I wonder if any of the other dudes have.

 

REALLY? I don't understand how that works. I have a great relationship with my dad! He's a wonderful man and I admire and respect him very much. I thought that was common for women, though!

My mom, on the other hand....:-/

 

/facepalm

 

Actually I meant that the fathers hated Black Men.
The majority of White Women I have dated had very prejudiced fathers and that's why they date Black Men.
Well...a large part of why...

 

Oh. Yeah, my dad doesn't care. He just wants me to be happy. My mother is the one who cares. I told her to put on her big girl panties and deal.

 

Amazing. The only time I got away with that was in hs and her dad was cool with me because he went to my hs. Her mother on the other hand flipped out daily and we were only 14 at the time

 

My family are very supportive, no one raises an eyebrow or breaks a sweat at my Marriage/Dating preferences.
If they did I'd lose respect for them.

They also never get involved in any issues with my Ex or boyfriend I happen to have, they wouldn't dream of butting in or even throwing a dirty look, they know i wouldn't want that.

I'm lucky to have such a family really.

 

My bad I should have been clear. I was referring to American ww. You Euros seem to be far more open minded.

 

All those parents help do is make the sex even hotter from a forbidden taboo, lust and desire factor.

The more you tell someone not to do something the more curious they are about it.

Tell a child not to touch something and soon as your back is turned, voila they will likely touch it, curiosity gets the best of them.

 

I agree with this, and it's something I've thought quite a bit about. However, no one ever explicitly said "Little DB, only date white guys!" but it was always implied by the sheer number of racist jokes some of my family members told. As I got older, I started to see BM as FAR more attractive than my WM counterparts, and saying so earned me some serious teasing from the kids in my class.

Once I hit college, however, it was ALLLLLLLL over.

 

lol just like i told you about daddys little "aryan beauties" i know back home in the us, if their parents knew what they get up too they would go ape shit, give em something else to march about in their little NSM

 

As someone who exposes myself to so many different cultures, I realize that there are cool people all across the board.

So it comes down to what personally interests us. Some folks give in to social pressure and limit themselves. I've known brothas that said such and such white girls were interested in them, but those women were always self conscious of family perception and what others would think so they backed off.

 

ROFL, I know this happens a lot in the South, those little Georgia peaches, Bama beauties, along with other places such as Florida and Tennessee.

Given the mindset in the South that some folks can't let go of when it comes to race issues, you can imagine what those women must have heard about blacks from the "good ole boys".

So once they leave their small towns and are around black guys in college especially, as DB said above, it's ALLLLLLLL over.

Akin to the NY Times story about the segregated prom in Georgia that I posted previously, http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/24/magazine/24prom-t.html

One of the students prophetically commented on the prom being segregated "Half of those girls, when they get home, they’re gonna text a black boy and You think there aren’t going to be black boys at college?”

 

Well, GQ, you are fortunate. Did you grow up in NYC?

Around here, people are little less exposed and cultured. Growing up, my lack of dating BM was less about not giving in to social pressure and more about the fact that the thought hadn't really crossed my mind- I wasn't really aware of that desire for awhile. I didn't really have many crushes- and the ones I did were for teachers- of which I had no BM teachers (come to think of it- that's pretty fucked up..right?).

I had black friends- male and female- in high school, but the undercurrent was in favor of segregation. I only interacted with those students in the clubs I participated in..French Club, Drama Club, Academic Decathlon (yes, nerd, remember?), and a few others. I never put together that the teasing from a few friends about the guys I had a crush on had much to do with skin color- for me, it registered as "Ooohh...DB likes a BOY and we have to razz her for it!" (jerks! lol).

Also- in my HS, the only interracial couple we had were the subject of scandal because she got pregnant senior year and I'm not kidding when I say she was pretty much the ONLY pregnant chick in the entire school. Kids would whisper behind her back that it was A's baby, and isn't it interesting that she was with HIM... and I'd be there going 'Have you SEEN A.? He's friggin' HOT!!' but still felt a little icky about it (I also have to add that they are still together 10 years later, married, and have had more kids since- good for them).

It wasn't until recently that I was able to look back on those years and really understand what it was that was happening, which is why I say that it was never explicit- but for awhile, I suppose, it was pretty clear.

I do think that my traveling had something to do with my awareness for being attracted to different men in general. I was 12 when I went to Spain for the first time, and the darker skin of the delightful Spaniards was a thing of beauty to my newly pubescent self. When I was 16, I went on a cruise with my family in the Mediterranean and there was a man there who was Hispanic and Black. He was on the crew and cleaned our cabin every day. He'd come and spend time with me, and even invite me to do stuff. My poor 16 year old self didn't know what hit me- I wanted him SO bad, and my parents had no idea that he was making the moves on me in private. LOL

Anyway, my point is that yes- I do think that being exposed to different people and cultures makes a difference. I'm gonna shut up now. lol

It is still really bad down there. When I dated my exBF, we got kicked out of a gas station because they realized that he was with the white girl and they refused to serve us. Seriously. We were buying gas, a bottle of water, and a lighter. Benign, right?

This happened in North Carolina in 2006. I was floored.

 

I assume the above poster was just here for a second, but I've only dated BM and with no disrespect to the upstanding bruthas, I've had dudes who I've dated try and talk to my friends. I think that's just an all-around asshole thing in every race (and this includes women too).