what do white women love about black men?

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  1. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    GQ Brotha, Jan 31, 2011
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  2. naija4real

    naija4real New Member


    I had posted earlier before it occurred to me I should have asked the question, was having the baby your sole decision. Did you also discuss having babies while dating the guy and did he agree he was for it, or he wasn't, and was the pregnancy an oops ?
     
    naija4real, Jan 31, 2011
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  3. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I guess you could say it was an "oops thing". At 19 years old I would've been crazy to actually decide to intentionally get pregnant. Basically we were both young, stupid, horny & not as careful as we should've been. I have no regrets about having my son, though. Having him was the only option imo. I'm not going to kill a baby just because it's inconvenient to have one. My stupid bf wanted me to put the baby up for adoption, but there's no way I could've done that either.
     
    Tamstrong, Jan 31, 2011
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  4. Tirkah

    Tirkah Active Member

    You make abortion sound like it's a trip to a candy store.

    Even if abortion was an option, which BTW she made clear it wasn't, do you really expect her to say to her 19 yr old son, "hey, I contemplated aborting you and here you are now"?

    I must be slow cause I really don't get your motive.
     
    Tirkah, Jan 31, 2011
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  5. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

    Come on mods, you're too slow, don't wait for something ugly to go down. Time to flush, this is a no-brainer. I may have to contact webbie and get my badge back if this keeps up.
     
    Sir Nose, Jan 31, 2011
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  6. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    The tell-tale Imanuela sign. Please put this bitch out of our misery.

    As I already said, you stupid cunt, I DID NOT WANT TO KILL MY BABY!!!

    She's a crazy bitch.

    This.
     
    Tamstrong, Jan 31, 2011
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  7. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME BEING A SUCK-ASS; YOU AIN'T CONVINCING ANYBODY.
     
    Tamstrong, Jan 31, 2011
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  8. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    The situation is under control.
     
    Tony Soprano, Jan 31, 2011
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  9. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Allow me to do it for you.

    Buh-bye.
     
    Tony Soprano, Jan 31, 2011
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  10. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member


    :smt039
     
    JordanC, Jan 31, 2011
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  11. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    AMF :smt039
     
    Tamstrong, Jan 31, 2011
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  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thank you, Tony! :smt058
     
    Tamstrong, Jan 31, 2011
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  13. MissWacy

    MissWacy New Member

    i wonder what wonders that psycho will bring next time
     
    MissWacy, Jan 31, 2011
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  14. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Whatever she brings, it won't be anything new. She's pretty consistent with her MO. ;)
     
    Tamstrong, Jan 31, 2011
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  15. MissWacy

    MissWacy New Member

    no more sues i hope haha
     
    MissWacy, Jan 31, 2011
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  16. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Hahaha!

    I hope not...she doesn't exactly have the best taste in "sues".
     
    Tamstrong, Jan 31, 2011
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  17. naija4real

    naija4real New Member


    I wholeheartedly agree with you.Isn't it funny that we sometimes play God on this notion of convenience? I guess it is convenient to think we have full control over our lives and the future.

    You know I read a commencement speech of Steve Jobs at Standford some years back, and he talked about his mother giving him up for adoption because she was too busy with her postgraduate degree to have room for a kid. Maybe if she was able to see into the future she would have reconsidered that decision. On the other hand, maybe if she did not give him up we would never have had Steve Jobs or Apple, no one knows.

    Still, it makes good sense to argue that if she were faced with the same options, she would not give up her child . Hindsight they say is 50/50...but with this sort of knowledge about potential of kids like Jobs many would brace the odds and do the right thing.

    That does not mean I do not respect the right of women to make choices about their bodies and their future, but I have enormous respect for the woman that can damn the consequence and call the bluff of society.

    You are a very special woman, Tamstrong. I mean it, you are one special woman.
     
    naija4real, Feb 1, 2011
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  18. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thank you so much for the sweet, wonderful compliment, Naija. I appreciate you. :smt058

    I honestly made the only choice I could've made for myself in the situation. I'd gotten myself into it & it was my responsibility to deal with the consequences of my choices. I only did what I believed I had to do. I believe that until they come of age, we are responsible to God for our children, & I didn't want to rely on a stranger adopting him (if he could've gotten adopted) to take that responsibility as seriously as they should.

    Sometimes though, the children are much better off, like in the example you used. There's a strong likelihood that Steve Jobs wouldn't have turned out the way he had, but of course, there's no way to really know. There are also parents with children who have no business with them who neglect, abuse & destroy them ruining their lives, so adoption is without a doubt a good option for those children. Obviously I don't agree with abortion (for myself), but I also don't agree with people who claim we have the right to judge others for making that choice. It's not my place to judge. I do pray though, for the women I've known who've made that choice, because it caused them a great deal of heartache. I hate to see anyone suffer.
     
    Tamstrong, Feb 1, 2011
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  19. ambershere

    ambershere New Member

    how hot r black men

    well i date men exclusively because they treat me with total respect,dont flirt with other bitches..they have an air of manlyness that most white guys dont....the sex is always totally awesome...hell they always make me feel special
     
    ambershere, Feb 11, 2011
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  20. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    How old r u?
     
    The Dark King, Feb 11, 2011
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