what do white women love about black men?

Why WW love Black Males

I think WW each have their own personal reasons, and, of course, not all WW love black men (especially those who have never hooked up with me. Just kidding, some WW I've 'dated' didn't like me, and told me so. Fair enough, I appreciate honesty and I hate games).

Being in a prestigious college has given me the opportunity to date a lot of intelligent articulate white women (as opposed to trailer trash). I have always asked them why they were willing to cross 'the line'. I found that most intelligent white women raised in affluent families don't see any line, whether their families were Democrat or Republican. They went to expensive private schools with intelligent blacks whose parents were doctors, lawyers, judges and politicians who knew proper grammar and were polite and courteous. As I and the women I date have matured and enjoyed more intimate relationships, I have found that they developed other, more sensual, preferences for black males, but that is not as important as being a caring, sensitive, understanding male. That is the way we males should all be to all women all the time. Women, all women, don’t need attitude, they often rely on your strength and courage, but they don’t want a thug. Not ever black male has had the advantages I have had, and if they continue to act like thugs, they and their children never will. Being a man is not being the toughest thug in the toughest gang. Being a true man is shouldering responsibility and carrying the biggest load you can handle. This is not a prejudiced nation. Maybe it is harder for you than it has been for a black man like me or some white boy, but my father did it. Don’t wimp out, be the best man you can be. The only people holding down the Blacks of America are the Blacks of America. Rise up and meet the challenge. Only you can do it, no white man can give it to you. I can guarantee you that every man, white or black, suffers unfair treatment at work, or on the street, or from their wife (unless you married a WW). Show the world what we are made of, show them the goodness that lies beneath. Find strength, courage, wisdom and grace within yourself. Embrace the blessing you have and move forward day by day. Change comes slowly.

I’ve drifted off topic here. To get back to WW, some young ones do it just to annoy daddy, or assert their independence or out of curiosity. Some do it because they think they owe it to the poor oppressed black race. Some do it for drugs, some to it because their pisssed off at a boyfriend or husband. Some do it because nobody else asked them out. Some do it because it seems exciting. Some do it because they heard blacks are the best lovers. Some do it because white boys stop asking them out after they find out they’ve done a black or two. And if you really want a WW, stop looking in the trash can.

 

You can't be serious.

 

... and some WW just fel in love with a _man_ that just happend to be black... U forgot that one most important reason why WW date BM, no???

 

Wow. This thread got really interesting all of a sudden.:mrgreen:

 

Maybe Tyrone9in has something to do w/ it? :lol:

 

Like dude, what region are you from?

 

racist site.

 

I checked out the site. The place is full of retards.

 

The beginning of your post doesn't match the ending.

 

But seriously folks.

LOS ANGELES: You can't be serious.

I have never been totally serious. To be totally honest, I'm bipolar. So you can usually take half of what I say and toss it in the garbage can.
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Flyingeek ... and some WW just fel in love with a _man_ that just happend to be black... U forgot that one most important reason why WW date BM, no???

Yes, LOVE, that is, without any doubt, the most important reason and hopefully the most common one, especially in those relationships that last.

Some of that I said was stereotypical crap and I apologize (see my final sentence).

Some people, both men and women, don't always start with the highest motivations, but grow to become better people. Sometimes our mistakes cause our biggest breakthroughs and are the best teachers in life. You never really know how things will work out. A woman could have an affair out of anger and find true love. Her former husband could realize he was an ass, and become a better man. A friend once told me he had a tryst with a married WW and was caught. The woman admitted she set it up so they would be caught. The husband realized he had not done everything he should to make her happy and feel loved. The couple's relationship was actually strengthened, and everybody benefited. Now I can't recommend trying what he did, it could have ended up a murder-suicide

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CBQ: The beginning of your post doesn't match the ending.

My post was beginning to sound like a sermon, So I decided to act like a total moron just to mix it up a bit and confuse people.

 

Aiight so you got a lil wisdom, but you still a rookie.

 

The Rookie

You're 100% right, and I modestly thank you if you meant any part of what you said as a compliment. I thank you for helping me to be a the most understanding person that I can be, but there are some things I do not want to understand, like hate, selfishness, greed... and the list goes on. The fact is I am a rookie; I even want to die a rookie - a naive foolish rookie.

I had a friend in the King family, a cousin. He died in my arms. Not from a gun shot, but from heart failure at a track meet. He always had seemed to me to be the man of Martin's dream speech. He worked mostly among whites, actually white women, but that's beside the point. He was as nice and gentle as any person I have ever met, and everyone genuinely liked him, and most didn’t know be was related to MLK. He way very passive and soft spoken, polite and friendly. On his birthday everyone, male and female, black and white would give him a hug or a kiss. On several occasions at track meets I was his room mate. Some of his West coast friends set him up with dates. There were so many blonds in the room, I had to leave to make space for them. Some people might call him a foolish rookie. That’s the man I’d like I would love to die as, even if I never find myself in a room full of California blonds.

 

That would describe my friend, Heidi. Thought she'd have some fun by dating a black man against her dad's wishes and wound up having a kid with the guy.

 

I don't get that to annoy their father thing.
Seems like a bit of an odd reason... besides, my dad wouldn't care who I dated at all.

 

That would not be rookie. Most people don't understand hate,selfishness, greed...that is why most people are hateful, selfish, and greedy. I'm sure that you see how your quest to become like your friend is self-hateful, selfish and greedy.
Not trying to be mean, just saying. Carry on :smt023

 

I think it's an American thing. They all seem to want to get back at their daddies
Nah, seriously though, my stepdad doesn't give a crap about the race of a guy. I'm not allowed to go out with Scousers though

 

What is wrong w/ Scousers?

 

As a black man who has never lived in a ghetto or a high-crime area I can sympathize with the people who used to live in those areas or still live in those areas. I don't think I could ever live in those areas due to the high crime that occurs often but crime also happens in other areas other than the ghetto as well. I don't agree with you that most white women admire the thug lifestyle because from where I live in Blue Springs, Mo most white women are really turned off by thugs and have no attraction to all the thugs period. In fact most of the Kansas City area black men that are into the thug lifestyle or live in the ghetto really have no interest in white women at all and they prefer to be with black women. This is coming from them and not the other class of educated black men who like white women for what they are as women. Most white people period could never ever live in Harlem or the ghetto at all because they would be too afraid of the high crime that happens there and they would worry too much about their kids whereabouts and keep tabs on them. In the predominatly black ghettoes (their are other races of people who live in the ghetto as well) there is much racism against whites living there but there is more black on black crime than there is black on white crime. What I am trying to say is that thug lifestyle is no life for anyone to live period because it either gets you shot, beat up, dead, or in jail. I think the black community as well as other communities need to understand and recognize that those lifestyles start with the individual and the type of people who they choose to be friends. If you want to be friends with a thug then things are required of you to get into the group. It is like the popular saying that "Birds of a Feather Flock Together". We tend to become like the people we hang around and associate with on a regular basis. I would never want to live a thug life nor do I wish to do illegal drugs or anything of that sort. As long as I am doing something good and not trying to harm myself or others that is all that should matters. So these white women who like thugs will come to a rude awakening someday and find out that the thugs are not acceptable to them.

 

What is a Scouser?

 

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