what do they do to turn you off?

OMG nooooo. Who in their right mind thinks that's attractive?? I'm not a big jewelry-on-men fan anyways but someone outfitted in gold like that...I couldn't take him seriously, ever. At all lol.

:smt043

 

"How'd he take a shit wearing all that gold?"

 

Me too. I grew up on that movie! "One. Rib."

 

It was great

 

Being needy is a huge turnoff for me. I don't want to be the only thing on a woman's mind. Hell, I don't even want to be in her top five.

 

That.....it also scares me.

 

Yes...being needy/possessive is a huge turn off for me. I mean, I'd like to be "needed and wanted" by a man, but not the only thing he thinks about. That's where "stalker tendencies" come in...lol.

 

Women who use the nasty ass public restrooms in McDonald's and the likes in major cities downtown areas

 

Spit in public, eat/talk with their mouth open, cutting me off mid sentence, can't freak like a pornstar.

 

Hangs out with friends too much, I don't wanna feel like the third wheel in my own relationship.

Materialistic

Too family/ culture oriented, I'm not going to kiss another man on the lips I don't care about your family traditions.

 

I feel u

 

Amen!

Sadly for me, I was raised in a family where it's practically considered offensive to be anything but defeatist. It's something that I fight against in my own psyche to this day.

Problems have solutions. People who only harp on the problems without suggesting solutions are just soaking everyone around them in a pessimistic worldview...defeat becomes self-fulfilling that way.

Other turnoffs --

- know everything + curious about nothing + sound just like everybody else... (that combo is boring as hell...)

- giant ego + deep insecurities (means I gotta walk on eggshells... too many topics are off limits... I can't take that!)

- long toenails ('nuff said.)

- always late, can never keep to plan... (ghetto-ass like that, no thanks)

 

Taking too many selfies.

 

Airheads.

 

I <3 this lol. I hate airheads but I hate even more, intellectually capable women pretending to be airheads because they think it's cute. They get the side eye from me every time lol

 

For me the biggest and most crucial turnoffs a woman could have are.

1.wants children

2.wants to get married

3.wants to co-habitating

I don't want any of these things ever, no point wasting each others time. I find out quick if she wants any of those things, we are not a match. Needless to say I have a small dating pool lol.