what BM want.

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Dec 9, 2011.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    From my POV and its ruff to paint a broad brush and then I may not hit on everything but here is a list of what BM wants in a relationship:

    1) a woman who is about her business. meaning she is about helping the man stack the money and get out of debt so both can enjoy life.

    2) be about business again in a sense of making sure her man is romantically satisfied. do things such as sexy convo on the phone, sexy dresses, role playing if he likes it or whatever that is in reason. its ok to try new thangs just make sure you dont degrade yourself or make yourself feel bad afterwards. if it does tell him dont do it again. if he is a man he wouldnt start or he would stop.

    3) keep the house tight. yeah its neanderthalish but a dude wants to come home to a clean house and a well cooked meal. trust me the man will trow in a hand to help you. Hell a bro will learn how to cook if you are a good woman. he will cook if he knows already.

    4) no drama. Yeah, you gonna have disagreements but to be all up in a dudes ear for something every single day.... that will run a dude off. we can discuss things in an intelligent manner if we disagree. trust me we know we can fuck up some shit.


    if you keep these things in mind then a man would run red lights and stops signs , to get home to you. he will kill bears and lions for you. hell, if you help him get out of debt he will take you on trips, leave you exhausted with all kinds of gifts and what not. trust me.

    Im sure the bros can add on and Im sure the women may take me to task for this but it is what it is.
     
    goodlove, Dec 9, 2011
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  2. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    Wow. You really like tempting fate, don't you goodlove? :smt005
     
    Sin Mari, Dec 9, 2011
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  3. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Well, I'm pretty simple. Respect my school/work requirements and don't be needy/narcissistic/manipulative. Period. I can deal with most other defects, including my own.
     
    orejon4, Dec 9, 2011
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  4. swirlman07

    swirlman07 Well-Known Member

    OY, Oh boy...lol
     
    swirlman07, Dec 9, 2011
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  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL. you are toooo much. LOL:p:smt057:D

    just keeping it real
     
    goodlove, Dec 9, 2011
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  6. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    ;)
     
    Sin Mari, Dec 9, 2011
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  7. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    You would think #4 would be number #1.
     
    archangel, Dec 10, 2011
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  8. xoxo

    xoxo Well-Known Member

    This is the kind of silly shit you used to post when you first joined. :)
     
    xoxo, Dec 10, 2011
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  9. z

    z Well-Known Member

    A warm soup, a fried chicken, an orange soda, & a jucy WW thigh.
     
    z, Dec 10, 2011
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  10. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    I like that list!!:smt049
     
    saintaugusta, Dec 10, 2011
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  11. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    A petite blonde that is great at giving head.:prayer:
     
    Iggy, Dec 10, 2011
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  12. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    A woman who can cook a mean meal and hold a decent conversation and if she is white she must have an ass like Nyx's.
     
    APPIAH, Dec 11, 2011
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  13. Wunword

    Wunword New Member

    Love
     
    Wunword, Dec 11, 2011
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  14. Ms. J

    Ms. J Well-Known Member

    :smt038
     
    Ms. J, Dec 12, 2011
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  15. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    lol thanks for the laugh:D
     
    Stheno, Dec 12, 2011
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  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL:p
     
    goodlove, Dec 12, 2011
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  17. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    goodlove, Dec 12, 2011
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