What attracts you to the other Race, then your own?

What's yours?

 

FFS!!

 

I think it's more that I'm not unattracted to other races.

 

Sounds like you're doing a research project. We're not lab rats...

 

I know, but it sounds like it with the questions you're asking.

I understand you're having trouble with your identity, but especially having mostly US citizens on this board, we're dealing with a different kind of history. One that doesn't agree with our union. We're the most hated union in the world. That's not to lessen your background, but it's very different.

Well, you can't help what happened in the past. You are who you are.

 

Indian culture is extremely segregated and exclusive, so it's no wonder you're having issues. I think it is commendable that you are reaching out and really thinking about other cultures and possibly dating interracially. A lot of Indian men will only just screw around with white women but will almost always (in my experience) go back to their historical ways/religion/culture. It seems that family has huge control over your movements, and sometimes I have felt sorry for my Indian friends because they didn't necessarily get to marry for love. There are so many family expectations to live up to. At the same time, I admire Indian culture greatly because of the network of loyalty and support... you are never alone and you always have connections. It must be so nice.

I am glad you're here, Hero!

 

I don't know where you live, but it sounds like you need to surround yourself with other multicultural/multi-ethnic/multiracial people. That way you know you're not alone.

 

Love and marriage in modern American society is (almost) a wholly selfish act.
Yes there can be family pressures, but if two people are compatible from an educational and socioeconomic background, few adults that I know are going to let a frown or discouraging word from a parent instruct their life choice in a mate.

Many Koreans and Chinese from what I've seen have intense family pressure to have their future husband/wife approved of my their parents.

 

Personally I think there are no wrong things to discuss.

I have been fascinated by Gypsy culture for some time - I don't know if it's the hippie/artist in me, or having a wild heart, (some romanticized notion), plus the idea of an unknown identity and/or struggle or what... you might want to read a book called "Bury Me Standing" by Isabel Fonseca, which I have in my book collection...also one called "The Gypsies" by Jan Yoors...

 

Right, don't worry about it. If you're pursuing this for the right reasons and intentions, it will be no big deal at all.

I honestly think if we were all animals with a male/female species (squirrels, turtles, etc) instead of humans, there would be no major problems at all.

 

How can you say "very different"? I have found more in common with some Black men as friends or lovers than I have with some White men. Seriously. I mean soul mate commonalities where the color difference dissipates very quickly.

Dealing with hate/and or identity issues perpetuates because of mind-sets like yours that I bolded. It's a vicious circle.

LOL @ you calling it victim. Smh.

 

Trolls will be trolls will be trolls

 

Im not attracted to "other races", I am attracted to men, "race" is not a part of my dating criteria.


So you are not Indian after all, really.
No wonder you have "issues", Rroma really arent treated well in Europe in general. But I dont really understand your issue w integration, I dont see that as the underlying issue with your situation but that is just me.

 

I have been around a lot of white growing up. It's naive to think that that wouldn't impact my preference in beauty.

Not to say mine is right or wrong. I'm not sure. I'm strongly attracted to caucasian features. I've even noticed here in Texas. I am around a lot of Hispanic Mexicans and I find myself more attracted to the ones with caucasian features.

I still like other types of women. I have moved around a lot and seen different cultures. I guess part of me is an international black man

 

This is probably that Gunga Din motherfucker from England who got banned a year or two ago.

 

trolling aint easy

 

What attracts me to ww is their bubbly personality, blonde hair, beautiful eyes (green or blue)

 

Physically - Thick, white bubble butts

Emotionally - Feminine, classy, cultured

 

Hmm were we separated at birth?