what are your personal "red flags" when dating?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by smoothman, Jan 20, 2011.

  1. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    lol...i have some trashy friends, doesn't mean that any man dating me is in for trouble though
     
  2. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member




    Highlighted portion is true generally speaking where Tarshi is concerned. No trashy friends are needed. :smt080
     
  3. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    lmao...!!!!

    lil ol me trouble...??? pure as the driven snow am i ra ra :smt083
     
  4. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    What's that you say?? You like using hand cuffs, hot candle wax, nipple clamps, gags and various types of paddles on brothers?? DAMN!! You're hardcore. :shock:
     
  5. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    haven't used nipple clamps (my fingers do the trick) nor gags, but willing to if asked :smt039
     
  6. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    :prayer:
     
  7. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    You never cease to impress me with the way your lovely mind works. :smt003
     
  8. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    lol...that's cause your mind is usually on the same track...!!! :smt047
     
  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    LOL...so very true. :smt045
     
  10. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    A woman with a designer bag is almost a oxymoron. You will be hard pressed to find a woman who rocks those types of bags with a save money mentality.

    Posters of celebs is a maturity issue for me. These chicks aren't relationship material and are quick to move on to the next impressionable guy.

    Pittsburgh's public tranportation is pretty decent compared to the rest of the country but almost everyone just gotta have a car no matter the cost. People taking out 7 year auto loans with 8% or more interest rates lol Or trying to stunt with the german autos but can't afford the warranties, start crying when they find out it costs $700 for a simple window repair.

    Abortion is her B, I find people who use abortion as birth control some of the lowest of the low people their is. Absolutely not to be trusted.

    Works an entry level job but is looking for a financially secure man, she's just looking for a free ride. Once he Wife's her I bet you she quits her job with some BS excuse like "I can't do this no more" or "I'm going back to school" Yeah "I'm going back to school" sounds ligitimate until you see her dragging your ass in a deep hole of debt because she keeps switching her mind about potential careers.

    The young woman in my age bracket who I speak of who posts these assortment of pictures of different (generic) places they've been are really competing with each other to show who's "living the life".
     
    Last edited: Jan 27, 2011
  11. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    I co-sign this post to the fullest extent. Sounds like you dealt with some looney's during your lifetime.

    Been in abusive relationship

    Ex is a drug dealer or a druggie

    Get's overly excited during tax time

    Has nothing to talk about on the phone or in person but gives you the world via texting.

    Every guy seems to know her while you guys are out and about.

    Wears revealing clothing no matter the occassion.

    Tattoo's on the neck, palms, or face.

    She is best friends with her kids.

    Always talking shit on everyone and everything.

    The inability to laugh at oneself.

    Seems like everyone is watching her child but her.

    Calling you pet names (baby, honey, Daddy, etc) when you just met...Saying I love you within a week of knowing each other.

    Thinks all women are jealous or "hating" on her.

    "I'm naturally flirty"

    Could never get into contact with her until she wants something.
     
  12. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Damn that brings your dating pool down to damn near zero
     
  13. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I'm sure his wife is glad he's got nobody to date.
     
  14. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    :shock:
     
  15. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member

    I'll take that to mean you didn't know he was married. And you will especially love this part....to a sister at that. Or so he says....
     
  16. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    LOL. I don't find much to be shocked about with his suspect ass anymore. What's also interesting is that he's on a forum for/about ww & bm & his wife isn't white. I feel sorry for the woman...she probably has no idea what he's even been up to on this forum. It's a damn shame.
     
  17. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    :shock:
     
  18. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    :shock:
     
  19. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    i don't know what it is...but that smiley always makes me think of knockers
     
  20. thefieryphoenix

    thefieryphoenix Active Member

    You have a dirty mind. LOL First nipple clamps, now knockers. LOL I like the way you think. :smt029:smt029
     

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